Uncle C, back in the office and in this video, I'm going to be showing you specifically how
to get a woman completely obsessed with you. Now what I like to call this as I like to
call this stealth seduction. The reason why I call it self seduction is because there's
no real hard tactic hard line, hard word hard mechanism that you're using in order to do
this. But what's happening is that subconsciously, she's going to be seduced by the way that
you carry yourself. Now this is very, very important, because what you need to remember
is that as a man, your lack of emotional competence will always win her heart. Okay, I'm afraid
that one more time and I want you to remember that your lack of emotional competence will
win her heart. Think about this for a second. The most the sexiest thing to a woman the
most attractive thing to a woman, especially for like long term mating and potential when
she's like, yeah, I want that one. That's my man. Right there. I'm gonna try to lock
him down is going to be masculine drive and ambition. When she sees you're purpose driven
when she sees your focus when she sees you're willing to not bend or break or get moved
off center, what happens is that she gets heightened sensitivity because she can look
at you and go, Ah, he's like a real man. What most men do, when the woman puts them in that
category is their emotional competence rises in order to match her energy and to fit the
vibe, they get sucked into the sort of love narrative. Now, I understand that throughout
this channel, I've talked very, very much about self improvement. I've talked so much
about retention. I've talked so much about all these mechanisms to help you as a man,
but what happens when you get down to the nitty gritty in the interactions with a woman?
Well, I'm about to show you now before we begin, what I would like you to remember is
that I'm doing a free one to one consult where you can actually book a call with me to potentially
be part of my masculinity mastered closed member mastermind group now these men in this
group have been Using masculine behavioral therapy to completely brainwash and hook any
woman that they want into love. Now, if you would like to potentially work one on one
with me and become part of that program, you can fill out an application if it looks like
you're a good fit. And if it looks like I can help you and you're financially qualified,
then you can schedule that call. And during that time, I will see if you're a good fit.
If you're a good foot, I will enroll you into the program. But moving on, how do we get
obsessed with us? What is the self seduction? What is emotional competence? And how can
we even put all these pieces to the puzzle? Now, here's the thing, fellas, I've coached
hundreds of men. I've seen hundreds of stories. And in these hundreds of stories men have
always said but I feel like my belief system feels like this, okay, I don't care what you
feel. Because what you feel is irrelevant. There's a way that works. There's a way that
doesn't work. There's a way to win and there's a way to lose. Once you can make that rational,
decisive behavior. This is what I'm doing in order to win. Notice that you made a logical
commitment that right there in and of itself is masculine. Drive. I do not care about your
emotions. She can't hurt you. This is the biggest thing she cannot hurt you. And the
reason why I say this is because you have to take a very good hard look at yourself
and you got to ask yourself as a man, maybe you're between five eight to six feet five,
maybe you're whatever the case may be, you should be bigger and stronger than a woman.
If 105 pound little girl can hurt your feelings if that little hundred and 20 pound chick
can really hurt you and make you that sad and make you cry. Then there's we got issues
because she can't hurt you. Unless she puts physical Hands on your hits you she cannot
hurt you. This is a mindset you have to have. Now I know you might be thinking, Casey, you're
being arrogant. You're being a dick. Okay, I get what you're saying. Yes, I understand.
She can hurt you. If she really gets down to it. You have to have this mindset though.
She can't hurt me. I'm gonna dude. Like What's she gonna do? Okay, if you can start to put
that into perspective. What you have to remember at all times if you want to make a woman that
you're obsessed with you is that the more vulnerable you are, the less in love she will
be. Why is this oftentimes when guys heighten their emotional competence, they try to get
their hearts to align with that woman. As his emotional competence rises, what's happening
is that he's becoming more vulnerable to display his love display his intimacy display his
favoritism towards a specific girl. The reason why she loves you less is because she now
she she now sees that she can actually hurt you. If she can hurt you. She's gonna go Hmm,
this man is just a tad bit weaker than I assumed he wasn't the get go. Now you almost have
to be emotionally dull at all times. The reason for that is because if you're a bit emotionally
dull, what happens is that not only do her tests and whatnot fly over your head, and
it seems as if they can't faze you or you don't even notice, but it keeps you in the
rational mindset thinking, constantly screening this woman said Hey, is this woman a good
fit? What do I even like about her? Is she bringing something to the table beyond To
fat booty. If those answers start to check off, you can maybe adjust down the road but
you have to really, really screen and make her work for it because you have to remember
most guys throw themselves at woman, women at their disposal. The next part, throughout
this little subcategories, her tests or her games need to just go over your head. It needs
to be clear cut, it needs to be quick. It needs to be to the point if she's in your
car with you, and she tries to change the station on your favorite two. It's like Nah,
don't do that. That's it three words. No, don't do that. You're short, you're to the
point. It's almost like when she tries to move you off center when she tries to screw
with you. You're not even in the mindset to use any sort of emotional competence emotional
energy to even give a shit. Because the more invested you're starting to get, the less
she's going to realize that hey, this guy is chosen or this guy has other options if
she sees women can push your hot buttons that is not an attractive traits in the long run.
