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  • 00:18

    So, if you re stepping on my toe and I forgive you, you mean it won t hurt?

  • 00:25

    Many experiences that I had, growing up in New York City, riding the subways, which very often would be very

  • 00:30

    crowded, and it d be impossible not to be jostled or have your feet stepped on or smashed,

  • 00:36

    and New York is somewhat deservedly have the reputation of not really caring (it's not

  • 00:42

    always the case), but if you if somebody steps on your foot and they quickly turn to you

  • 00:49

    and say, I m very, very sorry, I guarantee you it would hurt less than if they had not

  • 00:54

    only stepped on your foot but pushed you down to rush out of the exit door.

  • 01:00

    I mean it sincerely because in that moment that I'm forgiving you I'm experiencing something differently

  • 01:06

    than I would have had I been angry and upset and judging and, you know, suppressed it or

  • 01:12

    whatever I did with it, and so, but in that moment I'd have to have a holy instant in

  • 01:17

    order to forgive because I couldn't really do it of myself. The holy instant would, in

  • 01:25

    that moment, would be you're asking Jesus or the Holy Spirit to help you not take this

  • 01:30

    personally. I mean, that's really what we are talking about. You don't take what appears

  • 01:35

    to be an attack personally even though it may be meant as an attack by the other person.

  • 01:39

    Okay, thank you. Let me just elaborate a little on that, on the idea of not taking it personally.

  • 01:47

    That's that basically is what it means to forgive, is that you don't make the connection

  • 01:53

    that the ego would have you make between the other person's attack, whether it's a verbal

  • 01:59

    attack or physical attack, and yourself. Helen had a number of experiences. I recorded them

  • 02:07

    in my book, but one, which is a very, very classic one in terms of this is that she and

  • 02:15

    this might have occurred before the Course started actually even, but she lived in an

  • 02:20

    apartment building in New York City and there was a bedroom on the floor above her, and

  • 02:27

    there was a woman who had the very annoying habit (from Helen s point of view) about midnight

  • 02:32

    would start walking around her bedroom on the wood floor (no carpet) in her high heels.

  • 02:37

    And Helen would have to get to bed at a reasonable hour because she had to wake up early to get

  • 02:41

    to the medical center, and she would she'd be storming in her mind, and stewing, and

  • 02:45

    really furious at this woman for being so insensitive, and she was thinking of all kinds

  • 02:51

    of things she would do. And at some point in the midst of her raging (internal raging)

  • 02:56

    she said, Well, the problem really is that I think there s a cord that connects her high

  • 03:01

    heels with my head so that I think she's stomping on my head and, if that's the case, all I

  • 03:09

    have to do is cut the cord. So being a very visual person as well as an auditory person,

  • 03:15

    she took out a scissors in her mind and cut the cord, and went right to sleep. Now, the

  • 03:22

    stories are not always so simple, clear cut, or have as happy an ending happy an ending

  • 03:26

    as that did but the principle is very clear. The problem was the interpretation she made,

  • 03:32

    and what was really galling her was not so much the sound of the heels on the floor but

  • 03:38

    the idea that this woman would be so insensitive and unthinking and uncaring, and that's what

  • 03:45

    did it. It s the same thing in the example I just gave about the crowded subway, somebody

  • 03:49

    steps on your foot but apologizes quickly, it doesn't hurt as much as if the person was

  • 03:54

    very callous about it and blamed you for it. Why'd you stick your foot under my foot? etcetera,

  • 04:03

    and in a sense that s what forgiveness is all about. You restore the appropriate causal

  • 04:09

    connection. The reason I'm upset, the reason I'm tossing and turning in my bed is not because

  • 04:15

    of what the woman is doing or this person did or what the person said or anything else.

