i took another look at the only public
engagement shared by her majesty queen
and meghan markle soon after she had
married harry and there are a couple
body language signals that tell a lot
about each one's personalities welcome
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get down to it well the first message
that everyone got from this engagement
was the color of both dresses it's
important to remember that this is
always carefully chosen and at the same
time coordinated so they would not wear
the same tone it is relevant because the
queen chose a color that was supportive
of megan at that moment she wore green i
don't mean that megan was green with
envy but green is a tone usually related
with nature and of course the constant
cycle of life this was a nice nod to the
fact that megan and harry at least up to
that point represented the next
generation of royals it's also worth
mentioning that the queen also wore
green to their wedding so this was sort
of dubbling down on that message megan
was wearing an ivory dress very close to
white i think she understood the queen's
look when she arrived at her wedding all
wrapped up in pure white but ivory still
projects the concept of being pure
innocent and even naive either way it's
great that megan did not go in her
favorite color now the first body
language signal is one of absolutely
breaking protocol and it's megan walking
right ahead of the queen in the middle
of the engagement this is always a no no
it's important to mention that megan at
that moment had the help of both
samantha cohen you can see sitting
behind them here and amy pickerel both
of them had the job of assisting megan
in everything regarding protocol and of
course helping her in the middle of the
engagement itself in case anything comes
up and you can imagine how important was
this engagement because it will set up
precedent with future similar events
even so when this happened many were
quick to defend megan since after all
this was the first time she was going
out alone with the queen and it's
absolutely understandable that anyone in
her place would be nervous i'm sure that
even chuck norris would be nervous in
such a situation but there is a problem
with the assumption that megan was just
nervous and that's why she acted like
that it's important to remember that in
situations like this we transform into
factories of stress hormones that
dictate one of three actions we either
try to escape we try to fight or we
freeze you might have heard about the
fight or flight response but in reality
it also includes the become frozen in
fear option and there's proof that megan
was briefed on basic royal protocol
because when she was sitting she kept
her knees together with a slight slant
of her ankles to one side that's the
proper way of sitting for royals and in
fact it has been made popular by the
duchess of cambridge but then megan must
have known that under no circumstances
she was allowed to walk or be or exist
in front of the queen i'm sure that's
one of the 10 absolutely must-know rules
for these situations megan's behavior
has a bigger contradiction because
throughout all the engagements she
looked a bit tense in fact in more than
one occasion she tried to kneel but her
body was rather stiff which makes it all
the more strange because she kneel with
much more agility when she was eight
months pregnant but whatever my point is
that being nervous and tense is
something that is going to force you
into not reacting when the time comes to
effectively freeze and try to figure out
what you should do but that doesn't
happen at this moment megan just lost
any nervousness as soon as she heard the
public screaming her name and offering
her flowers even if both samantha and
haymi were right behind her we don't
know if they were willing to loosen up
rose at the moment when megan decided to
put quite some distance between herself
and the queen maybe it's like harry says
what megan wants megan gets and i said
that this is a contradiction because if
megan was supposedly nervous then it
would have made more sense to stay
behind the queen at all times well not
directly behind the queen because you
know how creepy can megan be in
situations like those this is a signal
that gives you a clue about someone's
personality a contradiction and that is
one of the reasons why megan's attitude
was mostly seen as spontaneous because
even in engagement so critical like this
one she did not behave like someone
afraid or not doing things right
especially if you're still learning and
practicing i'm sure that she would be
more careful if instead of a royal
engagement with the queen she went out
climbing for the first time no room for
any mistake despite all her social
climbing experience but the other moment
that i want to mention is when they were
going to get on the car at the end of
the first leg of the trip this time
megan was actually behaving like someone
that has no idea of what to do at that
moment and this time there was some
logic to it because royal protocol
states that the most important person
should sit diagonal to the driver so
that would be the queen but the problem
is that the queen just prefers to sit
behind the driver as some royal
specialists say this is a matter of
preference and habit it's worth noticing
that at this moment megan did not have
any help so she had to navigate herself
now many people claim that this was
absolutely megan's mistake to enter the
car before the queen but the fact is
that two things happened the first one
is that megan allegedly asked the queen
what was her preference i can't be sure
because there's no way of reading it
from our perspective but what we can see
is that the queen effectively signaled
with her hand at her head to megan
telling her to go ahead in fact that's
more or less what this man did a couple
seconds ago now this is not about
megan's behavior but more the queen's
behavior she really tried to make megan
feel at ease on this first trip either
way it was the queen who made the signal
for megan to get in still megan had her
doubts and it happened a second time
here the queen actually went in first
again because she wanted to be right
behind the driver and megan once again
did not get the memo that apparently
everyone has to get on the car through
the same door you can imagine what this
chap is thinking amateur and it's also
strange that megan was confused about
the one car door policy because remember
that she had troubles with her own
driver's seat car door and she must have
been following the same one door rule
and did not think about the passenger
seat i have mentioned this other times
it is always better to err on the side
of caution we know that megan has always
had that big problem with that simple
statement and that must be the reason
she acted like it was a race to the
finish line even if she had the support
of her advisors they must have been
aware that in the age of social media
cameras are king and angles matter this
didn't look good or appropriate but
anyway it pales in comparison to
whatever megan did later and in the case
of the queen i'm sure that she wanted to
have patience with her
granddaughter-in-law because after all
every single one of us have been rookish
at one point in our lives but you can
imagine that someone that has lived so
much and has met so many people and had
to deal with every kind of personality
that you can imagine she had already
seen through megan from a mile away
there's always the benefit of the dobbed
but in many cases experience just beats
everything else the secret will always
be in the way you observe and analyze
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