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  • 00:06

    Way before the first selfie,
    Way before the first selfie,

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    the ancient Greeks and Romans had a myth
    the ancient Greeks and Romans had a myth

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    about someone a little too obsessed with his own image.
    about someone a little too obsessed with his own image.

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    In one telling,
    In one telling,

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    Narcissus was a handsome guy wandering the world in search of someone to love.
    Narcissus was a handsome guy wandering the world in search of someone to love.

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    After rejecting a nymph named Echo,
    After rejecting a nymph named Echo,

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    he caught a glimpse of his own reflection in a river,
    he caught a glimpse of his own reflection in a river,

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    and fell in love with it.
    and fell in love with it.

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    Unable to tear himself away,
    Unable to tear himself away,

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    Narcissus drowned.
    Narcissus drowned.

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    A flower marked the spot of where he died, and we call that flower the Narcissus.
    A flower marked the spot of where he died, and we call that flower the Narcissus.

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    The myth captures the basic idea of narcissism,
    The myth captures the basic idea of narcissism,

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    elevated and sometimes detrimental self-involvement.
    elevated and sometimes detrimental self-involvement.

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    But it's not just a personality type that shows up in advice columns.
    But it's not just a personality type that shows up in advice columns.

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    It's actually a set of traits classified and studied by psychologists.
    It's actually a set of traits classified and studied by psychologists.

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    The psychological definition of narcissism is an inflated, grandiose self-image.
    The psychological definition of narcissism is an inflated, grandiose self-image.

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    To varying degrees, narcissists think they're better looking,
    To varying degrees, narcissists think they're better looking,

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    smarter,
    smarter,

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    and more important than other people,
    and more important than other people,

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    and that they deserve special treatment.
    and that they deserve special treatment.

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    Psychologists recognize two forms of narcissism as a personality trait:
    Psychologists recognize two forms of narcissism as a personality trait:

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    grandiose and vulnerable narcissism.
    grandiose and vulnerable narcissism.

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    There's also narcissistic personality disorder,
    There's also narcissistic personality disorder,

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    a more extreme form, which we'll return to shortly.
    a more extreme form, which we'll return to shortly.

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    Grandiose narcissism is the most familiar kind,
    Grandiose narcissism is the most familiar kind,

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    characterized by extroversion,
    characterized by extroversion,

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    dominance,
    dominance,

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    and attention seeking.
    and attention seeking.

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    Grandiose narcissists pursue attention and power,
    Grandiose narcissists pursue attention and power,

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    sometimes as politicians,
    sometimes as politicians,

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    celebrities,
    celebrities,

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    or cultural leaders.
    or cultural leaders.

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    Of course, not everyone who pursues these positions of power is narcissistic.
    Of course, not everyone who pursues these positions of power is narcissistic.

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    Many do it for very positive reasons,
    Many do it for very positive reasons,

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    like reaching their full potential,
    like reaching their full potential,

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    or helping make people's lives better.
    or helping make people's lives better.

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    But narcissistic individuals seek power
    But narcissistic individuals seek power

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    for the status and attention that goes with it.
    for the status and attention that goes with it.

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    Meanwhile, vulnerable narcissists can be quiet and reserved.
    Meanwhile, vulnerable narcissists can be quiet and reserved.

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    They have a strong sense of entitlement,
    They have a strong sense of entitlement,

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    but are easily threatened or slighted.
    but are easily threatened or slighted.

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    In either case, the dark side of narcissism shows up over the long term.
    In either case, the dark side of narcissism shows up over the long term.

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    Narcissists tend to act selfishly,
    Narcissists tend to act selfishly,

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    so narcissistic leaders may make risky or unethical decisions,
    so narcissistic leaders may make risky or unethical decisions,

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    and narcissistic partners may be dishonest or unfaithful.
    and narcissistic partners may be dishonest or unfaithful.

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    When their rosy view of themselves is challenged,
    When their rosy view of themselves is challenged,

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    they can become resentful and aggressive.
    they can become resentful and aggressive.

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    It's like a disease where the sufferers feel pretty good,
    It's like a disease where the sufferers feel pretty good,

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    but the people around them suffer.
    but the people around them suffer.

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    Taken to the extreme,
    Taken to the extreme,

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    this behavior is classified as a psychological disorder
    this behavior is classified as a psychological disorder

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    called narcissistic personality disorder.
    called narcissistic personality disorder.

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    It affects one to two percent of the population,
    It affects one to two percent of the population,

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    more commonly men.
    more commonly men.

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    It is also a diagnosis reserved for adults.
    It is also a diagnosis reserved for adults.

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    Young people, especially children, can be very self-centered,
    Young people, especially children, can be very self-centered,

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    but this might just be a normal part of development.
    but this might just be a normal part of development.

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    The fifth edition of the American Psychiatric Association's
    The fifth edition of the American Psychiatric Association's

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    Diagnostic and Statistical Manual
    Diagnostic and Statistical Manual

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    describes several traits associated with narcissistic personality disorder.
    describes several traits associated with narcissistic personality disorder.

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    They include a grandiose view of oneself,
    They include a grandiose view of oneself,

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    problems with empathy,
    problems with empathy,

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    a sense of entitlement,
    a sense of entitlement,

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    and a need for admiration or attention.
    and a need for admiration or attention.

