do you want to do something crazy  i do want to know something crazy  
do you want to do something crazy  i do want to know something crazy  

do you guys want to know something crazy  firstly howdy partners firstly what up dudes  
do you guys want to know something crazy  firstly howdy partners firstly what up dudes  

we're in america because sam lives here now
we're in america because sam lives here now

i officially live in america and we have  some crazy stuff to go over today guys  
i officially live in america and we have  some crazy stuff to go over today guys  

today's gonna be a mad video okay today's gonna  be insane and we're not gonna save any time we're  
today's gonna be a mad video okay today's gonna  be insane and we're not gonna save any time we're  

not gonna make you wait till the end  it's coming right now so number one  
not gonna make you wait till the end  it's coming right now so number one  

monica should i sit down this is to you yes  i am currently in the process of no lucky  
monica should i sit down this is to you yes  i am currently in the process of no lucky  

i am currently in the process of filling out  my form i-485 in preparation for once we've  
i am currently in the process of filling out  my form i-485 in preparation for once we've  

got married kind of yeah so basically uh  i'm here on a k1 visa fiance visa right now  
got married kind of yeah so basically uh  i'm here on a k1 visa fiance visa right now  

and once monica and i get married i have to  do an adjustment of stasis to get a green card  
and once monica and i get married i have to  do an adjustment of stasis to get a green card  

and i'm pre-filling out that form ready for once  we get married and it says what is your marital  
and i'm pre-filling out that form ready for once  we get married and it says what is your marital  

status i put married wafer wait for it wait for it  he said wait for him he said married wait for it  
status i put married wafer wait for it wait for it  he said wait for him he said married wait for it  

what's the name of your spouse i had to put monica  rose patterson how bad is that i'm sorry can you  
what's the name of your spouse i had to put monica  rose patterson how bad is that i'm sorry can you  

guys come back later but anyway oh my gosh wait  a second anyway anyway let's see that information  
guys come back later but anyway oh my gosh wait  a second anyway anyway let's see that information  

firstly that's insane that is it my name is monica  rose patterson what is going on and we have a  
firstly that's insane that is it my name is monica  rose patterson what is going on and we have a  

massive announcement for you guys talking about  marriage wait wait hold on we have some ridiculous  
massive announcement for you guys talking about  marriage wait wait hold on we have some ridiculous  

news this is probably going to be the latest  news right here ridiculous news and i feel like  
news this is probably going to be the latest  news right here ridiculous news and i feel like  

every vlog at the moment we're like oh my gosh  it's big news but this but this is the biggest  
every vlog at the moment we're like oh my gosh  it's big news but this but this is the biggest  

news yet i feel like today in approximately  an hour we are what would you like to say  
news yet i feel like today in approximately  an hour we are what would you like to say  

we are going to the town hall now don't get ahead  of yourself don't get out of here we're going to  
we are going to the town hall now don't get ahead  of yourself don't get out of here we're going to  

the town hall to have a meeting because as you  guys know with sam's visa it's like the k1 visa so  
the town hall to have a meeting because as you  guys know with sam's visa it's like the k1 visa so  

as soon as he steps foot on american soil we have  90 days to get married which is honestly a little  
as soon as he steps foot on american soil we have  90 days to get married which is honestly a little  

shorter because we have a lot of paperwork that  needs to get filed out within the 90 days that's  
shorter because we have a lot of paperwork that  needs to get filed out within the 90 days that's  

why i'm still going to do it now yeah you guys  know our wedding is july 1st of this year which  
why i'm still going to do it now yeah you guys  know our wedding is july 1st of this year which  

oh my gosh so we have to we have to  get married sooner than that legally so  
oh my gosh so we have to we have to  get married sooner than that legally so  

we have a date you're really teasing people  here aren't you yeah today we're going in  
we have a date you're really teasing people  here aren't you yeah today we're going in  

for our meeting to get a marriage license so the  marriage license is going to be valid for 60 days  
for our meeting to get a marriage license so the  marriage license is going to be valid for 60 days  

so we can't wait until july the  1st now yeah we have 60 days so
so we can't wait until july the  1st now yeah we have 60 days so

