This video is about = "Results Happen When You Stop  Caring!" When you stop caring so much these things  

will occur in your life for the better... To find  out what they are, please stay tuned to this video...

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What does it mean to "stop caring?" That could mean  so many different things.... it's hard to pinpoint  

you could stop caring about the acceptance of  other people, or about the pursuit of money (the  

rat race) or about wanting to fit in with  people so badly (kind of acceptance again)  

or what others think in general of you, your  family etc, or trying to please people... whether  

it's professionally or personally (or both). When  you stop caring = results happen! You do attract that  

right partner... you can land that dream job... you get  that break in your business ... success and happiness  

can fall on your lap! Don't ask me why this is the  case, it just happens! However that doesn't mean  

you've got to sit on your backside or lay down  and do nothing... it means to not actually get too  

emotionally worked up, stressed or worried....  because that only damages your life and whilst  

results do often happen when you are stressed  even, it's not the best way to approach this...  

Life is suffering and there are many setbacks we  experience along the way...I know a guy that always  

crumbles at the slightest problem... takes him ages  to recover... but I also know another person that  

no matter what or how hurt he gets... he picks  himself up and keeps going! Of course he cares  

but at the same time he sees the bigger picture,  he knows he's got to keep going no matter what!  

I've seen people work their butts off all their  lives with no results... and I've seen others work  

the bare minimum and have an abundance of success!  Are they just lucky? No they simply don't care  

and yet the results happen! It's a combination  of taking the risk, and hard consistent  

work but having an abundance mentality - that  regardless of what happens = you're cool with it  

and you just keep going! Here are some examples  of how results happen when you stop caring =

This is straight up facts = the less you  care when it comes to loving relationships  

and dating - the more attractive you are, and  that's for men and women! Now it does not mean  

loving or caring your partner (not at all)  it means that even if the relationship ends  

you're fine, especially in the dating stage! When  I was single, I was so desperate for a girlfriend...  

to get married.... how my life has changed since this  pandemic... now I'm in no rush, I go with the flow and  

I've become more attractive naturally to single  women, because I don't put any unnecessary pressure  

don't come across needy, and I'm not begging to see  them. A woman i know (who is stunning and so smart)  

cannot find a man = "i just want to be loved! Why  won't anyone love me?!" she moans. Well because you  

care too much my dear! She comes from a traditional  family where they pressure her into marriage all the  

time...all of her friends are engaged or have  kids and are married, and she feels like she's  

left out! She goes on dates attracting the wrong  sorts of guys, is lost and depressed about it...  

"I try to go on dates yet here I am, still  single!" she says, and she really is a catch!  

So even a beautiful successful woman (who is overly  sweet) cannot find love! What if she stopped caring  

though? Saw dating as more of an experience and  fun (not saying that she needs to sleep around) but  

didn't put that pressure on herself? Another woman  I know did this and found the love of her life!  

She dated outside of her culture... religion was  not a big deal to her and was fed up with her  

family pressuring her, and she's never been  happier! "I found the love of my life" she said  

"...when I stopped caring!" The same goes for guys  and me, and I stopped carrying forcing dates  

relationships to be serious I  felt free, I was more open-minded!  

Life is too short to focus on one particular type  of person and one type of relationship and so on....  

If you want to have more success in love = stop  caring! I'm serious you will become irresistible  

to the people you're dating, and go with  the flow what's the rush? Enjoy your life!  

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When you decide to stop caring = you officially  remove the toxic people in your life....  

toxic family members who are disrespecting you....  toxic friends who bully and abuse you, and the  

toxic job, colleagues, boss who mistreats you....  you have the confidence to say = "you know what"  

"I don't need this crap anymore and I'm out  of here!" and you walk away and you stay away...  

When you care too much you're putting up with  too much of other people's problems and rubbish...  

sometimes narcissistic abuse, manipulation,  gaslighting, drama.... stress....Yes you might say  

"but they're my family... they're my friends...I have to  see them! I've got to have them in my life!" Is what  

you say to yourself.... you try and convince yourself  that you haven't got a choice, and then what gets  

resolved? Does it ever improve? Does anything ever  get any better? No = fights break out more, resentment  

grows, drama increases, you read up about narcissism  and other behavior, and nothing gets better....  

