- It's like, "Aw, I have to have sex all the time.
- It's like, "Aw, I have to have sex all the time.

"My life is so hard." - [Dimitri] "Meh, poor me.
"My life is so hard." - [Dimitri] "Meh, poor me.

"I'm such a baby."
"I'm such a baby."

- [Mallory] When I feel bad, I can't cum, and...
- [Mallory] When I feel bad, I can't cum, and...

(groans)
(groans)

- My penis wanted to retreat inside of my body.
- My penis wanted to retreat inside of my body.

(suspenseful orchestral music)
(suspenseful orchestral music)

- On average, we have sex about five times a week.
- On average, we have sex about five times a week.

- Oh yeah.
- Oh yeah.

- Once a month.
- Once a month.

- No, we have sex...
- No, we have sex...

- Twice a month.
- Twice a month.

- Two to three times a week.
- Two to three times a week.

- Average, during the week we probably
- Average, during the week we probably

have twice, twice or three times.
have twice, twice or three times.

- This sounds so difficult.
- This sounds so difficult.

- I think we're a couple born and bred for this challenge.
- I think we're a couple born and bred for this challenge.

- Oh, I'm just the kind of person that the minute
- Oh, I'm just the kind of person that the minute

I have to do something, it's just like...
I have to do something, it's just like...

- Okay, so rules.
- Okay, so rules.

- So one, it has to be every day.
- So one, it has to be every day.

- At least one of us has to get off every time.
- At least one of us has to get off every time.

- Two, has to go in.
- Two, has to go in.

- Handies don't count.
- Handies don't count.

- Right, they're masturbation.
- Right, they're masturbation.

- Three, someone has to cum.
- Three, someone has to cum.

- So it doesn't have to be necessarily penetration.
- So it doesn't have to be necessarily penetration.

- No.
- No.

- There just has to be climaxing on both parties.
- There just has to be climaxing on both parties.

- Both parties.
- Both parties.

- Okay.
- Okay.

- Do we get a one day tap out, or no?
- Do we get a one day tap out, or no?

- I don't think so.
- I don't think so.

It's 30 days, no tap out. - [Suki] No one day tap out?
It's 30 days, no tap out. - [Suki] No one day tap out?

Okay, fine.
Okay, fine.

- [Dimitri] I'm afraid it's gonna be a matter
- [Dimitri] I'm afraid it's gonna be a matter

of be careful what you wish for, you just might get it.
of be careful what you wish for, you just might get it.

(gentle orchestral music)
(gentle orchestral music)

- Hi, I'm Dr. Ava Cadell, I'm a sexologist,
- Hi, I'm Dr. Ava Cadell, I'm a sexologist,

an author, and I have my own university.
an author, and I have my own university.

So I've been teaching sex for over 20 years and I love it.
So I've been teaching sex for over 20 years and I love it.

The benefits of having regular sex in a relationship
The benefits of having regular sex in a relationship

is that you have intimate communication.
is that you have intimate communication.

You both feel desired and loved, very important.
You both feel desired and loved, very important.

- It's day one and...
- It's day one and...

- So far a success.
- So far a success.

- How are we feelin'?
- How are we feelin'?

- I feel great, this is gonna be easy.
- I feel great, this is gonna be easy.

- First day went off without a hitch.
- First day went off without a hitch.

This challenge should be pretty easy, can't wait to
This challenge should be pretty easy, can't wait to

keep it going, I don't see any obstacles in the way.
keep it going, I don't see any obstacles in the way.

- But I say we started pretty strong, eh?
- But I say we started pretty strong, eh?

- Yeah and don't count your chickens
- Yeah and don't count your chickens

before they have sex though.
before they have sex though.

- Sex keeps the chemistry, the juices flowing
- Sex keeps the chemistry, the juices flowing

mentally, physically, emotionally, even spiritually.
mentally, physically, emotionally, even spiritually.