we're getting married on february 22nd which  is literally this month it's in three weeks  
we're getting married on february 22nd which  is literally this month it's in three weeks  

today it's the first defender right now three  weeks today guys we are so excited about it are  
today it's the first defender right now three  weeks today guys we are so excited about it are  

you kidding me we just freaking told people we're  getting married in three weeks are you kidding me  
you kidding me we just freaking told people we're  getting married in three weeks are you kidding me  

oh my gosh guys the reason we chose that date is  because if you listen to the date it's 2-2-2-2-2  
oh my gosh guys the reason we chose that date is  because if you listen to the date it's 2-2-2-2-2  

on a tuesday as you imagine say on a tuesday  tuesday so yeah we're getting married three  
on a tuesday as you imagine say on a tuesday  tuesday so yeah we're getting married three  

weeks today i don't know when you guys are seeing  this video but it's definitely before the 22nd  
weeks today i don't know when you guys are seeing  this video but it's definitely before the 22nd  

so we have a meeting today to pick up the marriage  license then wait to send out a few candles which  
so we have a meeting today to pick up the marriage  license then wait to send out a few candles which  

remember guys we have a candle company i make all  the candles and if you guys check it out um so we  
remember guys we have a candle company i make all  the candles and if you guys check it out um so we  

have a a busy day just getting things done but  most importantly we have a busy day getting our  
have a a busy day just getting things done but  most importantly we have a busy day getting our  

marriage license samuel so let's get going let's  go get some lunch heck yeah let's get some lunch
marriage license samuel so let's get going let's  go get some lunch heck yeah let's get some lunch

what they gave us an extra sandwich  they gave us an extra sandwich  
what they gave us an extra sandwich  they gave us an extra sandwich  

yeah so we have an hour now until  we sign their marriage license and  
yeah so we have an hour now until  we sign their marriage license and  

we get ready to marry each other we had  a little bit of a mess up the other day
we get ready to marry each other we had  a little bit of a mess up the other day

i can tell you're trying to do it  quietly but it prolongs it makes it laugh  
i can tell you're trying to do it  quietly but it prolongs it makes it laugh  

we had a little bit of a scary situation  with the marriage license the other day  
we had a little bit of a scary situation  with the marriage license the other day  

so we were looking on the marriage website  whatever you call it thing and it said that  
so we were looking on the marriage website  whatever you call it thing and it said that  

you need an original copy of the birth certificate  i've lost my birth certificate i ordered a new one  
you need an original copy of the birth certificate  i've lost my birth certificate i ordered a new one  

for my visa and it's gone what i think is it  might have been accidentally put in the pack  
for my visa and it's gone what i think is it  might have been accidentally put in the pack  

i think it was for customs and i think customs  threw it out when i entered the u.s either threw  
i think it was for customs and i think customs  threw it out when i entered the u.s either threw  

it out or kept it for them like their records  but thankfully my dad managed to find my original  
it out or kept it for them like their records  but thankfully my dad managed to find my original  

certificate back in the uk and he scanned  it over to me thankfully the clerk said it  
certificate back in the uk and he scanned  it over to me thankfully the clerk said it  

was suffice as long as i bring my passport  as well they can use a scan of my original  
was suffice as long as i bring my passport  as well they can use a scan of my original  

birth certificate so we're all good  but that was a very stressful few hours
birth certificate so we're all good  but that was a very stressful few hours

that was a very stressful few hours like  thinking we might not be able to get married  
that was a very stressful few hours like  thinking we might not be able to get married  

wasn't it but we're back we're ready we're about  to eat and then we gotta go because we have one  
wasn't it but we're back we're ready we're about  to eat and then we gotta go because we have one  

hour and i gotta go get my birth certificate i  know imagine you can't find yours i know where  
hour and i gotta go get my birth certificate i  know imagine you can't find yours i know where  

it is safely 57 minutes you're gonna make me  throw up outside in 30 degree weather it's warm  
it is safely 57 minutes you're gonna make me  throw up outside in 30 degree weather it's warm  

you're so british monica's just inside getting  her birth certificate i have my passport and  
you're so british monica's just inside getting  her birth certificate i have my passport and  

