hello this is Damon again from NLP Gym and as I have mentioned in the last
hello this is Damon again from NLP Gym and as I have mentioned in the last

video I did enrollment is open for the online training transforming yourself
video I did enrollment is open for the online training transforming yourself

that is based on Steve Andreas's self-concept model and enrollment will
that is based on Steve Andreas's self-concept model and enrollment will

be open for about another ten days and I'll be shutting down enrollment and
be open for about another ten days and I'll be shutting down enrollment and

will be taking this journey into the self-concept and transforming your
will be taking this journey into the self-concept and transforming your

self-concept in this training now a lot of people are asking me can I have more
self-concept in this training now a lot of people are asking me can I have more

details about the training I want understand more about what it is and I
details about the training I want understand more about what it is and I

completely understand that we often determine value by what problems
completely understand that we often determine value by what problems

something solves so if I'm your coach you determine my value by how well I can
something solves so if I'm your coach you determine my value by how well I can

help help you solve problems if you're going to take a training you want to
help help you solve problems if you're going to take a training you want to

know that what you learn is something that's very valuable so that you can
know that what you learn is something that's very valuable so that you can

post more than likely can solve problems or achieve goals now the genesis of NLP
post more than likely can solve problems or achieve goals now the genesis of NLP

is exactly that problems and solutions what are my problems and how do I
is exactly that problems and solutions what are my problems and how do I

discover the solutions that are going to solve those problems so in NLP we
discover the solutions that are going to solve those problems so in NLP we

started with or we start with the present state that's the state of desire
started with or we start with the present state that's the state of desire

of wanting something that I don't have and then the desired state is when I get
of wanting something that I don't have and then the desired state is when I get

the thing that I want it's being in the state of fulfillment of satisfaction and
the thing that I want it's being in the state of fulfillment of satisfaction and

sealing a hole because I have what it is that I want now what's that what is the
sealing a hole because I have what it is that I want now what's that what is the

piece that stands between me my present state and my desired state what stands
piece that stands between me my present state and my desired state what stands

in between you having what you want and not having what you want and then LB we
in between you having what you want and not having what you want and then LB we

identify that as a resource an inner resource because I don't always have
identify that as a resource an inner resource because I don't always have

control over what's going on around me but I have control over myself my own
control over what's going on around me but I have control over myself my own

state so if I'm in a state of scarcity which is what the present state is
state so if I'm in a state of scarcity which is what the present state is

administrative scarcity that means I'm not connecting to all of my resources
administrative scarcity that means I'm not connecting to all of my resources

are not accessing the resources that would then put me in the desired state
are not accessing the resources that would then put me in the desired state

now I get a lot of people saying well wait a minute I don't want to
now I get a lot of people saying well wait a minute I don't want to

I don't want to state I want a new car I want a new house or I want more money or
I don't want to state I want a new car I want a new house or I want more money or

a great relationship and I understand all that well if you're not in a
a great relationship and I understand all that well if you're not in a

resourceful state and you're not in you're in a state of scarcity you are
resourceful state and you're not in you're in a state of scarcity you are

more more than likely repelling those things from you you're not able to
more more than likely repelling those things from you you're not able to

access you're not able to get those things because you're not connecting
access you're not able to get those things because you're not connecting

with the resources within you that would enable you to get those things so when
with the resources within you that would enable you to get those things so when

you connect with that resource and you put yourself into that state of that
you connect with that resource and you put yourself into that state of that

desired state where you're connecting with those resources you're satisfied
desired state where you're connecting with those resources you're satisfied

then you're in a state of abundance and then it becomes a lot easier to achieve
then you're in a state of abundance and then it becomes a lot easier to achieve

what you want it becomes a lot easier to get what you want it almost can feel
what you want it becomes a lot easier to get what you want it almost can feel

like it you're attracting it I don't think that's necessarily how it happens
like it you're attracting it I don't think that's necessarily how it happens

but that's what it can feel like and that's really how NLP works that's how
but that's what it can feel like and that's really how NLP works that's how

from the very beginning that's like the foundation of NLP well what if I get
from the very beginning that's like the foundation of NLP well what if I get

what if I told you that that way of doing things is actually crude clumsy
what if I told you that that way of doing things is actually crude clumsy

and even haphazard because that's exactly what I'm telling you the
and even haphazard because that's exactly what I'm telling you the

self-concept model is so precise that you'd get beyond that point of simple
self-concept model is so precise that you'd get beyond that point of simple

simply solving problems simply finding solutions simply finding resources what
simply solving problems simply finding solutions simply finding resources what