Now considering this as a social media age, what you're going to offer See what if you
start to see a girl especially within the first one to 10 times that you're seeing her
as you're gonna you're gonna always see her phone blowing up. Her phone is going to have
snapchats Her phone's gonna have potential other tenders Her phone's gonna have potential
other text messages she may be calling other people or other phone lines might be ringing
into her number. Oftentimes when guys see a woman they start to get the the subconscious
cues or the subconscious hints or the insecurities and it starts to come out. They go, Hey, who's
that? So how many other people are you talking to? This is what the guy starts to show. Notice
he's putting himself in that frame first going to be lowering her attraction step by step
because that really is her job to fish. If you're one of the guys who has other options,
it's important for her to come to that frame and that standpoint, since you're the man
Your job is to remain Matt rational and dominant 24 seven, the more you start to slip up into
that opposite frame, the lesser attraction is going to go down.
Now the next subcategory into this is you got to understand Most women feel no remorse.
Most women feel no remorse for your pain. And that might sound harsh, and people will
oftentimes I just got off the phone with the client yesterday he goes with Casey isn't
that bad? That's not good. Yes, you got to remember it is not good. And I don't know
if it's because of women's, you know, programming today from how their upbringing was, you know,
I'm not sure if it's just how they are naturally, but the truth is that 99% of them do not care.
If a woman hurts you, oftentimes, she will not care. And oftentimes, she will even push
harder to completely break the man down to the core. When she knows that he's hurting
at his worst, this is just facts. Okay, if you're going to be a 1% man, do you deserve
1% women that treat you perfectly? Absolutely. But here's the issue with that is that 99%
of women are not hardwired that way. And if you are a man on a mission, you have to understand
that to find a true woman. That is very, very Positive belief driven, not saying it's virtually
impossible, but you have your work cut out for you. Now this is going to be the initial
stage, the initial stages, when she starts to realize you're not moved off center, when
she starts to realize you can flirt you can tease without wondering who else is doing
it with her to her at that time, specifically, what will happen is that eventually you guys
will start to build some sort of bond. She may think that this guy just gets me, she
may think that this guy's super chill, super relaxed, super not needy to lock her down
because he's not in a scarcity mindset, or maybe he has other things going for him. The
thing that I always tell all of you guys is I want your calendars booked. I want your
calendars booked from 8am to 8pm. So that way, you're so driven your sole purpose focus,
you're so passionate about what it is that you're doing. Oftentimes, if her text or her
Snapchat or anything comes through, you don't even necessarily realize it until later on
in the day. It makes you look extremely higher value when you actually are higher value.
Okay, we're not trying to fake anything here. As you build this bond, your job your goal
because like I said, we're playing to win here, we're playing to win. Your job is to
build this bond and continue it without necessarily desiring or fishing for commitment. If you
can do this, this is going to put you in probably the top 5% of all men, because all men by
this point, 30 year olds, 40 year olds, most 50 year olds, man, they start, they start
getting close to that woman, they start desiring her so much, they almost cannot hide the fact
how much they really do love her. She will start to push buttons even harder
than she will start to see Hey, is this guy who He said He was in the beginning. And if
she can nag you, if she can push those buttons and it moves you off center, you're really
going to be in for pain because she's only going to amp up that side of her. Now, the
next part as for me Emotions heighten you stay neutral. You stay neutral. She has to
be asking for these questions. Where are things going? How do you feel about me? If you can
remain indifferent if you can actually show her that, hey, I really appreciate us. I think
we get along, right? I think that what we have is really awesome. But you tell her Hey,
why don't why don't we just take it slow? Why don't we see where things go? You tell
her Hey, there's no rough. I ain't going anywhere. Are you and you look at her. You say, Are
you going anywhere? I'm not going anywhere. Or we're both not going anywhere. Let's just
chill and have fun right now. You see when you can be present. You're really really going
to crush it. Because your next move will always keep her guessing. She's gonna think hey,
do I have to work a little harder to get his emotional competence up? Do I have to kiss
him a little bit more? Do I have to whisper things in his ear start to do all of these
girly things to really get him bubbly to when she notices that this is a real challenge.
