this video I'm gonna show you the vibration of a control freak show you
how to transcend it and reveal to you the illusion of the egos sense of
control welcome back another video my name's Aaron and I help people expand
their consciousness now in this video I'm gonna be showing you the vibration
of a control freak showing you why you may be a control freak or you know
someone that's control freak and when I say and I do this video just know I am
somebody that definitely has gone through periods of where I like to
control different aspects of my life and there are many things and you know I've
wind from somebody that was working a nine-to-five job I wasn't passionate
about to becoming successful on YouTube doing what I love and there's been
moments where I realized that at that moment I decided that I had to have his
insane willpower and the more I could control of everything the better now
I've learned a lot through this process I've not completely just go with the the
the wind type thing there are moments of when I go back and forth with this but
I've learned a lot about my own vibration in relation to being a control
freak or you know controlling different aspects of my life and even you know
trying to help other people there's been times of where I'm like oh I want to
help this person better their lives and and trying to help them too much rather
than letting them go through their own lessons and sometimes I think a lot of
us that are going through the spiritual inking process will try to help people
so much and sometimes that kind of backfires on us because then we
overextend ourselves and by trying to control we end up having them resist
because whenever you try and control something there's normally a rebellious
type attitude and I know that that's how it was with me now the vibration of a
control freak let's first off understand that we have our ego right here now what
happens is at a certain point in our past our lives if you consider yourself
to be a control freak someone that is controlling situations trying to control
outcomes if that's the case for you or someone you know
at a certain time in your past you felt like you had no control or let's just
say it's Python this but no control there is a certain point in your past
when you had no control or you felt out of control and when you felt out of
control you got pain so for example that was me
I had my ex stepmom in my life between the ages of 7 to 15 years old and in
that period of my time I didn't have much control over anything I was being
completely controlled by my ex stepmom my brother and I weren't allowed to go
out and have friends we were many times locked outside of the house and they
were just chores and things that we had to do for eight or eight hours at a time
would be drinking a lot out of the pose we weren't allowed to eat the kind of
food that was sustain us we were given a TV dinner at night and a bowl of cereal
in the morning we were both very skinny for being I was 14 you know at the end
of it I was 14 years old my brother was like 11 and we had no control and that
no control brought us pain because it was we were completely controlled now
the thing is is in the moment of our past we have no control we got pain then
what we did is we made a choice and that choice was after that pain that I'm
going to control so make it a choice to then gun control so then what happens as
we start to control different aspects of our life so for me for example I
eventually came to this conclusion when I was working that 9 to 5 jobs on women
shoes that I wanted to do and be a full-time youtuber so I made the choice
to completely start to control my willpower to assert myself and to do
what I'm passionate about it to really just be calm right like there was no
other option like I'm going to do this and then guess what happened then I
started to get pleasure I started to get pleasure with having control so it's
either these two things or a combination of both you either get pain for
having no control or you get pleasure from having control so what happens is
that a certain point in our past this was decided maybe at an unconscious
level we're not completely aware of it and then what happens is there's a
certain level of sense of I am in control to say I am and it's it's the
ego saying it though the ego saying it because if the ego wasn't there to say
that then there'd be that no control which would be the pain so it's almost
like the ego has to step in and at a certain point this is how it works now
the reason I'm sharing this is because when we understand that this is why or
the control freak we can then realize that there's no longer a reason to feel
threatened that past thing with my extent mom's over I don't have to assume
that reality is always going to be like that I now have a full-time youtuber I'd
do it I love I don't have to assume that I'm gonna have to work a nine-to-five
job that I hate again this is my reality now so the threat is gone however there
is a certain level of this control freak that is still there now let me show you
another example and vibration of the control freak now this I like using the
let me know like this video if you like these charts by the way I haven't done
one of these charts in a while okay I'm gonna do - I haven't done them in a
while but actually I I feel like I explain things very differently what I
have them do what I don't because it's almost like I'm able to put it in my own
I'm able to like see if my own mind as well so we have the levels of
consciousness here now at a certain level let's say we have we have the fear
