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stay tuned NLP look at this hey I I can't do
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anything these guys keep coming up to us yes my friend is the best in world I just
anything these guys keep coming up to us yes my friend is the best in world I just

pull out my camera and like they start walking up to me this is Damon Cart from
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first problem that people have when it comes to getting what they want is they
first problem that people have when it comes to getting what they want is they

lack a lot of clarity about what they want and NLP can help you get very clear
lack a lot of clarity about what they want and NLP can help you get very clear

about it and more than just being specific about details and my first
about it and more than just being specific about details and my first

Centipede training I did it with Robert Dilts and an orientation he said if you
Centipede training I did it with Robert Dilts and an orientation he said if you

don't want anything NLP can't help you NLP is based on
don't want anything NLP can't help you NLP is based on

getting what you want the psychologies and therapies up until
getting what you want the psychologies and therapies up until

just recently we're focused on really picking apart and understanding the
just recently we're focused on really picking apart and understanding the

problem when they were making an LP they used it to they use getting what you
problem when they were making an LP they used it to they use getting what you

want your desire to move you out of the problem state so there's the present
want your desire to move you out of the problem state so there's the present

state and the desired state the present state is you don't have what you want or
state and the desired state the present state is you don't have what you want or

you're in problem or scarcity or you're dealing with the problem that you want
you're in problem or scarcity or you're dealing with the problem that you want

to solve and then you use your desire what you want instead to move you out of
to solve and then you use your desire what you want instead to move you out of

it so if you drill down on the problem too
it so if you drill down on the problem too

much and you try to analyze the problem and try to understand the problem you're
much and you try to analyze the problem and try to understand the problem you're

just getting more and more focused on what you don't want which tends to
just getting more and more focused on what you don't want which tends to

create more of what you don't want so if I ask you what do you want what's the
create more of what you don't want so if I ask you what do you want what's the

first thing that comes to mind many of you probably thought about all the
first thing that comes to mind many of you probably thought about all the

things you don't want or all the things you're trying to avoid rather than
things you don't want or all the things you're trying to avoid rather than

answering the question that I asked you which is what do you want your conscious
answering the question that I asked you which is what do you want your conscious

mind is really good at making sure every day throughout your life you're avoiding
mind is really good at making sure every day throughout your life you're avoiding

all the things you don't want the problem is is that
all the things you don't want the problem is is that

your unconscious tends to follow that lead and if you're unconsciously focused
your unconscious tends to follow that lead and if you're unconsciously focused

on all the things that you don't want your unconscious doesn't know the
on all the things that you don't want your unconscious doesn't know the

difference between what you do want and what you don't want and it will tend to
difference between what you do want and what you don't want and it will tend to

gravitate to what you're very clear about and what you're focused on so if
gravitate to what you're very clear about and what you're focused on so if

you're focused on what you don't want you will consciously and unconsciously
you're focused on what you don't want you will consciously and unconsciously

create more of that if you're very clear about what you do want and you set your
create more of that if you're very clear about what you do want and you set your

conscious attention and your unconscious attention on that you will tend to
conscious attention and your unconscious attention on that you will tend to

create more of that so to begin with there's something called a well-formed
create more of that so to begin with there's something called a well-formed

outcome and this is something you would learn this is like a basic NLP structure
outcome and this is something you would learn this is like a basic NLP structure

for setting goals and outcomes you learn this in practitioner training but I'm
for setting goals and outcomes you learn this in practitioner training but I'm

amazed at how many people don't actually ever practice it or use it or they just
amazed at how many people don't actually ever practice it or use it or they just

kind of skim over it whenever they're in an NLP training and never go back to it
kind of skim over it whenever they're in an NLP training and never go back to it

they never set their goals this way a well-formed outcome basically helps you
they never set their goals this way a well-formed outcome basically helps you

to understand clearly what it is that you want and what is the greater value
to understand clearly what it is that you want and what is the greater value

that you're looking for because it truth is is you don't really want more money a
that you're looking for because it truth is is you don't really want more money a

new car and a new house now you may be saying no no I do want those things and
new car and a new house now you may be saying no no I do want those things and

yes I understand you do want those things but more than wanting those
yes I understand you do want those things but more than wanting those

things you want the state you believe or you want the experience you believe
things you want the state you believe or you want the experience you believe

those things will give you now you can already access that right now if you
those things will give you now you can already access that right now if you

couldn't you wouldn't be able to project that state and experience that you want
couldn't you wouldn't be able to project that state and experience that you want

onto these objects so because you can project it it must already exist within
onto these objects so because you can project it it must already exist within

you when you access that which is the value or the experience you want to
you when you access that which is the value or the experience you want to

experience when you access that and you focus on the thing that you want that
experience when you access that and you focus on the thing that you want that

becomes super powerful and you're able to create it much faster you're able to
becomes super powerful and you're able to create it much faster you're able to

naturally attract this to yourself because you're in a state of abundance a
naturally attract this to yourself because you're in a state of abundance a

lot of people withhold that feeling from themselves they withhold the experience
lot of people withhold that feeling from themselves they withhold the experience

