Welcome! This video is about  "Why Walking Away is Attractive!"  

There are FIVE reasons why when you decide  to walk away from anybody in your life  

It actually comes across extremely  attractive! So Please Stay Tuned!

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Now Full Disclosure Walking Away works  on anybody! It can work on your family  

your friends, your colleagues, a boss,  a spouse, a life partner, a roommate,  

absolutely anybody! Honestly one of the greatest  superpowers a human can possess in the real world  

truly, is the Power of Walking Away! I'm delighted  to say I've walked away from SO many toxic and  

negative people in my life, and I have never  regretted any of those decisions! Granted I'm  

extremely headstrong, but regardless of that, it  is one of the most amazingly simple and powerful  

things any person regardless of your background  can actually do! Why waste your time with people  

who will never support you and buy into your  way of thinking, or your core beliefs, or what  

you believe in? Why waste your life with people  who genuinely do not know or want what is best  

for you? Why spend the money and time flogging a  dead horse on a flaky person who is not sure about  

dating you? Going into business with you? Hanging  out with you? Why is walking away so attractive?  

Like the no contact rule, which basically  means cutting complete contact with somebody  

and going silent, and sticking to it, it is all  about kind of regaining or having the upper hand!  

Whilst i'm not one for game playing at all, there  is significantly a difference between manipulation  

and getting up and removing yourself from a  person, a group of people, or a social situation! 

But life is too damn short to spend it and waste  it with idiots, therefore getting up and walking  

away is an incredibly brave and powerful method!  Just literally a few days ago I walked away  

from toxic family members! Enough is enough! Also I  want to make clear this video applies to everybody  

regardless of your gender, background, ethnicity,  anybody can do this! Now how is this attractive?  

How is walking away attractive? Well I will  reveal all in the following five ways walking  

away is not only extremely attractive but  actually utterly irresistible too!   

#1 You become a challenge! The first reason walking  away is extremely attractive is because you  

immediately make yourself or become a bit of a  challenge! Most people are so insecure these days  

that even the slightest amount of pressure or  lack of clarity can send them into a spiral of  

chaos and even tailspin! How accessible are  you when it comes to dating in relationships?  

Are you always at the end of a phone call a text  and immediately reply? Do you drop everything to  

see your special somebody even when you're busy?  Do you prioritize other people over everything  

else including your hobbies, your work, your  friends, your interests? I think you're seeing  

a pattern here right? The problem initially  is you were most likely not a challenge  

and as a result have found yourself almost utterly  obsessed with the attention of this other person!  

You like them or love them so much that you  don't want to lose them! You do whatever it  

takes to keep them in your life and make sure you  have no mistakes or make no mistakes whatsoever!  

OUCH! Most likely you're kind of whipped, we've  all been there though, yes even yours truly too!  

Our instinct when things aren't going great is to  up the ante! For men we go and buy lavish gifts, we  

up the affection, and make sure they're okay all  the time to the point it becomes annoying and  

for women they do slightly similar but it's more  the talk of "where is this going? I want to know  

where we stand?" and it happens on repeat! Sadly this  usually brings most relationships to a crossroads  

and almost to the point of no return! Once  doubt has crept in, that's where things usually  

go wrong! So what is the solution? Walking away. By  doing so it shows you're not in the mood for games  

uncertainty and any type of nonsense that may  be at play here! Walking away proves you are a  

person well and truly on their mission! It shows  you have dignity, pride, and an amazing amount  

of self-respect! It shows that regardless  if you were too accessible initially that  

there is a line that needs to be drawn aka a  healthy boundary and now you are a challenge!  

The other person is stunned that you've got up  and walked away! They arrogantly believed you  

will be with them regardless of how they  treated you! And just how wrong were they?

Another reason walking away so attractive  is the other person will immediately miss  

the attention you had given them! People are so  predictable these days! You give them an inch  

you can guarantee they will take a mile and take  advantage! People are constantly taking liberties  

taking advantage of other people, you name it! They  will happily let you call them first all the time  

they will let you chase them, they will  let you treat them to nice things with  

not giving anything back, they will make you  put in all the effort and all the work, they  

let all the effort, all the arrangements lie  with you! You are the mouse!

They are the cheese! Most likely if you're an empathetic person you're more than likely to go all in on a person  

to ensure they like you back! Ultimately you are  trying your hardest to make sure they stay with  

you and make sure that they are always going to  like you! So you're calling them pretty much all  

the time just to see how they're doing and see how  they're feeling! You check on them constantly, you  

ask them how their days are going and so on and  so forth! Ultimately you're bombarding or at least  

initiating the attention with them every single  time and let me confirm to you they know this  

and they absolutely love it! They think "i've got  him, i've got her wrapped around my little finger"  

"If I call they will come running, if i  say jump, they will say how high?! However  

if you walk away, what suddenly happens to that  wonderful attention that you were giving them?  

Obviously it stops immediately! It comes to  an abrupt end! Suddenly they're at a loose end!  

No more good morning texts or late night phone  calls! No more likes and comments on their social  

media etc! Nothing but radio silence! Like a  drug addict starved of their fix they crave  

you more than ever! They will settle for  scraps and by scraps even just an emoji  

of all things! They will become obsessed with you  because you have starved them of the very thing  

the one thing they arrogantly assumed they  were entitled to for eternity = your attention!