  • 04:20

    It's because I m making a connection...a false connection, a false causal connection between

  • 04:26

    that person and me, and that's an interpretation; that's not a fact. The Course emphasizes that

  • 04:32

    perception is an interpretation, not a fact, and so the interpretation is, She's doing

  • 04:38

    this to me. If I change my perception and I no longer see the cause of my distress as

  • 04:46

    being her high heels or something outside of me but being my own interpretation of what

  • 04:52

    she's doing, and I change that interpretation, then it won't be a problem. In a sense, that's

  • 04:58

    I think is a good paradigm for what the process is like. You don't deny what the other

  • 05:03

    person does. If a doctor says, You know, I'm very sorry but that lump is cancer, you

  • 05:10

    don't make-believe and say, Well, it s all an illusion and that breast was over long

  • 05:13

    ago. I mean, that's stupid, but you have but you could look at it differently. You don't

  • 05:19

    have to take it as a personal attack either by the doctor, by your own body, or by God,

  • 05:24

    or whatever. In a sense it's just another event in the world, and the choice is do I

  • 05:30

    look at it through the eyes of my ego, which is the eyes of blame and hate or do I and

  • 05:36

    fear, or I look at it through the eyes of Holy Spirit that says this is another opportunity

  • 05:40

    for me to learn that I'm not my body. Don't try to force spirituality on yourself.

  • 05:45

    Don't try and force a metaphysical truth on yourself when you're so angered here in the world and

  • 05:52

    in the body. I mean, that's silly and it's not spiritual, and it ends up making you an

  • 05:58

    absolutely dreadful person to yourself and everybody who has the unfortunate experience

  • 06:02

    of being around you. And that's why I always make fun of Course in Miracles students because

  • 06:07

    they're awful in this regard. They don't understand level confusion and they don't understand

  • 06:13

    the difference between a metaphysical truth, which is true or a metaphysical truth that

  • 06:19

    they don t believe in, and they certainly don't live as if they believe it. They may

  • 06:23

    understand it intellectually. That's why the whole image of a ladder, I think, is very,

  • 06:28

    very helpful, that he gives us in "The Song of Prayer," and the idea that prayer is a ladder,

  • 06:35

    forgiveness is a ladder; it s a process, and it's only right at the top of the ladder,

  • 06:40

    just before the real world that you begin to understand that this whole thing is made

  • 06:45

    up, and you begin to not only, again, intellectually know but you experientially know that you

  • 06:52

    are not here, that your self is outside of the dream and, again, it's not a mere intellectual

  • 06:58

    concept; it s an experience (S-1.V.4). That's what allows you to go through your day,

  • 07:02

    and your days and days and months and years without being affected by the world, yet still

  • 07:07

    involved with the world because you know that you're not here. That's what being in the

  • 07:12

    real world is, but that happens right at the top of the ladder. Until you get there, you're

  • 07:18

    still bound here. You still wake up every morning, stagger into your bathroom, look

  • 07:21

    in the mirror and you see something that you mistakenly think is yourself. Some days you

  • 07:27

    may like what you see. Most of the time, as you get older especially, you don't like what

  • 07:30

    you see. But, whatever it is, you think what you see is you, so don't pretend that you're

  • 07:37

    not a body. Now, on the level of the body the world certainly does do things to us.

  • 07:44

    Jesus is not suggesting that we lapse into denial where we make-believe the world has

  • 07:52

    no effect on our bodies; absolutely does. He tells us in Chapter 2 that to deny our

  • 08:00

    physical experience in this world is a particularly unworthy form of denial, (T-2.IV.3:11). He's

  • 08:06

    not saying deny the world. He's simply saying deny your interpretation of the world,

  • 08:12

    and in a sense, that s how you walk through life is that you don't try and change the external

  • 08:18

    world. You change your mind about the external world, as the beginning of Chapter 21 also

  • 08:25

    says, that you don't seek not to change the world; choose to change your mind about [it],

  • 08:30

    (T-21.in.1:7). And the idea, again, is that you don't take what other people do or say

  • 08:35

    personally. The ego would always have you take it personally, getting back to the purpose

  • 08:39

    of the dream. The purpose of the world's dream is that, Somebody else did it to me, and so

  • 08:47

    therefore my immediate reaction would be, Why did you do this to me? How unkind, how

  • 08:52

    unthinking, how unloving, how uncaring; how mean, how vicious, how cruel, how murderous,

  • 09:00

    and realize that that's the ego s reaction because that's why the world was made, so

  • 09:03

    we could always blame someone and something else. Remember again, that's a very important

  • 09:09

    line, perception is an interpretation, not a fact (M-17.4:1-2). My physical eyes see

  • 09:14

    perceptual facts or objective facts in the world, but my brain interprets those seeming

  • 09:23

    facts, and the brain's interpretation is a direct reflection of the mind's decision.