like i said the scan of my birth certificate which  hopefully is gonna suffice um if not this vlog may  
like i said the scan of my birth certificate which  hopefully is gonna suffice um if not this vlog may  

turn into something slightly different 19 minutes  time we are going to sign the marriage license  
turn into something slightly different 19 minutes  time we are going to sign the marriage license  

and it might not be a big deal for some people  but for us this is six and a half years of  
and it might not be a big deal for some people  but for us this is six and a half years of  

waiting this is a year and a half of waiting  for a visa six and a half years of dating  
waiting this is a year and a half of waiting  for a visa six and a half years of dating  

you know and it's finally come down to this  moment and so my dad's gonna fly over on the  
you know and it's finally come down to this  moment and so my dad's gonna fly over on the  

18th of feb we're getting married on the 22nd  and uh and here is my beautiful beautiful girl  
18th of feb we're getting married on the 22nd  and uh and here is my beautiful beautiful girl  

let's go and get our marriage license yeah go  doodle let's do it baby let's go let's go nauseous  
let's go and get our marriage license yeah go  doodle let's do it baby let's go let's go nauseous  

you're the reason i'm feeling nervous why  because i'm recording you're like getting really  
you're the reason i'm feeling nervous why  because i'm recording you're like getting really  

and it's making me nervous oh my gosh we're  signing your marriage certificate in there  
and it's making me nervous oh my gosh we're  signing your marriage certificate in there  

in four minutes time five  minutes everybody keep calm  
in four minutes time five  minutes everybody keep calm  

how are you feeling i'm feeling good and i've got  mama with me you know her fingerprint necklace  
how are you feeling i'm feeling good and i've got  mama with me you know her fingerprint necklace  

have i shown you guys this monica got me a  necklace with her fingerprint on her she's always  
have i shown you guys this monica got me a  necklace with her fingerprint on her she's always  

going to be here every day especially in times  like this are you even ready for that i'm so ready
going to be here every day especially in times  like this are you even ready for that i'm so ready

congratulations so i'm going to have you samuel
congratulations so i'm going to have you samuel

stay calm don't
stay calm don't

don't panic you can't panic yet
don't panic you can't panic yet

do you wanna just plop that up  there really quick yeah yeah yeah  
do you wanna just plop that up  there really quick yeah yeah yeah  

yeah cause it's a very calm situation  right now basically all we have to say
yeah cause it's a very calm situation  right now basically all we have to say

we have our marriage license we can get  married anywhere in the state of new york  
we have our marriage license we can get  married anywhere in the state of new york  

so we've got to think about somewhere cool  to do it and it's going to only be like a  
so we've got to think about somewhere cool  to do it and it's going to only be like a  

30 second long like really intimate ceremony  yeah it's not a full ceremony you know like  
30 second long like really intimate ceremony  yeah it's not a full ceremony you know like  

the proper main wedding is still going to be in  july but like obviously we're going to consider  
the proper main wedding is still going to be in  july but like obviously we're going to consider  

ourselves married after this because we will  be married you're going to be mrs patterson  
ourselves married after this because we will  be married you're going to be mrs patterson  

come on do it all that was a perfect first kiss  off having a marriage license i don't even know  
come on do it all that was a perfect first kiss  off having a marriage license i don't even know  

what to say doodlebug yes doodlebug we're getting  married guess what what we have a marriage license
what to say doodlebug yes doodlebug we're getting  married guess what what we have a marriage license

sam is at home and i'm just running out  because i'm with my mom and she ran into  
sam is at home and i'm just running out  because i'm with my mom and she ran into  

another store so i'm waiting for her but we  are just gonna go shopping at a few little  
another store so i'm waiting for her but we  are just gonna go shopping at a few little  

stores um we're running low on time because  we're meeting my siblings for dinner but i  
stores um we're running low on time because  we're meeting my siblings for dinner but i  

just wanted to get like a little bit of a head  start because i realized i need something to wear  
just wanted to get like a little bit of a head  start because i realized i need something to wear  

for our official wedding date the 22nd so we're  just gonna like schmeyer at a few different places  
for our official wedding date the 22nd so we're  just gonna like schmeyer at a few different places  

