Matt: Some guys can just say the perfect thing at the perfect time and spend a dying conversation with a
girl from failure to success little secret though they're doing one simple thing that very few guys
do or even know about and you can start doing it right this second wanna know what it is learn
how to talk about her emotions now i know what you're thinking who the heck wants to talk about
their feelings come on you wanna say cool [ __ ] like james bond down your martini and have her
dragging you back to her place faster than you can cancel pornhub premium well as fun as that
sounds it doesn't work like that in the real world women are emotional and here's the thing you're
emotional too all your decisions preferences personality quirks they're all motivated by
say it with me feelings and when you share this with her you begin to connect with her on a level
that she rarely experiences with other guys one that gets her to like you for you in dating this
is the holy grail because we associate people events and really everything with emotions
think about it do you remember what you had for dinner last tuesday night probably not unless it
was your birthday or something emotional but you probably remember what you were doing when michael
jackson died or when donald trump became president if those things were emotional events for you so
whatever your intentions dating exotic women from around the world falling in love with that woman
in the cubicle across from you or getting laid more than our good pal joey tribiani i was gonna
wait until the end of the night to kiss you but you're just so beautiful i i don't think i can
you're gonna have to spark her emotions to start there are two simple things that you can start
doing right now by the way man if you're not subscribed to this channel click the subscribe
button right now and ding that bell notification icon so you don't miss any of my upcoming videos
to help you meet attract and date your dream woman the first is to simply start asking open questions
instead of closed questions you need to start doing this immediately these are questions that
have to be answered with more than just a single word when you keep asking questions that can only
be answered with a yes or no the conversation with her doesn't make her feel anything and it
doesn't really go anywhere these are called closed questions and you should try to avoid them as much
as possible trust me i was the biggest offender of this back in the day did you like that film
no so what do you do for work banking so do you come here often yep see how these closed
questions are dead ends if you've ever been there and then you know how shitty this is
and it feels like you just have nothing to talk about instead ask questions like what did you like
most about that movie why do you love or hate your job or what's your favorite thing about this place
these questions not only lead to more in-depth conversations but they start making her feel the
stronger emotions within these topics so if you want to start having great emotionally charged
conversations that turn you into the next casanova then remember you need to start asking open
questions by the way if you have any questions for me make sure to follow me on instagram and send me
a dm i would love to hear from you i'd love to help you out alright let's get back to the video
try to ask questions that begin with what why or how this will help open up the conversation
to its more emotional substance in fact it's almost always better to ask a girl about how
she felt about something versus a logical boring question like how long have you been doing that or
where did you do that this can turn an otherwise boring please blow my head off type conversation
into interesting emotional content which brings me to the second emotional level relating relating is
like the equivalent of going super scion it brings your dating power through the roof this is a super
saiyan and has her wondering where you've been all her life i don't care if you want to fall in love
with a playboy model or have a threesome with your biology teacher whatever your goal is relating is
one of the most important dating superpowers that you can have and will turn you into the kind of
guy that she can't stop thinking about so what is relating well it's simply connecting to what she
said but specifically to the emotions so let's say for example she said she worked in a soup kitchen
and you happen to have worked in a soup kitchen as well so you could relate based on that commonality
which is great but if you dug deeper and you found out that the reason she got into the soup kitchen
was because it made her feel a lot less selfish and it made her happier you could actually relate
to this emotional core in your own way even if you never worked in a soup kitchen you just talk about
how something else you did made you feel those same emotions this is how you have something
very profound in common with women even if you don't actually do the same things by relating
you acknowledge that you feel the same things as her in other words that you and her are the same
kind of person deep down cue the disney music the doves and true love at first sight jokes aside man
this is really powerful and can change your dating life forever so if you take dating sex or
relationship serious at all you need to learn this by the way man if you're a smart guy and you know
youtube videos are great but they're not going to transform your dating life and you actually
want a coach a mentor someone to personally help transform your dating life then make sure to
apply for a free call there's a link down in the description for a free breakthrough session and
we'll see if you're a good fit for our coaching program alright let's get back to the video
before i really understood how to have emotionally charged conversations with women most of my
conversations were super boring because they were just an exchange of information like we're just
trying to gather facts about each other which was not only incredibly lame and boring for her but
it was also boring for me so uh do you like this bar neither of us felt anything but i wanted the
conversation to keep going because she was really attractive and i was young and my penis made most
of my life decisions for me back then this made my dating life suck i wasn't enjoying myself even
when i felt like dates were going kind of well i still just felt really lonely when i finally
started connecting with her on a more emotional level my dates became way more enjoyable the girls
began to like me for who i genuinely was and the sex became a million times better because duh it's
way better when you and her actually connect on a deep emotional level and actually really like
each other now some girls you might not be able to relate to maybe emotionally there's still nothing
really in common so great don't pursue them and move on which is always the right thing to do no
matter how nice her boobs are i mean why would you waste time pursuing and interacting with someone
that you feel nothing for and they probably feel nothing for you what are you the terminator
don't do it now i want to be very clear about something relating isn't something you should
ever fake it should always be genuine or you're just wasting your [ __ ] time when used properly
it will skyrocket the connection and attraction between you and her but when you try to fake it
you just come off as a weirdo creep so if you're thinking about doing that you need to sort your
[ __ ] out first don't be a psycho it's pretty good life advice relate to the girls that you
can genuinely relate to on an emotional level and you'll have a great dating life and you'll build
insane connections with women and have a great dating life on top of her liking you for you
all the good stuff in dating and relationships is emotional connection chemistry intimacy fun and of
course yes sex so light some candles pour yourself a bath and let's get in touch with your emotional
side and look man the best way to work on everything we talked about in this video relating
asking open questions and just building a deep intimate connection with a woman very quickly the
best way to do that is through practice and role playing sure you can go out and you know approach
hundreds and hundreds of women and go on hundreds and hundreds of dates but that's gonna be really
hard it's gonna take a long long time and quite frankly most people give up and they progress very
slowly because women that you approach aren't going to give you feedback but my team of female
coaches and the models that we bring into our workshops will give you feedback and you can role
play and practice connecting with women on a deep emotional level over and over again until you can
connect with her and spark instant attraction with her almost effortlessly so if you want to
see if you're a good fit for a coaching program then schedule a free breakthrough call right now
there's a link down in the description we'll hop on a call and we'll assess your situation figure
out what's not working in your dating life and then see if we're a good fit or not and then if we
are then i'll see you at a live boot camp and your dating life will never be the same in fact your
entire life will be completely transformed from this moment forward and look man before you start
getting into really deep emotional conversations with her you gotta make sure you're talking with
her a bit first as you gotta build up to going deeper later i mean you wouldn't just jump into
sex without foreplay or kissing right it's no different here so if you don't understand how
to have a good conversation with her then make sure to download my free conversation cheat sheet
there'll be a link to the right of the screen at the end of this video as well as down in
the description download that right now man it's absolutely free and it'll help you know what to
say when you see a beautiful woman that you want to go talk to and even what to do and what to say
on dates so that your dates will go a lot better and if you have any questions for me make sure to
follow me on instagram and send me a dm i'd love to hear from you and i'd love to personally help
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