Hey there, my name's Adam LoDolce and I'm the founder of SexyConfidence.com where I
teach the 21st century woman how to create a love life that she absolutely loves.
And today I'm going to be teaching you the 6 signs that a guy might just not be that
into you.
Trust me, I know.
Dating can be really tough sometimes and rejection can be really painful.
And the worst is when we really like someone and it's starting to become pretty clear that
that person doesn't really like us.
But what do we usually do when that starts to happen?
We deny it.
And when we do that, what we end up doing is we waste all of our energy and our emotional
resources on that one person when, quite honestly, it's a waste of time.
When we realize someone's not really attracted to us we really should be saying one word.
Next!
So here are those 6 signs that a guy just isn't that into you so that you can begin
moving on with your dating life a little bit.
1.
Number one is that he treats you like a friend or, even worse, he treats you like one of
the guys.
Hey, Jenny.
I got something for you.
Listen, most guys want a girl who can hang with the guys, but if they like you they're
not going to treat you like one of the guys.
2.
Number two is that you're constantly pursuing him.
I mean, generally when a guy likes a girl he's gonna wanna keep talking to that girl
or he's gonna be wanting to see that girl again because he likes her.
So unless he's extremely shy, and I mean really, really shy, if he's not trying to progress
things then he's probably just not that into you.
And also the easiest test is to just stop pursuing him and see if he begins pursuing
you.
And if not, maybe it's just not meant to be.
3.
Next is that he takes longer than 24 hours to respond to any of your texts.
Listen, I just wanna say for starters, this is not a hard in rule because some guys, even
especially like myself, some guys just aren't really good texters and that, again, includes
myself.
But if he's not in communication with you on a regular basis, then honestly he's probably
blowing you off.
If he's not into texting, like what I would do is call.
If he's not doing any of those things then maybe he's just not that interested.
4.
The next one is that he's only available to hook up or have sex on weekend nights or past
the hour of 1am.
Hey, Jenny.
What're you doing right now?
Do you wanna hang out?
Please, have the self respect not to respond to those types of texts unless, of course,
you're also just looking for a hookup.
And if you're not looking for a hookup, don't respond to him until he texts you again.
And if he does like you more than just a quickie one night stand thing then he's gonna text
you the next morning totally embarrassed and wanting to make it up to you.
Then, of course, at that point you can use your best judgment to see if you're willing
to let him try to make it up to you.
5.
Next is that he talks to you openly about other girls that he likes.
Hey, Jenny.
I just matched with this girl on Tinder.
I think I'm in love.
Sure, maybe he's trying to make you jealous but in all reality, if a guy really likes
a girl he's not gonna risk it by putting you in the friend zone by talking to other girls
right in front of you.
6.
And the last one is that he's just always busy.
Listen, a guy will make time for a girl that he really likes.
I mean, listen, I have a super busy schedule but when I'm dating someone that I'm really
into and I'm really smitten for, then you know what?
She comes first above all else.
And you know what?
If he's not willing to give you his time, then just realize that you deserve to be with
someone who will give you his time and move on from that guy.
Now, I know this may not necessarily be the happiest video for everyone watching it.
Maybe you've realized that a guy that you're really into might not necessarily feel the
same way towards you.
And if that's the case, just ask yourself one really important question right now.
Who the f*** cares?
One critical component to dating and finding a great relationship is being with someone
who wholeheartedly wants to be with you and who will treat you the way that you deserve
to be treated.
And if that's not happening right now, then you know what?
You are better off knowing it right now rather than, of course, wasting 6 months with a guy
only to realize that he wasn't even that into you.
And if you want to begin your own dating transformation, head on over to SexyConfidence.com and enter
your first name and email address for a 4 part video training series that's gonna walk
you through step by step how to find the relationship you deserve.
Speak to you soon.
Thanks so much for watching.