we have the lower vibrational motions right then eventually we have let's say
wiliness
they have love joy peace enlightened enlightenment so these are the different
levels now what happens is when there was a certain level of no control there
was most likely negative emotion so there's negative emotion there that
negative emotion caused us to feel that lower vibrational energy maybe it was
the fear maybe it was feeling that you couldn't survive and understand the
Eidos job is simply to help you to survive
that's it the egos job is to help you to survive it I have an analogy that I'm
going to share with you in a minute as well for that and write that here so I
don't forget okay okay so so wiliness right here now the wiliness is that of
the ego in a way it's the willpower the willpower to go in a certain way so that
is something that then gets to be built so when we associate pain with not
having control we start to build controller in our life which is when we
start to get pleasure the realm of I would say the ego is the middle levels
because even the intellectual ideas the intellect of reasoning which is I could
release create your reality the reasoning is building up the ego in the
wiliness building up the ego and building up the ego to then move in a
certain direction in general when we're in lower vibrational emotions maybe what
we need to do sometimes is to actually start to not to develop the ego that's
why identify completely with the ego but to let the ego in a way start to have
more responsibilities start to have a little bit more because then it brings
you out of a lower vibration of emotions a lot of getting from the lower
vibrational motions and the mid vibrational emotions is about taking
responsibility which means the ability to respond responsibility so it's about
getting to these mid levels of vibration now the thing is is then to get from the
mid levels into the high vibrations you actually have to let go of the Edith you
have to surrender the ego so it's almost like there's a lots of the ego and a
loss of power and the lower vibrational emotions because we don't feel like
we're worthy and then we start to develop the control we start to develop
the ego start to go in a certain direction we start to have reasoning the
intellect then we're in the middle where we're building up the ego and then we
have to let go that you go to get that the high vibrations so the reason I
share this because now we can kind of see that we may build up the ego for a
certain level of success but then eventually we have to let it go I don't
have to but if you let it we'll find that the universe can then
create things for us or help us in this process now here's the analogy and I
know my Spelling's of it off I haven't done one of these in a lot so this
analogy I got from Bashara if you guys haven't checked out Bashar he's awesome
and this analogy has to do with understanding a diving mask so imagine
that we have a diving mask now imagine in the higher dimensional realms let's
get a little esoteric here imagine a higher dimensional realms you
have a higher self in the law of one they say your higher self is mid-six the
density it's a little more esoteric there for you and that's the law of one
materials you can check that out the raw materials now what happens is we are in
let's say the higher self were in the mid 610 city we project our
consciousness here and think of it as our ego like a diving mask let's say
it's like some type of dining mask alright that's our head or whatever
that's the diamondbacks though now the diving mask and the job of the diving
mask with the scuba you know the snorkeling the snorkeling the snorkeling
equipment is to help you to survive your underwater right now and you have the
scuba mask for the snorkeling mask that gives you air so that you can survive
now that's the job with the ego to help you to survive now what happens is as we
go down into the murky waters we then start to assume that our masks in our
scuba snorkeling is us rather than knowing that we are connected and it's a
tool that something we use to survive we start to identify with the snorkeling
scuba mask and equipment that's supplying us oxygen that's helping us to
survive and what happens is then there's times when we start to then think that
the scuba snorkeling mask is us and we may even know in the murky waters things
may get a little bit scary but rather than trust in the process we tried to
remove we tried to remove it in a certain way we end up cracking it
because we mess around with it too much and the point of that is that then try
to thinking that this is supposed to guide us this is not supposed to guide
us the snorkeling mask does not guide us the higher mind
excess we can trust in we can trust in the process of us directing where we
need to go through a higher mind and trust that the ego will do its job to
help us to survive but the problem is we then get into the murkiness when we
start to assume that the scuba store Klee masks whatever we call it is meant
to help direct us in our life so that's when pain starts to come that's when we
may get a little bit antsy we may start to move it around and then crack it and
then we're supposed to get up very fast but we're a little bit too deep and if
we were to do that it could be very painful
it could be very dangerous so the moral of this is understanding that this scuba
snorkeling last thing it's just to help you survive the sense of control and
look at this from the past and when we decided we got pain from no control is
our egos trying to survive this is all about survival nosov