#3 You are mysterious! Why do people love  Batman as a character? I mean there's a hundred  

reasons why but because he's the mysterious  vigilante that swoops in at night to take on  

the evil villains who threatened to destroy his  precious city Gotham! To the fans everybody knows  

Batman's secret identity is that of "Bruce Wayne"  the billionaire playboy who tragically lost his  

parents as a child. But to the villains to the  civilians of Gotham of where he protects, nobody  

knows who he is! As Commissioner Gordon describes  him at the end of the movie "The Dark Night" when  

asked why the police must chase after him  "because he's the hero Gotham deserves but  

not the one it needs right now! So we'll hunt him  because he can take it! Because he's not our hero  

he's a silent guardian, a watchful protector,  a Dark Knight!" Look i'm not suggesting for you  

to become a caped crusader and fight crime  but to realize it is above all the mystery  

of Batman that ignites FEAR into the villains  and respect from the civilians and the police. 

When you are constantly available and everybody  knows what you want and who you are, what happens  

to the mystery? In fact where is the mystery  in that at all? It is non-existent, and mystery  

is attractive! And walking away and remaining no  contact until they chase you ignites the same  

excitement and fear the villains have when  Batman is swooping down on them to stop them!  

By the other person constantly knowing where you  are and what you're up to you are too readily  

available! However, suddenly you've walked away, the  following anxiety occurs! "Where are they going? What  

are they doing? Who are they with? Who are they  spending time with? Where are they planning to  

go next? What are they thinking?" Walking away will  make you mysterious and mystery is VERY sexy!

#4 "You regain the power! Yes  yes walking away regains your power!  

Having the strength to get up and walk  away from negative and toxic individuals  

is a hugely underrated superpower! I've walked  away from situations, friends, and even family  

and look it was not easy but the right thing  to do! So if i can do it you can do it too!  

The greatest power you will ever possess is  the power of walking away! By tolerating abuse  

negligence, mind games, toxicity, people's drama,  stress all the time, would only have one effect  

on your life! And that effect is it will make  your life considerably worse! The upper hand now  

lies firmly with you, and all you have to  do is metaphorically put your shoes on  

and walk away! There is no power in butting  heads and continuing to argue with a fool!  

There is NO power in chasing and flogging a dead  horse! There is NO power in begging and pleading!  

However there IS power in walking away! You're  portraying the confidence and self-belief that  

you will not tolerate anything or in fact anybody  that does not abide by your standards! This is not  

about being arrogant, this is about attraction! A  man i know begged and pleaded for a woman he was  

dating to move in with him, to which she would  never give him a definitive straight answer!  

He even offered to pay for everything and  she still said no! With that he got so angry  

that he decided to walk away from her! By doing  so he worked harder at his job, worked out more  

and educated himself about boundaries, and how to  become more confident! Throughout the whole time he  

never spoke to his ex at all and remained focused!  Over a year later he was dating somebody else  

and he received a knock on the door disturbing his  dinner plans! Sure enough it was his EX crying and  

sobbing, she said to him "I can't believe I passed  up this opportunity, I think about you all the time!  

I want you back so badly!" "Too bad!" the guy said  smiling has he slowly closed the door in her  

face, to return to the dining room to eat with his  NEW girlfriend who ended up becoming his new wife!  

What he did was REGAIN the power by flipping  it back into his control, by walking away! By  

also going no contact added the extra spice! Regain  control and the power of your life by walking away!

And lastly #5 "Your Value Increases!" The final reason walking away is attractive  

is because it increases your value! Any time  I've walked away from somebody, it has been for  

the most following reasons = I've either been  disrespected, abused, mistreated, ridiculed,  

bullied, so on and so forth! Life is too damn short  to waste it with people who will hurt me and upset  

me! Make friends and associate with people who  want the best for you instead! Trust me on this!  

Therefore once you have walked away your  value skyrockets! Whilst they never had any  

respect for you and looked down on you, the most  important person DID and that's you! You had that!  

You stood up for yourself and showed them "I'm  better than this, and you know what, I'm actually  

better than you!" Suddenly they will feel incredibly  insecure, they'll say to themselves "well maybe  

they're more attractive than I thought! God there's  just SOMETHING about them! I don't know what it is!"  

You're DARN right there is  something about you it's called =  

You have self-respect! You have the confidence and  belief to realize you will NOT tolerate any crap  

that is thrown your way! And when they go TOO far  or they never valued you, you would do the same by  

not valuing them, but do NOT seek revenge! A woman I know bent over backwards for a guy who took pure  

advantage of her and when she finally walked  away from him, he went into a complete depression  

finally admitting = "I never valued how amazing  she was, wow i have messed up so so badly!"  

Walk away and WATCH your value increase and  if they do not value you, go out there and find  

somebody else that will! I guarantee you will! So in  summary by walking away is attractive number one =  

you become a challenge, secondly = they'll miss  your attention, you are then mysterious like  

Batman, you regain the power, the upper hand  and your value increases! Thank you for watching!