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15 surprising things guys find unattractive
The majority of girls do everything they can to be attractive, and they always think that
they are doing it right.
It often happens that girls are unaware that some of the things they are doing have quite
the opposite effect on men.
Instead of attracting them, they are driving them away.
If you want to learn more about these mistakes girls often make and to find out what is unattractive
to guys, check out this list of 15 surprising things guys find unattractive about girls:
No1: Wearing too much makeup Let’s be honest: girls love makeup.
On average, women spend around 29 minutes putting on makeup and a third of them never
go out without makeup.
Although a reasonable amount of makeup does make a girl look and feel a little bit better,
women of all ages often tend to overdo it.
They wear a lot of makeup and can look like they are wearing a mask.
Too much foundation, fake lashes, exaggerated eyebrows, big dark red lips in the middle
of the day…
Women may think all this makes them prettier, but they are mistaken.
Guys love moderate makeup and a natural look.
A little makeup that accentuates your features is great, but too much of it makes you look
unattractive and fake.
No2: Too much perfume As well as makeup, a lot of perfume can be
off-putting for men.
Smells are very important when it comes to seducing.
They can attract, repel, trigger emotions, and create memories.
The fragrance you wear often can easily become your trademark.
But, the goal is to attract men with it, not drive them away.
And, it turns out that too much of even the most alluring scent is an instant turn-off.
It is just too much for most people.
No one likes to suffocate in the smell of your perfume while talking to you.
One of the easiest ways to find out if you’re wearing too much perfume is if you can smell
it.
No3: Overly done hair Research shows that, for the majority of men,
hair is the first thing that they notice about women.
That may be the reason for women obsessing over their hair.
They spend a lot of money and time on having the perfect hair.
It turns out that men aren't attracted to overly done, processed hair and using tons
of hair products.
Guys love women with shiny, healthy-looking hair.
They find loose curls and a “beach look” much more attractive than unnaturally straight,
ironed hair.
Men are into healthy and natural-looking hair, so consider taking care of your hair instead
of wasting money on unnecessary hairdos.
No4: Too long and sharp nails As well as doing their hair and makeup, women
like manicures.
Manicures have become popular in the past few years.
Fake nails are all the rage now.
Everyone is doing them.
Extra-long, sharp nails and complicated designs became the norm.
Nevertheless, guys apparently don’t like this kind of manicure.
They seem unnatural to them and maybe a little scary.
Long and pointy nails just look like weapons to guys.
Additionally, they often think that girls with very long nails are a little high maintenance.
It is hard for them to imagine that long nails are practical and suitable for doing everyday
things.
No5: Negativity When you imagine someone you want to be with,
it is highly likely that you don’t imagine a pessimist.
Nobody likes to be around someone who is always complaining and talking about bad things.
Not only is negativity a burden on that person, but it is also contagious.
It spoils the fun for everyone around them.
The negative energy of a naysayer puts everyone else in a bad mood.
No matter how physically attractive you are, guys will always find you unattractive if
you are negative all the time.
If you are not willing to change your attitude, then don’t expect guys to be attracted to
you.
No6: Constant criticizing Constructive critics are necessary for every
relationship.
Healthy critics deliver nicely, with the intention to inform and discuss.
They are about the behavior, not the person.
People usually accept it pretty well.
But, for the majority of men, constant and negative criticism is probably on top of the
most hated habits a girl could have.
Studies have shown that criticism is one of the best predictors of divorce.
Constant nagging, finding flaws and faults in everything someone does is very unappealing
to guys.
They see it as a criticism of their character and personality.
Be aware of this and don’t let criticizing ruin your attractiveness.
No7: Gossiping The majority of people engage in gossiping.
It is the fastest way of sharing information and it helps bring people closer together.
It is often fun for a girl to share with a guy all the latest rumors and stories about
their friends, family, and coworkers.
If you do it moderately, most people won’t mind it.
But, if you do it a lot, it might be a problem.
Guys find women who gossip a lot and do it maliciously very unattractive.
They think these girls are dishonest and untrustworthy.
They will be reluctant to share anything with you if they know that you gossip.
A little gossip is often harmless.
However, you should try not to cross the line of good taste and other people’s privacy
or you could be considered unattractive.
No8: Too much swearing Views on acceptable and attractive women’s
behavior have greatly changed over time.