and the values that they want to experience from themselves until they
and the values that they want to experience from themselves until they

have what they want like they're trying to Dingle the carrot to try to force
have what they want like they're trying to Dingle the carrot to try to force

themselves to go and get it this doesn't usually work you're in scarcity and
themselves to go and get it this doesn't usually work you're in scarcity and

limitations so it's preventing you from actually getting what you want so the
limitations so it's preventing you from actually getting what you want so the

paradox is is to put you into the state of already having it and then focusing
paradox is is to put you into the state of already having it and then focusing

on it still you still need to focus on it
on it still you still need to focus on it

people think that they can just do this this is what the secret and the law of
people think that they can just do this this is what the secret and the law of

attraction is based on a lot of people are sold on this idea that they can all
attraction is based on a lot of people are sold on this idea that they can all

that's all they have to do they don't have to do anything else like they don't
that's all they have to do they don't have to do anything else like they don't

have to take action they don't have to practice to become good or have the
have to take action they don't have to practice to become good or have the

skills that they want to have so people don't often take action because they're
skills that they want to have so people don't often take action because they're

afraid of failing and they're afraid of the disappointment of failing a lot of
afraid of failing and they're afraid of the disappointment of failing a lot of

times people don't take action because they're actually afraid that if they get
times people don't take action because they're actually afraid that if they get

what they want they might disappoint them because it's not what they expected
what they want they might disappoint them because it's not what they expected

so they would rather stay in the fantasy phase of just imagining happening having
so they would rather stay in the fantasy phase of just imagining happening having

it and feeling good about imagining happening having it it's so important to
it and feeling good about imagining happening having it it's so important to

take action take a step forward or a step toward what it is that you want
take action take a step forward or a step toward what it is that you want

nothing can replace that because true experience gives you brings in so much
nothing can replace that because true experience gives you brings in so much

sensory experience sensory experience is what's real if you practice the sensory
sensory experience sensory experience is what's real if you practice the sensory

experience of it what you'll see hear and feel and you're going into the state
experience of it what you'll see hear and feel and you're going into the state

are the value that you want to experience this becomes super powerful
are the value that you want to experience this becomes super powerful

and this becomes a kind of focus now how do you really tap into that sensory
and this becomes a kind of focus now how do you really tap into that sensory

experience you tap into it by taking action by practicing so when you do this
experience you tap into it by taking action by practicing so when you do this

yes you will take action and you will fail at times and getting what you want
yes you will take action and you will fail at times and getting what you want

you will run into disappointment it will hurt and you will get what you want if
you will run into disappointment it will hurt and you will get what you want if

and only if you stay on the path and just know that this is the process of
and only if you stay on the path and just know that this is the process of

getting what you want as you bring in as you gather troost real sensory data
getting what you want as you bring in as you gather troost real sensory data

experience you will start to understand what satisfies you what doesn't you may
experience you will start to understand what satisfies you what doesn't you may

have been on on track to accomplish something and you realize wait a minute
have been on on track to accomplish something and you realize wait a minute

this is not going to give me the satisfaction that I want so you drop it
this is not going to give me the satisfaction that I want so you drop it

you keep moving toward the goal you want in the sense you keep moving to the
you keep moving toward the goal you want in the sense you keep moving to the

toward the experience and the values that you want but maybe
toward the experience and the values that you want but maybe

the object that you thought would give you that isn't right for you anymore you
the object that you thought would give you that isn't right for you anymore you

realize that's not going to do it so the more action you take the more you
realize that's not going to do it so the more action you take the more you

practice getting what you want the more likely you are to drop the things that
practice getting what you want the more likely you are to drop the things that

aren't going to truly give you what you want and the things that are getting in
aren't going to truly give you what you want and the things that are getting in

your way the disappointments and the failings you can reframe as giving even
your way the disappointments and the failings you can reframe as giving even

more meaning to what it is that you want by meaning you're working for this
more meaning to what it is that you want by meaning you're working for this

you're earning it sure you had a setback but it's nothing
you're earning it sure you had a setback but it's nothing

personal it's not about you it just means that you have to try a different
personal it's not about you it just means that you have to try a different

way earning what you want gives more meaning to what you want so you're more
way earning what you want gives more meaning to what you want so you're more

likely to keep it the reason why 50% of people who win the lottery are broke
likely to keep it the reason why 50% of people who win the lottery are broke

within ten years more broke than they were before they won the lottery is
within ten years more broke than they were before they won the lottery is

because they didn't earn that money so they didn't know how to keep it they
because they didn't earn that money so they didn't know how to keep it they

didn't have the meaning that people who earned that much money attached to that
didn't have the meaning that people who earned that much money attached to that

money so that of course they lost it when you fail and you keep going and you
money so that of course they lost it when you fail and you keep going and you

change up your game plan and you change your strategy and you keep moving
change up your game plan and you change your strategy and you keep moving

forward you will truly earn what it is that you want and therefore it gives it
forward you will truly earn what it is that you want and therefore it gives it

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