How do you tell if a girl has a boyfriend? Any answers back there? I
don't know that there's one sign and I don't know that there's anything that
I've done in particular. It's more about what I'm not doing. I'm not
being super talkative, I'm not being very open with my body language, I'm not going
out of my way to touch someone or to be like hey yeah like tell me more like I'm
interested in hearing more about what you're talking about it's very like oh
yeah okay like very short I'm not gonna have an
extended conversation with someone I'm not gonna be laughing at all of
someone's jokes I'm probably not going to be joking around with someone a lot
I'm gonna be a little more standoffish and a little more cold and it honestly
sucks as a girl that you have to act that way when you have a boyfriend but
chances are if a guy's talking to you he's not just interested in being your
friend so that's kind of what we have to assume have you ever talked to a girl
and she said that she's boyfriend I have it happen most recently on trip to
Barcelona you know I was hanging out playing beer
pong and she was probably letting me on a little bit more than she should have
knowing that she had a boyfriend the whole time so at the end of the night
when I was looking to maybe wrap things up
she let me knew at that point and then she started to show me pictures of her
boyfriend which was even worse so at that point I needed to get out of there
she needed to get out of there and we went our separate ways
whole story bill today is what I call a vacation from vacation day this is one
you've been running around so much and doing a lot of things and you just want
to stop sightseeing and just hanging on rags here at Mayer and elephant
sanctuary about to walk up the waterfall Frieda Bay and shark bay happy new year
2018 it's gonna be a good one
all right yeah no good
today me Brittany my friend your own whose last day it is hanging out at the
shangri-la pool here in Chiang Mai so as you can see we have various answers here
right Brittany said that she likes to make sure guys know as soon as possible
and pretty obvious that she is in a relationship as a boyfriend doesn't want
to talk to the guy but then my buddy your own told us that he was with the
girl that was pretty much hanging out with him and flirting with him all night
until the very end when she's like oh wait a second I have a boyfriend so
what's the best way to be able to tell unfortunately there's no magic sign
there's nothing that you're gonna be able to see except for maybe your ring
on their finger which means that they're actually married so they they have a
super boyfriend but there's no magic way to know for sure unless you ask them so
what I'm going to be providing you today is a couple of really awesome questions
that you can ask a girl that will be able to tell you for sure whether she
has a boyfriend and without doing in a creepy way without doing in a weird way
and with getting the information say it supposed to be relaxing at the pool
which it was but whenever I'm like just chilling relaxing I instantly want to
just start working again because it's more fun so bust out my laptop
and did some work when I say work you're probably like what's work isn't this
work right now some baking a YouTube video it is but I have other things I
need to do like set up webinars for you cuz I've a webinar coming up and maybe a
month or so with head coach Spencer Burnett alright I'm here with my buddy
Spencer Burnett and we're talking about how to be a girlfriend magnet so we're
gonna be setting that up soon and checking emails and now we're leaving.
Thanks for having us thank you have a good day now thank you
so there are three different ways that you can verbally find out if she has a
girlfriend and each of them are a little bit different I'm very excited to share
them with you so the first one is a little bit more flirty so imagine you've
been talking to a girl for a while it's going really well and then maybe 15 20
minutes in depending how long am I talking to her maybe you were talking
alonger but towards the end you asked her out in a very flirty way by saying
would your boyfriend mind if I got your number so you're doing two things here
right obviously you're finding out she's a
boyfriend but you're also doing what you need to be doing which is asking around
which is what you should be doing after you've been talking to a girl for a
while now something you don't want to say is oh you probably have a boyfriend
don't you all right don't say anything that's lending itself to saying oh she's
probably taken right the reason why I don't like that is cuz it just sounds
kind of like you're not good enough and you're putting her on this like pedestal
saying like oh you're you're so good that you probably already taken and just
kind of lowers yourself and put you in this kind of low value position so don't
say anything close to that another one you can say is something
sort of similar you can say somewhere in the middle of conversation when you guys
are getting flirty and you're talking a lot more and you can say he's your
boyfriend around and she's gonna say either yes or she's gonna say no he's
not hearing or she's gonna say no I don't have a boyfriend and then right
after she says no I don't have a boyfriend you can say okay good because
I wanted to keep talking to you now here's the thing I don't really
necessarily think you have to find out if she has a boyfriend I don't think
that that is absolutely necessary it really isn't I just want to give you
some of these lines to help you flirt more to help get you on this level with
the girl that is a little bit more fun and just building that tension right but
you don't need to find out if anything you can go the whole interaction and
keep talking and ask her out and if at the end she's either boyfriend then fine
whatever and you can move on
no I have a boyfriend if I didn't know that you guys were like together
together we are but it's still okay to use this once in a while if you don't
want to waste your time but just remember these are not absolutely
necessary however on the other end of things it is kind of nice to be able to
use these lines once in a while because what it does is it relieves the pressure
when you're talking to a girl I mean the pressure put on her right there are some
girls out there that do have boyfriends and they don't want to be hit on they
don't wanna be talked to you know I'm not saying don't talk to girls and don't
you know try to get their numbers and things like that but you know when
you're able to spit out one of these lines you know it gives just like a
really nice quick like hey what's your status okay cool and then you can even
proceed forward or just move on which leads me to the very last line that you
can ask and this one is super simple and this one you can even do almost as an
opener all the way to the end of the interaction so whenever you want try
this one out and it's very simple a Y S which stands for are you single what a
confident way to be able to tell a girl that you're interested in her and is
communicating so open and so honestly saying hey are you takin are you single
are you with someone and then be able to easily proceed further well that's it
for today's episode wrapping this one up now I am going to be packing up and
heading to the next hostel so follow me on my journey don't forget to subscribe
like this video if it has helped you and tell me down below in the comments which
one of these are you going to use or you can use the first one the second one or
the third one write it down below I want to hear from you peace out