that they ego is just doing this job to help you to survive we can then realize
that what got us there isn't gonna get us to the next level okay and that's
what I've been learning lately what got me to where I'm at today is not going to
get me to the next level I have to let go of that control bring a little more
grace into my life trust the process so the vibration I'm going to think about
this as well so if we have the ego and the consents of control-freak
think about if you have all of these rules which is what a lot of times the
ego does is the ego is really rules excuse many different papers because
this is really thin and I have other paper I'm gonna put on for tomorrow's
but it's way better so rules so the ego has many rules when it's a control freak
it says people need to act this way people act to a certain way it would
need to say that things how I want it to happen how I want and the way I want so
all of these rules now imagine the more you have the less you can feel positive
emotion if your rules are people have to trick you a certain way people need to
take their own initiative in their own life you need to have things be a
certain way on the outside which is then projecting out your unhappiness because
things need to happen on the outside is certainly for you to internally be happy
then all of these rules end up causing us to stay and the lower vibrational
emotions so the key to this whole process and everything I'm sharing with
you today is simply becoming aware of it awareness is normally 95 percent of the
process because I don't you can see that you may have just had this meaning this
time that you decided this is who you were that's what then kept you in that
lower vibrational emotion but then now that you can see that this is outdated
and now what you can do is you can focus on other things what is the solution to
this what is the solution to this become aware of it every time the ego is trying
to assert its own dominance becoming aware of any time the ego is trying to
control things and then stepping back and then saying it's okay I can trust
this to work out the right way challenge that belief system as well challenge the
belief that comes up in those oh it's supposed to happen this way I've been
doing this recently and it does work it really does all you have to do is
observe these things as it comes up to observe the ego sense of control and
then to be okay and to understand this as well magic happens a lot of times
people can bad this control freak mentality or trying to control things
aren't afraid of new things that have tried new things because it's less
certain now the thing I'd encourage you to do is to step into the unknown
because in the unknown is where magic happens the only thing you're going to
get more of the known is more of what you already expect if you step into the
unknown what you're going to get is you're going to get something that you
wouldn't expect you your brain will not know where to go and how to control the
situation and if you can simply observe it and allow it to be there you'll find
that then you have more power so the purpose of this video is knowing that
you can focus more on surrendering to the present moment
surrendering to it and trusting it one big lesson for me in my life too is
patience when you try to control things you're normally not a very patient
person I'm in this Airbnb right now and I want nothing more than to be in this
house that I've get ready to move into within the next week and I'm waiting for
the attendant moved out tomorrow it started the keys and I have to wait for
property management things aren't happening is as fast as my control freak
mind would like it so then I can start working and have a better background for
these videos and being that I've been traveling for three months so part of me
really wants to give it a house by the time you see this video I'll probably
already showed you that house on Instagram or something
however it's about surrendering and trusting and an understanding this idea
as well what if the higher mind the higher self could bring things to you
and even a more amazing way if you would just let go of trying to control it
because it's almost like the egos and sistine this is how things have to
happen and then higher self psyche I could show you something way more amazed
and that you wouldn't even expect if you just let go over the reins but what's
happening is you are set on your ways and as you're sitting on your ways your
make in this little this little box for yourself I think this is the way things
are but you see the key to this is trusting letting go and know me that you
if you actually realize that you're getting pain from this beliefs you're
getting pain from these rules that are giving you reasons not to feel happy
they keep you trapped in lower vibrational emotion you can see what
you're doing in a new way so this video is specifically doesn't designed to help
you to see what was unconscious and when you develop and you become more aware of
this this is where the power really is the power is in this awareness and in
this ability to realize that this is the key to the process it's letting go of
control is surrendering to the present moment it's knowing that things are good
the way they are I do have a meditation that's on trust in the universe that
will help the wire in this idea this concept I recommend you let's do it for
21 days watch how your life because a change you literally change your
energetic field as you do it and it will help you
to do that so with that being said I hope you enjoyed this video but as
always peace much love and knowledge state