Hi, it's Mark here from Make Him Yours and today, we're going to have some
fun. I'm giving you three great questions to ask on a first date and I'll even give
you the context to bring them up so it's not freaking weird. Stay tuned.
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Okay, great first date questions. What do you ask your date the very first time
you hang out with him to understand about him, to promote interesting conversation and
to most importantly find out if he's the guy for you? I'm gonna give you three questions
in this video and more importantly, I'm going to give you the context that you can bring
these up in because if you just pull them out of nowhere, they can seem pretty weird.
So let's get straight into the questions. Number one is one of my absolute favorites.
Jermia: So what's been the best day of your year so far?
All right. This is an absolutely sensational first date question. And I was
asked this once on a date, and I lit up. When you ask this to a man. He gets to talk about
something that he loves the best day of his year. He gets to relive a memory that he loved
and showcase what his values are to you and what's important to him. You get to hear these
things and you get to understand what he treasures most in his world. Of course, it can seem
a little random if you bring it up out of nowhere. So here's an example of how it might
come up in conversation.
Jermia: So you've been working hard lately. Have you had any downtime time for fun.
Mark: Yeah, I took last weekend off and hit it down for bucks day on the coast, which
is super cool. Yeah, I got to see the boys haven't seen them in a while. We went go carting,
which I haven't done for ages.
Jermia: Ah that would be so much fun.
Mark: Yeah, it was a really good day. Yeah, a lot of fun.
Jermia: Best day of your year?
Mark: Uhh wouldn't say that.
Jermia: Yeah. Okay, so what has been the best day of your year?
Number two is a great one, if you're the traveling adventurous kind, it's going
to give you a great rate on your day and showcase if he has values similar to you.
Jermia: If you could live anywhere in the world, where would you live and why?
This is a great question, but it can be very random to bring this question
up out of nowhere. Instead, you want to wait until some sort of travel topic comes up so
that you can slide it in to the conversation.
Jermia: My gosh, you travel a lot. Didn't you just get back from a trip?
Mark: Yeah, we just got back from New Zealand, which was super fun, learning all about the
Maori culture and their connection with the land, which was super cool and then off to
UK in a couple of months, which I can't wait for.
Jermia: Oh, nice. So exciting. Last, you've been to all these places, but if you could
live anywhere in the world, where would you live?
Mark: Oh, good question. I'd probably say Canada.
Jermia: Hmm okay. Why is that?
Number three is a lot of fun. It's probably the most random, but it's a question
that I love.
Jermia: If you were a superhero, what superpower would you choose?
Now, obviously, this question in particular, if you bring it up out of nowhere,
it's going to sound very contrived and very premeditated. You don't want to have that.
You don't want to give that impression to a man that you're on a date with. So here's
an example of how it might come up naturally in a conversation.
Jermia: One of my friends actually just got cast in the new Aquaman movie, which is really
cool.
Mark: Oh wow. That sounds very cool. I don't actually know what Aquaman is, but it sounds
cool.
Jermia: You don't know what Aquaman is? What was your childhood? No. Did you just like
not get into superheroes?
Mark: I watched Smallville.
Jermia: Smallville. Okay. If you were a superhero, what superpower would you choose?
Now before I go, I wanted to add one more thing. It's much better if you can,
to have these questions come up naturally, but sometimes you just have a question that
you really want to ask and you really want to bring it up and that can be done. You just
have to have the social awareness to know that it's random and be ready to answer the
guy if he points that fact out.
Mark: So yeah, work's been going really well and that all went well and I'm excited for
the next challenge.
Jermia: That's really cool. Thank you. Okay, so I have a random question to ask you.
Mark: Okay.
Jermia: If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be?
Mark: That is kind of a random question.
Jermia: I know, but I love travel so much and I think that wherever someone would choose
to live says a lot about them. So just know that I am judging your answer
And that's it. That's the video. Thank you for watching. What do you think
of the three questions? I'm going to do a follow-up part two on this video, giving you
three more. Let me know your thoughts, comments, questions. I'd love to hear them. Pop them
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