and see if there's anything i could find which i  very very very highly doubt that i'm gonna find  
and see if there's anything i could find which i  very very very highly doubt that i'm gonna find  

what is going on i very very highly doubt  that i'm going to find my dress today  
what is going on i very very highly doubt  that i'm going to find my dress today  

i don't even know if i'm going to wear a dress i  have no idea what i'm wearing because the ceremony  
i don't even know if i'm going to wear a dress i  have no idea what i'm wearing because the ceremony  

that we're having on the 22nd isn't our official  ceremony it's just like to make it legal kind of  
that we're having on the 22nd isn't our official  ceremony it's just like to make it legal kind of  

thing so i kind of need to figure out what i want  to wear for something like that i'm not wearing a  
thing so i kind of need to figure out what i want  to wear for something like that i'm not wearing a  

wedding dress because i just don't want to do the  two ceremonies i really want sam to see me in a  
wedding dress because i just don't want to do the  two ceremonies i really want sam to see me in a  

wedding dress for the first time at our official  wedding and that's what he wants as well so  
wedding dress for the first time at our official  wedding and that's what he wants as well so  

i'm not wearing a wedding dress but i would  like to wear some sort of like nice white  
i'm not wearing a wedding dress but i would  like to wear some sort of like nice white  

outfit so let's see if i can find anything  i'm so bad at shopping i hate shopping  
outfit so let's see if i can find anything  i'm so bad at shopping i hate shopping  

she takes 1800 hours per aisle the first place  was a fail we went to tj maxx didn't find anything  
she takes 1800 hours per aisle the first place  was a fail we went to tj maxx didn't find anything  

so it's not going well sorry for the lighting  by the way but we're going shopping tomorrow  
so it's not going well sorry for the lighting  by the way but we're going shopping tomorrow  

because we need to find something are you  excited i'm getting married that looks my man
because we need to find something are you  excited i'm getting married that looks my man

i'm very happy for you it's a lot of  paperwork you can change your license  
i'm very happy for you it's a lot of  paperwork you can change your license  

to change your social security
to change your social security

maybe this is a bad idea maybe you should  just like let me marry him because i don't  
maybe this is a bad idea maybe you should  just like let me marry him because i don't  

really care about changing my name and all this  stuff because i'm older and you can come visit  
really care about changing my name and all this  stuff because i'm older and you can come visit  

i was driving home and look  who i came across on a wookiee
i was driving home and look  who i came across on a wookiee

hi bobby hi bubba look at you on the bell huh is  he walking you yes he is wherever he wants to play  
hi bobby hi bubba look at you on the bell huh is  he walking you yes he is wherever he wants to play  

duty you want to ride come on we're at dinner  with my brother my basically my second brother  
duty you want to ride come on we're at dinner  with my brother my basically my second brother  

it's my brother's best friend jake liz and  danielle who doesn't want to look at the camera  
it's my brother's best friend jake liz and  danielle who doesn't want to look at the camera  

look at what robert what is even is that i'm not  driving tonight what is that super hard it's a  
look at what robert what is even is that i'm not  driving tonight what is that super hard it's a  

dragon ball dragon ball yeah gotta drink that  in the middle oh yeah wait how does that go out
dragon ball dragon ball yeah gotta drink that  in the middle oh yeah wait how does that go out

how's it going
how's it going

this is what always happens when we go out to eat  everyone tries to put something in their drinks  
this is what always happens when we go out to eat  everyone tries to put something in their drinks  

that's just one time you spend an entire meal  getting a whole handful goes over bobby's drink he  
that's just one time you spend an entire meal  getting a whole handful goes over bobby's drink he  

goes bombardment they're doing rock paper scissors  to see who has to go get the coupon out of the car  
goes bombardment they're doing rock paper scissors  to see who has to go get the coupon out of the car  

neither of them no no no one  wants to go out to the car
neither of them no no no one  wants to go out to the car

oh bye they're playing the credit  card game to see who plays oh  
oh bye they're playing the credit  card game to see who plays oh  

she wins you're out it's between  them to see who's gonna be ready one
she wins you're out it's between  them to see who's gonna be ready one