Things like smoking and swearing were condemned for ages.
Now the norms are a little more loose.
A lot of women smoke and even more swear.
When it is moderate, swearing will not bother the majority of men.
But, if you swear like a drunk sailor, you should consider changing this habit.
Most men think that excessive swearing is unbecoming and too masculine.
It is off-putting for many men if every other word in a girl’s speech is a curse.
No9: Attention seeking People have a natural tendency to crave other’s
attention.
We love to be liked and that’s the undeniable truth.
The urge to belong is universal.
But, the trouble is when you become too hungry for attention.
Attention seeking is unattractive to guys because it sends one simple and obvious message.
It says that you think the other person is so much better than you are and that you crave
their acceptance.
Attention seekers are viewed as insecure and needy which are not very attractive traits.
No10: Bad-mouthing exes Girls often bash their exes in front of the
new guy.
They think that bad-mouthing their exes is a good idea.
For them, it is the way to show that they are over their ex completely.
But, this is not how guys see it.
When a girl slanders her ex-boyfriend, guys often think that she is immature and spiteful
which are not great traits.
Although you may think it shows that your guy has nothing to worry about, bashing your
ex seems like you still have some feelings for them.
If you have to talk about your ex, be respectful.
No11: Playing hard to get Playing hard to get is the girls’ favorite
move when it comes to dating.
It is the oldest dating 'trick' in the book, surely.
In a girl’s eyes, it is the perfect way to attract men.
Men like the thrill of the chase and women like to pretend they are hard to catch.
This is the prevailing opinion of women.
However, guys may have a different view on this topic.
It can be ok when looking for a fling.
But, you come to a certain age when most guys consider playing games as a sign of immaturity.
If they are already into you, they don’t see the point of trying to inflate your value
by trying not to seem easy.
If you don’t want to attract some desperate, insecure guy, don’t play too hard to get.
No12: Being clingy Some girls think clinginess is cute.
They think it makes them look like sweet, little girls that love their man.
According to guys, there is nothing sweet and cute about being clingy.
Although you may consider it as a sign of love, guys think of it as a sign that you
don’t love yourself enough.
Love is not clingy.
Clinginess is the sign of a lack of confidence and a fear of separation.
None of those traits are particularly attractive.
If you are prone to clinginess, work on your self-love and confidence.
Unlike clinginess, that will make you attractive for real.
No13: Having no life of your own When dating, especially in the beginning,
it is tempting to put your whole focus on the guy.
It is easy to forget your friends and the other things that you loved doing because
you just want to spend time with him.
But, be warned; guys don’t appreciate a girl who has no life outside of the relationship.
It is simply not appealing to be completely focused on the relationship and your partner.
You seem desperate and too demanding if you have nothing to occupy yourself with when
he is not around.
It may be exhausting for your partner if they are your sole interest.
Have interests of your own and share your experience with him when you get together.
It makes you much more attractive.
No14: Excessive confidence Being confident is great.
It means you believe in yourself, you are happy with your life, and proud of what you
have achieved.
Confidence is undeniably an attractive trait.
But, there is a very fine line between genuine confidence and arrogance.
Excessive confidence is considered both unattractive and fake.
Whatever you want to accomplish, in the end, you are viewed as an overconfident phony.
A huge ego may even seem narcissistic.
If you want to be attractive, try to be authentically confident.
Don’t cross the line of confidence because it will drive guys away for sure.
No15: Smoking and drinking too much Throughout history, smoking and drinking were
mostly reserved for men.
Times change and a lot of women nowadays smoke and drink.
But, at the same time, a lot of men think those are not very feminine and attractive
traits.
It is not all about femininity.
There are a lot of health issues involved.
Yellow teeth and nails and foul breath are absolutely not attractive.
Combine that with stinky clothes and hair and you’ll get why guys simply don’t find
it appealing, especially if they are non-smokers.
The same goes for drinking.
If it is moderate, it is probably ok.
But, if you drink too much or too often, it may signal that you have a problem.
A healthy life style is attractive, and excessive drinking and smoking simply doesn’t go with
it.
If you were clueless about the fact that these traits and behaviors make you unattractive,
hopefully, this video helped you become aware of your mistakes.
No matter how physically appealing you are, you should also pay attention to your personality
traits and habits to be truly attractive to others.
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