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    What makes these trait a true personality disorder
    What makes these trait a true personality disorder

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    is that they take over people's lives and cause significant problems.
    is that they take over people's lives and cause significant problems.

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    Imagine that instead of caring for your spouse or children,
    Imagine that instead of caring for your spouse or children,

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    you used them as a source of attention or admiration.
    you used them as a source of attention or admiration.

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    Or imagine that instead of seeking
    Or imagine that instead of seeking

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    constructive feedback about your performance,
    constructive feedback about your performance,

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    you instead told everyone who tried to help you
    you instead told everyone who tried to help you

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    that they were wrong.
    that they were wrong.

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    So what causes narcissism?
    So what causes narcissism?

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    Twin studies show a strong genetic component,
    Twin studies show a strong genetic component,

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    although we don't know which genes are involved.
    although we don't know which genes are involved.

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    But environment matters, too.
    But environment matters, too.

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    Parents who put their child on a pedestal
    Parents who put their child on a pedestal

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    can foster grandiose narcissism.
    can foster grandiose narcissism.

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    And cold, controlling parents can contribute to vulnerable narcissism.
    And cold, controlling parents can contribute to vulnerable narcissism.

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    Narcissism also seems to be higher
    Narcissism also seems to be higher

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    in cultures that value individuality and self-promotion.
    in cultures that value individuality and self-promotion.

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    In the United States, for example,
    In the United States, for example,

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    narcissism as a personality trait has been rising since the 1970s,
    narcissism as a personality trait has been rising since the 1970s,

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    when the communal focus of the 60s
    when the communal focus of the 60s

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    gave way to the self-esteem movement
    gave way to the self-esteem movement

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    and a rise in materialism.
    and a rise in materialism.

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    More recently, social media has multiplied the possibilities for self-promotion,
    More recently, social media has multiplied the possibilities for self-promotion,

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    though it's worth noting
    though it's worth noting

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    that there's no clear evidence that social media causes narcissism.
    that there's no clear evidence that social media causes narcissism.

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    Rather, it provides narcissists a means to seek social status and attention.
    Rather, it provides narcissists a means to seek social status and attention.

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    So can narcissists improve on those negative traits?
    So can narcissists improve on those negative traits?

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    Yes!
    Yes!

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    Anything that promotes honest reflection on their own behavior
    Anything that promotes honest reflection on their own behavior

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    and caring for others,
    and caring for others,

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    like psychotherapy or practicing compassion towards others, can be helpful.
    like psychotherapy or practicing compassion towards others, can be helpful.

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    The difficulty is it can be challenging
    The difficulty is it can be challenging

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    for people with narcissistic personality disorder
    for people with narcissistic personality disorder

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    to keep working at self-betterment.
    to keep working at self-betterment.

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    For a narcissist, self-reflection is hard from an unflattering angle.
    For a narcissist, self-reflection is hard from an unflattering angle.

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The psychology of narcissism - W. Keith Campbell

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Intro:

Way before the first selfie,. the ancient Greeks and Romans had a myth. about someone a little too obsessed with his own image.
In one telling,. Narcissus was a handsome guy wandering the world in search of someone to love.
After rejecting a nymph named Echo,. he caught a glimpse of his own reflection in a river,
and fell in love with it.. Unable to tear himself away,. Narcissus drowned.. A flower marked the spot of where he died, and we call that flower the Narcissus.
The myth captures the basic idea of narcissism,. elevated and sometimes detrimental self-involvement.
But it's not just a personality type that shows up in advice columns.
It's actually a set of traits classified and studied by psychologists.
The psychological definition of narcissism is an inflated, grandiose self-image.
To varying degrees, narcissists think they're better looking,
smarter,. and more important than other people,. and that they deserve special treatment..

Video Vocabulary

/ˈspeSHəl/

adjective noun

Being additional or extra. thing.

/rəˈflekSH(ə)n/

noun

Image that you see in a mirror, glass, or water.

/ˈnärsəsəst/

noun

excessively self-admiring person.

/ˈklasəˌfīd/

adjective noun verb

arranged in categories. newspaper advertisements. To arrange things into groups of similar items.

/əbˈses/

adjective verb

Showing a strong desire to do or get something. To talk or think about someone, something too much.

/ˌdefəˈniSH(ə)n/

noun

statement of word's meaning.

/imˈpôrtnt/

adjective

Having a big effect on (person, the future).

/ˈwändəriNG/

adjective verb

travelling aimlessly from place to place. To move through a place with no particular purpose.

verb

dismiss as inadequate or faulty.

/ˈnärsəˌsizəm/

noun

Being in love with yourself, your own appearance.

/dəˈzərv/

verb

To be worthy of, e.g. getting praise or attention.

/ˈeləˌvādəd/

adjective noun verb

higher than surrounding area. elevated railroad. To make something higher.

/ˈak(t)SH(o͞o)əlē/

adverb

as truth or facts.

/ˈkapCHər/

noun verb

action of capturing. To record, tape, or film something.

/fəˈmilyər/

adjective noun

well known. demon supposedly obeying witch.