infj is one of the rarest personality types in the  world infjs are generally patient polite gentle  

and understanding they're very selfless and have a  tendency to be empathetic to everyone around them  

although there are a lot of things that infjs  can tolerate there are also a few things that  

they cannot stand at all once an infj reaches  their limit of patience they'll refuse to take  

any more negativity in today's video we'll  give you a number of things and habits that  

infjs just can't tolerate before we proceed  don't forget to click the subscribe button  

and give this video a thumbs up so without any  further ado let's begin our video one fights  

be careful with the path you want to take up  when it comes to expressing your disagreement  

with an infj the one thing that infjs are for is  fighting and conflicts these unhealthy discussions  

and conflicts are something infjs really hate  they're all up for discussions and disagreements  

is a normal way but if there's any tension that  causes strain in relationships infjs will run in  

the opposite direction these fights take a toll  on their physical health as well if you see an  

infj feeling sick tired and fatigued it may  have something to do with a fight they've had  

you can discuss your disagreements calmly without  them getting worried but the moment you start  

fighting they will back off and may never want  to see you again 2. staying on the surface the  

major requirement of an infj from anyone is a  real connection if you share a bond with them it  

should be something of importance to you infjs do  not like talking about the weather or small talk  

if you force them to stay in a restricted zone  that only involves the surface of your personality  

they'll probably want to give up on you infjs  like to be real and honest about everything  

from discussing everyday small  issues to the deeper meaning of life  

everything genuine is their favorite but if  there's something between the two of you that  

keeps you from diving in deeper it could be very  hard to continue the relationship or friendship  

this applies to everyone around them including  friends and partners while infjs may never want  

to break your heart they will also not tolerate  your emotional unavailability for too long and  

cut you off once they're done with something  you can't change their mind three negativity  

infjs appreciate positive criticism if you bring a  solution to the table after pointing out a problem  

in their personality or way of working you will  earn yourself an admirer on the other hand if  

you have nothing positive to say other than a  few negative words or unnecessary criticisms  

they'll run in the opposite direction infjs  know that they're not perfect self-awareness  

makes them stronger and they know exactly  the kind of guidance they need in their lives  

they'll gladly take any criticism that's  been worded politely and thoughtfully  

but won't tolerate whining that brings no change  so if you are a positive influence and help them  

learn they'll cherish your bond forever and make  sure you remain in touch but if an infj shuts you  

out after some time know that you've been bringing  negativity to their lives if you're still enjoying  

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don't make them compromise their values there's  one thing that everyone needs to know about infjs  

they're extremely mindful of their actions and  know beforehand the consequences of what they do  

that also have a strong feeling of responsibility  towards how things should be done in order for  

the harmony to be kept intact this sense of  responsibility comes with strong moral values if  

you're the boss that makes them go against their  values or if you're the partner that requires them  

to make a compromise on their moral stances  you will definitely disliked by an infj it's  

not possible for them to maintain a relationship  with anyone who is influencing the way they see  

the world idealism may seem wrong to you but it  is the sole reason for an infj to have faith in  

themselves they strive to be better people because  they care about the world and everything in it  

if you try to take that away from them well an  infj will definitely dislike you 5. invading  

their space perhaps this is the most important  of all infjs like to spend some time in solitude  

every now and then it's important for them to  recharge themselves after tiring socialization  

or even working regularly in such situations it's  necessary for you to give them the space they need  

if they want to sit in the garden and stare at  the grass let them do it if you keep following  

them around force them to talk and repeatedly  ask the reasons for them isolating themselves  

they'll eventually start disliking your presence  infjs take their break before resuming their  

everyday routine the more you leave them alone  to take their break the quicker they'll return  

if you're a friend or a partner know that  they will open up to you if they want to  

pushing them into talking when they want to  spend some time with themselves is not how  

you earn their love it's how you lose it so that's  all for now if you found this video helpful make  

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