It's going to really make her mind be in a tizzy. You Your next move that keeps her guessing
will heighten her sensitivity and her emotions. Notice, we're still having the lack of emotional
competence. We're competence and we're competent. And we're sharp between the ears in every
situation besides that one. Now here's the deal. As you build this bond, you have to
understand your job versus her job. Your job is to stay present in the interaction at all
times, regardless of the outcome. You see, when most men go on a date, when most men
hang out with a woman for five times, six times 10 times, what they start to do is they
start to get extremely dependent on the outcome. How much more sex can they get? How long until
she's his girlfriend? All of these things? Like I said it over here Your job is to just
say, hey, let's just show right now. Take it slow. You're in no rush to do anything
the years not going to be over. And you can even say unless you plan then you can you
can if let's say her name is Kayla, you say Kayla, do you plan on dying anytime soon?
Well, no, I don't plan on dying anytime soon. Just chill. Let's just hang out here. Let's
go get some ice cream. You notice how when you're in that cool chill, relaxed mode, you
are remaining masculine. There's a different type of masculine energy when you're on your
purpose, your passion and your drive. And when you take that small time to kick it with
that woman, it's a different type of cool, it's a different type of relaxed, okay, your
job is to remain present, when she noticed you're not focused on next week or next month,
or how fast you can lock her down. This is going to heighten her attraction even more.
The next is you have to stay focused on that iron purpose. Your iron masculine purpose
is ridiculously key throughout this. She's going to think, hmm, we've had an intimate
time. We've had dates. He still doesn't make a whole lot of time for me throughout the
date. I still can't stray him off his purpose. I still can't stray him off that passion,
man. He's really committed to what he does, man. He has a lot of outside things going
on besides me, man. He has a big social circle. Okay, these are things that you want to start
to do throughout your life. And when you actually have a life that's worth living, what happens
Is that women can accompany your life so much easier. The next is that you're just never
moved off balance game, maybe she wants to go out on Friday or Saturday night with her
girlfriends. If you start to be the guy that is blowing her up that's anxious about that.
That is going to show complete lack of options. And if you've been doing everything right
up until this point, that's going to be a big negative in your in your hands. Her job
throughout this entire thing is essentially just to lock down the big bad wolf. It's like
beauty in the beast. You have to be that beast for her to be that beauty. You have to be
that one that she's trying to lock down the big bad wolf in order for her to want to be
the soft, sweet girl to you. It's polarity and energy. It's masculine versus feminine.
She's also fighting for your time at this point. And why wouldn't she you have to remember
it's biologically hardwired in a woman to be more relationship committed or relationship
focused than a man. And the reason for that is because as she
peaks in age, she's going to want to lock somebody down. Women naturally wants security
and safety. Now as you do this, she's going to be wondering where things are going at
all times. If you can get her mind to spin and say, Man, where are things going? am I
wasting my time with this guy? Is this guy seeing other women potentially? is this guy
doing other things without me? What do I have to do to make it seem like I'm this one girl
in this guy's eyes? And when you can look past her beauty for a second, and actually
screen her actually qualify her, say, hey, what does this girl bring to the table outside
of how cute her smile is? She's going to work extra hard. When she works extra hard. It's
just like anything. The higher somebody is investment is the more they want to get that
investment out. And when you do this, this is absolute stealth seduction. We're not saying
anything spectacular. We're saying cool. We're playing calm. And as we do this, as long as
we fit our role in true masculinity and polarizing our energy to just make it as if we're living
our life with purpose. And with the abundance. She's going to fit her category of being sweet,
soft and submissive. Instantly fellas, if you liked this video, be sure to
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