  • 09:29

    If I want to find people to blame, I'll find them without any problem, but I could just

  • 09:36

    as easily see the attack, as the Course says, the attack is an expression of fear and fear

  • 09:42

    is a call for the love that has been denied (T-2.VI.7:5-8), and I don't feel I deserve

  • 09:46

    or that person doesn't feel he or she deserves. I have no power most of the time over the

  • 09:52

    world or other people in the world, but what I do have power...the only thing I have power

  • 09:58

    over is my own mind, and I could either interpret the world through my ego's eyes, which would

  • 10:04

    always be in terms of winners and losers, victims and victimizers, or I will interpret

  • 10:08

    it through Jesus eyes, which will see us all as sharing the same interests,

  • 10:12

    the same needs, the same goal.

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The example sentences of STEWING in videos (6 in total of 6)

well adverb , after preposition or subordinating conjunction a determiner week noun, singular or mass or coordinating conjunction so adverb of preposition or subordinating conjunction stewing verb, gerund or present participle over preposition or subordinating conjunction the determiner events noun, plural of preposition or subordinating conjunction our possessive pronoun last adjective video noun, singular or mass , we personal pronoun 've verb, non-3rd person singular present decided verb, past participle that preposition or subordinating conjunction
to to the determiner medical adjective center noun, singular or mass , and coordinating conjunction she personal pronoun would modal she personal pronoun 'd modal be verb, base form storming verb, gerund or present participle in preposition or subordinating conjunction her possessive pronoun mind noun, singular or mass , and coordinating conjunction stewing verb, gerund or present participle , and coordinating conjunction
cooking noun, singular or mass at preposition or subordinating conjunction low adjective temperature noun, singular or mass , like preposition or subordinating conjunction stewing verb, gerund or present participle and coordinating conjunction slow adjective cooking verb, gerund or present participle it personal pronoun reduces verb, 3rd person singular present the determiner amount noun, singular or mass of preposition or subordinating conjunction ages proper noun, singular
sometimes adverb made verb, past participle into preposition or subordinating conjunction jams noun, plural and coordinating conjunction jellies noun, plural by preposition or subordinating conjunction stewing verb, gerund or present participle them personal pronoun with preposition or subordinating conjunction sugar noun, singular or mass the determiner fruit noun, singular or mass and coordinating conjunction the determiner leaves noun, plural are verb, non-3rd person singular present
show noun, singular or mass those determiner are verb, non-3rd person singular present actually adverb tuning verb, gerund or present participle forks noun, plural for preposition or subordinating conjunction the determiner dark adjective side noun, singular or mass so adverb while preposition or subordinating conjunction he personal pronoun 's verb, 3rd person singular present busy adjective stewing verb, gerund or present participle in preposition or subordinating conjunction his possessive pronoun castle noun, singular or mass here adverb
of preposition or subordinating conjunction stewing verb, gerund or present participle over preposition or subordinating conjunction in preposition or subordinating conjunction the determiner dark adjective side noun, singular or mass in preposition or subordinating conjunction his possessive pronoun own adjective castle noun, singular or mass here adverb on preposition or subordinating conjunction mustafar proper noun, singular while preposition or subordinating conjunction the determiner inquisitors noun, plural

Use "stewing" in a sentence | "stewing" example sentences

How to use "stewing" in a sentence?

  • She comes from the school of getting it out of your system, whereas he comes from the school of stewing over it.
    -Melina Marchetta-
  • You can't dwell on what happened. You can't live even a moment stewing in bitterness.
    -Apolo Ohno-
  • Stop stewing and start doing!
    -Denis Waitley-
  • Stop rationalizing, stop stewing. Get up out of your chair and start doing.
    -Denis Waitley-

Definition and meaning of STEWING

What does "stewing mean?"

/ˈst(y)o͞oiNG/

adjective
suitable for stewing.
noun
Extreme state of worry and agitation.
verb
To cook meat or vegetables in hot water.