- I went to sleep last night, then 1:00 AM hits
- I went to sleep last night, then 1:00 AM hits

and Kevin is nudging me while I'm sleeping.
and Kevin is nudging me while I'm sleeping.

He's like, "Babe, we didn't have sex."
He's like, "Babe, we didn't have sex."

And so he woke me up and we had to have sex.
And so he woke me up and we had to have sex.

(laughs)
(laughs)

- Uh...
- Uh...

Yeah, I gotta tell ya, I'm pretty sick of this right now.
Yeah, I gotta tell ya, I'm pretty sick of this right now.

- Definitely don't wanna bone anymore.
- Definitely don't wanna bone anymore.

- Yeah, I'm kinda gettin' sick
- Yeah, I'm kinda gettin' sick

of bonin' to be honest with you.
of bonin' to be honest with you.

I'm not saying I'm not happy.
I'm not saying I'm not happy.

- No.
- No.

- I'm just saying I'm a little annoyed.
- I'm just saying I'm a little annoyed.

I'm a little annoyed.
I'm a little annoyed.

- A little annoyed.
- A little annoyed.

- So it's the morning of day eight
- So it's the morning of day eight

and last night Kevin and I failed.
and last night Kevin and I failed.

It's pretty upsetting because we failed so early.
It's pretty upsetting because we failed so early.

This moving into a new place has
This moving into a new place has

been a pretty emotional road block.
been a pretty emotional road block.

- This is a sad day and last night we didn't make it.
- This is a sad day and last night we didn't make it.

I think our schedules just weren't lining up
I think our schedules just weren't lining up

and it finally caught up with us.
and it finally caught up with us.

(soft instrumental music)
(soft instrumental music)

- Have you noticed that your relationship has changed?
- Have you noticed that your relationship has changed?

- I guess I used to cum every time
- I guess I used to cum every time

and now I only cum 50 percent of the time.
and now I only cum 50 percent of the time.

- You can enjoy the journey of making love
- You can enjoy the journey of making love

and having sex even more than the destination,
and having sex even more than the destination,

'cause orgasm doesn't equal sex.
'cause orgasm doesn't equal sex.

- I don't think we have been
- I don't think we have been

enjoying it as much as we used to.
enjoying it as much as we used to.

- So I think for the remainder
- So I think for the remainder

of the challenge it would be great
of the challenge it would be great

if you could make it more fun, more playful.
if you could make it more fun, more playful.

Share your sexual fantasies erotically.
Share your sexual fantasies erotically.

(laughs)
(laughs)

- And take turns initiating the sex,
- And take turns initiating the sex,

the kind of sex, so more variety.
the kind of sex, so more variety.

- Once we get into it, I love it,
- Once we get into it, I love it,

but it's just the getting into it that's now become harder.
but it's just the getting into it that's now become harder.

- It's like, let's take one of my favorite things to do
- It's like, let's take one of my favorite things to do

on this planet and turn it into a chore.
on this planet and turn it into a chore.

- To get started you just have to get naked.
- To get started you just have to get naked.

You have to look at each other, you can hug, right?
You have to look at each other, you can hug, right?

- Oh yeah.
- Oh yeah.

So I guess moving forward one of our goals
So I guess moving forward one of our goals

is to make sure that it doesn't
is to make sure that it doesn't

become burdensome and it doesn't--
become burdensome and it doesn't--

- It's not a chore.
- It's not a chore.

- Yeah.
- Yeah.

- No, it won't, if you set your intentions
- No, it won't, if you set your intentions

and I think what you can do is
and I think what you can do is

have an intention to have romantic sex tonight,
have an intention to have romantic sex tonight,

sensual sex tomorrow, kinky sex the next day.
sensual sex tomorrow, kinky sex the next day.

- I feel like lately, and if I can be honest here,
- I feel like lately, and if I can be honest here,

I feel like my dick is gonna fall off.
I feel like my dick is gonna fall off.