you're welcome robert you're welcome i'm doing a  table spin and then until he says stop who sends  
you're welcome robert you're welcome i'm doing a  table spin and then until he says stop who sends  

stuff until robert says stop who's gonna danielle  you're gonna say stop you say them one yeah
stuff until robert says stop who's gonna danielle  you're gonna say stop you say them one yeah

this is chaos it's the next day i thought we  because we didn't end the vlog what if we do  
this is chaos it's the next day i thought we  because we didn't end the vlog what if we do  

a really quick update about what just happened  let's do it really quick because we didn't finish  
a really quick update about what just happened  let's do it really quick because we didn't finish  

the vlog so we can continue so we are parked  outside the social security office for me to get  
the vlog so we can continue so we are parked  outside the social security office for me to get  

a social security number guys what everything eyes  everything is moving so fast it's mad so i just  
a social security number guys what everything eyes  everything is moving so fast it's mad so i just  

went in it turns out so my full name is samuel  charles simpson paterson i have two middle names  
went in it turns out so my full name is samuel  charles simpson paterson i have two middle names  

he's very british very british and the customs  officer when i entered the united states wrote  
he's very british very british and the customs  officer when i entered the united states wrote  

down my name but he forgot my second middle name  so he wrote down samuel charles patterson so the  
down my name but he forgot my second middle name  so he wrote down samuel charles patterson so the  

social security officer in there thought that  uh maybe that's messed up with the system so he  
social security officer in there thought that  uh maybe that's messed up with the system so he  

couldn't he couldn't verify my info on the system  so um he said he's he's tried to get me a social  
couldn't he couldn't verify my info on the system  so um he said he's he's tried to get me a social  

security card and he's given me a letter to prove  that i've you know applied for it um but he said  
security card and he's given me a letter to prove  that i've you know applied for it um but he said  

if if i hadn't received it in four weeks call the  office and i'll try and figure it out today we  
if if i hadn't received it in four weeks call the  office and i'll try and figure it out today we  

didn't film it but we had another meeting if you'd  like to with a meeting with actually one of my  
didn't film it but we had another meeting if you'd  like to with a meeting with actually one of my  

friends who's a reverend we think he's going to be  marrying us not 100 because he's also in the navy  
friends who's a reverend we think he's going to be  marrying us not 100 because he's also in the navy  

so he might not be around and he's so funny he's  so great um so we might have that situated now  
so he might not be around and he's so funny he's  so great um so we might have that situated now  

we know where our ceremony is taking place it's  been amazing look at us girl getting things done  
we know where our ceremony is taking place it's  been amazing look at us girl getting things done  

so now i've got a us phone number a u.s  bank account i'm marrying my u.s chickie  
so now i've got a us phone number a u.s  bank account i'm marrying my u.s chickie  

and and i've applied for a social security  number i hope you guys are enjoying these  
and and i've applied for a social security  number i hope you guys are enjoying these  

little updates we're going to be vlogging  so much more because you guys asked us to  
little updates we're going to be vlogging  so much more because you guys asked us to  

we're so happy you love the vlogs and now that  i'm turning american and living in new york um  
we're so happy you love the vlogs and now that  i'm turning american and living in new york um  

in future if you guys could refer to me as darmy  i'm not sam hey it's darmy it's just a good idea  
in future if you guys could refer to me as darmy  i'm not sam hey it's darmy it's just a good idea  

i have time to back out right you got me  for three years and then i have my green  
i have time to back out right you got me  for three years and then i have my green  

card sorted and we get a divorce like customs  people watching this like don't worry i'm just  
card sorted and we get a divorce like customs  people watching this like don't worry i'm just  

okay we're joking we love each other okay get  off me now yeah all right can we stop doing  
okay we're joking we love each other okay get  off me now yeah all right can we stop doing  

this guys thank you so much for watching this vlog  we'll see you in the next one and it's less than  
this guys thank you so much for watching this vlog  we'll see you in the next one and it's less than  

three weeks now until we get married all right  high five peace out catch you guys very soon
three weeks now until we get married all right  high five peace out catch you guys very soon