When my Dad died ...family and friends were actually  fighting amongst themselves! I cannot tell you how  

awful that was to see.... it was utter utter hell and  it got me thinking "do I need to put up with this?"  

"Why do I care?" Maybe you were conditioned  by culture, religion, society, family to do so....  

enough's enough! I've stopped caring about  things like that and the toxic individuals  

who try to ruin and disrupt my life, and  I've walked away now.... there are less fights  

less stress, less drama from cutting them out, and  I'm far happier as a result! Would anything have  

been resolved had I stayed, tried reasoning, talking  it through with the toxic people? Probably not....  

But by not caring (finally) and walking away  (no contact) results have improved tremendously!

The next results that happen when you stop caring  is you put yourself first! One of my mentors said  

about friends I asked "who's your best friend?" and he  said "my best friend's my wallet!" It was a bit of a  

confusing thing to say but he went on "as long as  I can financially support myself," he said "I don't...  

"rely on anyone, and I can pay my own way in life! I  don't need anybody. I can go out to eat by myself...."  

"travel by myself.... work for myself.... treat myself to  whatever I wish...I can treat myself to an"  

"ice cream or I could treat myself to a holiday!"  When you stop caring you finally for the first  

time in your life put yourself as number one!  You matter (I swear you do) your voice matters  

you have worth... you deserve success, happiness and  when you stop caring...I guarantee you it will come!  

A man I know gave his now ex-wife everything to  make her happy! He became a millionaire and treated  

her to the best life possible, but she was bored  and decided for (no logical reason at all)  

she wants to get divorced! He did everything  he could to keep her around.... he spent a fortune  

on gifts, trips, begged for her to reconsider... but  her mind was set, and she still wanted a split....  

Since splitting and losing a fortune in court  from divorce, he stopped caring he said "I did  

everything to keep her, it wasn't enough... so I'm  just going to make my life about me..." He worked  

hard on himself in his recovery, doubled down on  his business to make up for the financial loss  

started getting fit and healthy, working out... he did  things he never thought he could do, and obviously  

stuff he couldn't do when he was married, and he  turned his life around for the better! Then one day  

out of the blue his ex-wife turned up randomly at  his brand new home.... to see him with another woman  

His ex-wife begged for him back whilst he said  "sorry" and slowly closed the door on her face...  

"I no longer cared ,despite my split, I somehow  got happier and turned my life around by doing so..."

Nobody's going to care about you more than YOU...  nobody! So you might as well start looking after  

yourself Pronto! And maybe get your money right  because maybe also your best friend is your wallet....

The moment you stop caring you  become more aware of your life, and circumstances...  

seriously because you start putting the emphasis  on other people, other things, stuff you can't  

control at all....you snap back into reality! I  did this when I stopped caring about a toxic  

EX after a very rough breakup - I realized to myself = "my god was I with such a toxic person!"  

I let myself go....I stopped pursuing things I liked...  I was depressed, the hell was I thinking?! When we  

care too much we can often sleepwalk like a zombie  dangerously throughout our life, career and so  

on in marriages and relationships.... where we're  miserable.... we're not compatible and we're with  

each other because we hate being single or for  the kids.... in jobs we despise.... in careers we loathe  

because it pays the bills.... associating with friends  who are secretly envious, or they actually hate us  

beneath the surface....Results occur and changes  happen the moment you stop caring ....Literally  

because you notice how people can  be toxic and you're not so naive....  

your job may not be what you genuinely want out of  life ...you're perhaps living in the wrong town, city,  

country.... you're on an unhealthy diet and you've  been convinced that this is the right way...  

you may be an addict (I was for a long time)  you may have insecurities and so on, but when  

you stop carrying the awareness (like a penny  finally dropping) happens! You see the truth, the  

reality of your existence.... your eyes hurt because  you've never had to use them before! You also know  

what you need to do to improve on things... trust  me this works... it's immensely powerful! You don't  

have to be a jerk or a horrible person... you  just awaken and the results happen....

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