please discuss how discipline in one area doesn't make up for slack in other
areas for example the fitness guru who has no savings mmm yeah you know this is
something that we all have to work out watch out for is the fact that we we
focus on our strengths right that's what we do that's what people do so you get a
person that's smart a really intellectual person and they
let themselves go physically right you know or you get a person that's a
physical stud but then they're not gonna challenge their brainpower or like the
question that was you know the example here that was posed you know someone
that's a fitness guru or a party guru him I'm throwing that one out there cuz
some people were too good that sure or they you know they're an entrepreneur
entrepreneur and so they're driving a new Mercedes but it's leased and they're
behind on payments so strategic yeah yeah that so you know I mean you take
another example is what about the business person that doesn't have time
for their family right yeah and so that's not good so I think the focus
here is do we try and we all have to be try to be well-rounded and not focus so
much on one area that you're gonna let some other area go that's target
fixation is what that is right is you walk into a room and you get fixated on
one target in one bad guy you think there's one bad guy so you focus all
your energy and then you're getting flanked that's the target fixation you
can't let that happen you can't let it happen on the battlefield you can't let
it happen on life so look out for that when you do this um and I'll tell you
this is actually a reality of the situation I'm I try and maintain this
balance but I've been actually working a lot lately and what and this is a clear
indicator to me that I've overbooked myself is last week we had to sky we had
to skip a day of jiu-jitsu to record I mean we don't do that right when do we
record rerecord after jiu-jitsu but I knew I had so much stuff going on that I
said hey we got a we got to record it this time because I gotta get of this
other stuff done cuz I'm travelling in this and that and so we had to skip the
jujitsu so that is it red flag to me mmm that says I need to I need to tighten up
I need to get my you know get my schedule back in check so that I can do
the things that I need to do of course what do I say about the situation it's
fine you know what can't train jiu-jitsu that day because
I'm trying I got some travel coming up good I'm gonna heal up my shoulder a
little bit more I'm gonna do no I'm gonna it's good fine
but it is an indicator of when things start going in the wrong direction maybe
I'm getting targeted fixated on you know too much work at a certain time which to
me again I will run this thing in the red as you say I like I like running in
the red right I'm in the red and I got no problem like we will go hard in the
numbers of hours I've been or I will work will have actually known impact on
how much I'm gonna tell them to spend with my family and do jiu-jitsu and all
that so I'll just do it all but there is a capacity that you reach where you go
okay now one of these things that has just started to slide now I need to make
sure that my levels get re re levels yes you might say equalized is what I should
have said so back to the subject don't be a one-trick pony
you know be a jack-of-all-trades and then master a few of those trades so you
can emphasize fitness guru you can emphasize intellectual power you can
emphasize jiu-jitsu but don't put a hundred percent of your effort into one
area because eventually it will take you you won't have anything else and by the
way if you put all your you know if you put all your all your eggs in the basket
of intellectual power now you're unhealthy and you die right that doesn't
you know I don't care how smart you are you
can't do 2+2 when you're dead so don't put all your focus a hundred percent
into one area don't become unbalanced in your
disciplines spread it around and hold the line good yeah I get it it kind of
feels like like you can be understood that um I'm real good at I don't know
fitness and it's easy to justify yourself you know like you're you're say
okay I'm real good at fitness you know fitness guru and I go around and then I
see out I know I go to the store go to some party and I see this other guy
who's like socially he's just a hundred percent everyone likes me such a nice
charismatic guy makes a lot of money you know and all this stuff but he's not in
that good of shape or I don't know he smokes in whatever you know it's easy I
think a lot of people it feels like it's easy to justify well that guy's in bad
shape so who cares I wouldn't want any of that
I wouldn't want all the money you know all this stuff it seems like and you
know if the other guys saying yeah you might be in good shape guess what
yeah nice Toyota Corolla you're driving he's all negative on it yeah yeah yeah
so both those guys should issued instead of saying hey you know what they should
do walk up and be like hey man you know what I notice you're pretty successful
financially I would like to get in the game with you a little bit and and learn
from you about that any other guy should say oh well you know what it looks like
you're in pretty good fitness levels I would like to get in the game with that
let's work together and improve ourselves and go out and kick ass and
dominate are you in I'm in let's do this instead what does a normal person do
they do exactly what you said justify criticize cut people down instead of
building them up yeah and once you have to be careful of if I was to go to you
and say hey you know echo I got a lot of money I can tell you don't have a lot
I'll help you out that's that can be offensive to some people yeah did you
think thank you I'm gonna need your help money think I'm
worried about money when I got abs like geez you know so what we have to do is
instead of if you if I came to you and said echo dude I want abs like you got
sir can you help me get in the game and then we form a little relationship and
now I say to you man so what's your what's your main income stream dude you
know what are you doing and you say well you know I got these two clients you got
a website no not really well why don't you have a website you
got any social media to advertise on you know and we go though that road and we
build up we take care of each other so we want to do as people yeah kind of
like you ever seen the guys who go they see like a football player or something
I mean like I kick his ass though you know you know that King guy you know
he's like some success and I kick his ass though yeah yeah then well I've told
the story before in the SEAL Teams it's oh no one no one is good if a guy like
we have guys in the SEAL Teams that are literally you know world-class athletes
in whatever world-class triathlete world-class sailor world-class whatever
and so oh you owe your your world cost triathlete oh yeah that guy's really
good triathlete that's cool he's a really bad shot someone is gonna chime
in and cut him down that's the way it goes slack no slack slack