(laughs)
(laughs)

- So far it's a scheduling nightmare
- So far it's a scheduling nightmare

just because I have shit to do, he has shit to do.
just because I have shit to do, he has shit to do.

For me, it's a helpful experiment for me to be like,
For me, it's a helpful experiment for me to be like,

you just have to decide to have sex.
you just have to decide to have sex.

- So what do you want the outcome to be after the 30 days?
- So what do you want the outcome to be after the 30 days?

- I think that we wanna have more sex.
- I think that we wanna have more sex.

- But I think you guys are really having fun with this.
- But I think you guys are really having fun with this.

- [Dimitri] We're havin' a blast.
- [Dimitri] We're havin' a blast.

- I'm impressed.
- I'm impressed.

- How's it been going for everybody else?
- How's it been going for everybody else?

Everyone else okay?
Everyone else okay?

(laughs)
(laughs)

- We've missed four days already.
- We've missed four days already.

When you have a challenge like this,
When you have a challenge like this,

it's hard to really get horny about it.
it's hard to really get horny about it.

Pretty over it.
Pretty over it.

- I'm back on board.
- I'm back on board.

I'm sorry I ever said anything negative.
I'm sorry I ever said anything negative.

- It's definitely less of a thing.
- It's definitely less of a thing.

Once it's in the routine, it's in the routine.
Once it's in the routine, it's in the routine.

- We learned to accept it, I think.
- We learned to accept it, I think.

- I think so.
- I think so.

- And it just became fun again.
- And it just became fun again.

We had a dip there, couple weeks ago, we had a bit of a dip.
We had a dip there, couple weeks ago, we had a bit of a dip.

- God, it was so not fun then.
- God, it was so not fun then.

- Yeah, it wasn't fun.
- Yeah, it wasn't fun.

It's great, I am so on board for this.
It's great, I am so on board for this.

- Yeah, everybody should do it.
- Yeah, everybody should do it.

- Everybody should do this
- Everybody should do this

at least once. - [Suki] At least try it.
at least once. - [Suki] At least try it.

- [Kevin] I think we're both
- [Kevin] I think we're both

looking forward to the end of it.
looking forward to the end of it.

Found some new stuff about what we're like as a couple.
Found some new stuff about what we're like as a couple.

I don't recommend this at all.
I don't recommend this at all.

It was something I thought I could do
It was something I thought I could do

and push through it and it got
and push through it and it got

the best of me and Mallory I'd say.
the best of me and Mallory I'd say.

(soft jazz music)
(soft jazz music)

- [Both] We did it.
- [Both] We did it.

- I guess.
- I guess.

- Almost made it.
- Almost made it.

- We had to stop short.
- We had to stop short.

I got a cold and then he got the flu.
I got a cold and then he got the flu.

- Our private parts survived.
- Our private parts survived.

- That's a feat.
- That's a feat.

- Yeah.
- Yeah.

- We looked like a pile of laundry
- We looked like a pile of laundry

on top of another pile of laundry.
on top of another pile of laundry.

(laughs)
(laughs)

- People who have sex every day, I give you guys props.
- People who have sex every day, I give you guys props.

Whoo.
Whoo.

- If you had asked me week one if we would finish,
- If you had asked me week one if we would finish,

I would of said, "Go fuck yourself."
I would of said, "Go fuck yourself."

- We were just really ambitious
- We were just really ambitious

and the moment we fell behind it
and the moment we fell behind it

was really hard to pick up the pieces.
was really hard to pick up the pieces.

- This was vastly more challenging than we expected.
- This was vastly more challenging than we expected.

- Way more challenging.
- Way more challenging.

- We're probably not gonna continue
- We're probably not gonna continue

to have sex every day, but I definitely think
to have sex every day, but I definitely think

we'll continue to have more sex.
we'll continue to have more sex.

No one wants to work out.
No one wants to work out.

You do that anyway.
You do that anyway.

- You do it anyway.
- You do it anyway.

- It makes you feel good.
- It makes you feel good.