you do is you go to your sense of self and you build these qualities in and
you do is you go to your sense of self and you build these qualities in and

they become stable and durable and resilient
they become stable and durable and resilient

so that you don't have to depend on your state or the lack of state or a resource
so that you don't have to depend on your state or the lack of state or a resource

state you have these resources already built into you as qualities of your
state you have these resources already built into you as qualities of your

self-concept so what is the result of that will it help you solve problems
self-concept so what is the result of that will it help you solve problems

yeah that's like that's the least of what it will help you do what if
yeah that's like that's the least of what it will help you do what if

confidence self-esteem meaning and purpose
confidence self-esteem meaning and purpose

we're just automatic didn't have to think about it you didn't have to hit an
we're just automatic didn't have to think about it you didn't have to hit an

anchor you don't have to think oh let me let me ground myself and go into my
anchor you don't have to think oh let me let me ground myself and go into my

resource state no what if it were all automatic and you live you live your
resource state no what if it were all automatic and you live you live your

life from a sense of self of having those resources built in that's what you
life from a sense of self of having those resources built in that's what you

will learn in the self-concept motto and that's why you should learn it and when
will learn in the self-concept motto and that's why you should learn it and when

you sign up for the program you get lifetime access and you take it at your
you sign up for the program you get lifetime access and you take it at your

own pace and you'll get admitted to a private Facebook group where I can help
own pace and you'll get admitted to a private Facebook group where I can help

mentor you by answering your questions you would post your questions your
mentor you by answering your questions you would post your questions your

comments you'll get to read other people's questions and comments who are
comments you'll get to read other people's questions and comments who are

in the program and you'll get to read my answers to that as well as offer your
in the program and you'll get to read my answers to that as well as offer your

own answers in your own experience and get the experiences and even answers
own answers in your own experience and get the experiences and even answers

from your peers I want to replicate the process that I learned this model from
from your peers I want to replicate the process that I learned this model from

which was to learn it from the book but also to be mentored by Steve andreas and
which was to learn it from the book but also to be mentored by Steve andreas and

learning the model which was was and has been a priceless experience and I want
learning the model which was was and has been a priceless experience and I want

to pass that experience on to you it was transformed my life continues to
to pass that experience on to you it was transformed my life continues to

transform my life I continue to live with more meaning and purpose than I've
transform my life I continue to live with more meaning and purpose than I've

ever experienced before and greater self-esteem and confidence and I want to
ever experienced before and greater self-esteem and confidence and I want to

pass that on to all of you now I saw a question pop up here that said how do
pass that on to all of you now I saw a question pop up here that said how do

you overcome fear it's an enormous question I had where you can start
you overcome fear it's an enormous question I had where you can start

there's a lot of ways to do that but where you can start there's two things
there's a lot of ways to do that but where you can start there's two things

I'll give you a value solicitation and if you search my channel
I'll give you a value solicitation and if you search my channel

you can search values elicitation a video will come up that teaches you how
you can search values elicitation a video will come up that teaches you how

to do a value solicitation so that's that's a good start because a lot of
to do a value solicitation so that's that's a good start because a lot of

times we were fearful of things because we don't we're so identified with what
times we were fearful of things because we don't we're so identified with what

we don't want so you what you want to do is you want to find out what is driving
we don't want so you what you want to do is you want to find out what is driving

you what is driving your decisions what do you want in the positive sense not
you what is driving your decisions what do you want in the positive sense not

what are you trying to move away from not what are you trying to avoid what
what are you trying to move away from not what are you trying to avoid what

are you trying to move toward when you understand what your values are that
are you trying to move toward when you understand what your values are that

will move you toward that I also did a video on overcoming fear and that vid
will move you toward that I also did a video on overcoming fear and that vid

video still holds up so that's yet another technique that you can use there
video still holds up so that's yet another technique that you can use there

are many more techniques but for right now the best thing to do is just to
are many more techniques but for right now the best thing to do is just to

direct you to those two videos and that should help you out quite a bit and if
direct you to those two videos and that should help you out quite a bit and if

you have any more questions of course leave comments or questions right under
you have any more questions of course leave comments or questions right under

this video and as soon as this video uploads I'll be able to post the link
this video and as soon as this video uploads I'll be able to post the link

that you can go to to get your hands on transforming yourself which like I said
that you can go to to get your hands on transforming yourself which like I said

enrollment will be open for about another ten days thank you for watching
enrollment will be open for about another ten days thank you for watching

and I hope to see you in the program take care
and I hope to see you in the program take care