So your steppin' outside of your comfort zone and you decide to try to make a little small
talk at the Starbucks. But you're struck with
a short response a little bit of a rude response.
Well how do you do with that? How do you blow by and get to that report state you
looking for?
I'm Barron Cruz from Charisma Matrix and today I'm gonna show you how.
Swoooosh (Sound)
So just a few days ago I was in a bigger city and I walked into Starbucks
and every time I'm in a social situation or social environment
I tried to try something out socially I try to make some small talk just kinda
engage the environment to get
used to being social to get a social mood used to that social pressure that
you're confronted with
when you make moves like this so what I did was I was in line and i got up to
the front
and I saw other only to make cake pops the little
sucker looking things up cake on the inner lacked
make small talk I just said Lola goes on a solo que pops pretty early for that
and the girl in Canada dismissive very short way said
know we have 12 left in the back so
or most people do do you think I'll stupid me stupid me why would I bring up
something like that of course there's 12 in the back
you need to stay a check a quick make it stupid small talk people hate report
but that's not what's going on and that's probably not the reason that she
made a comment as a talk from previous videos
there's a million one reasons why she acted that way and maybe my
interpretation was a little bit of maybe she was being a short I was just looking
for more
gregarious response but whatever the reason
how we push past that so that point what I said as I kept my voice very I did
back of the net meager
I said you was really funny say that because ICM nose for a few years
but I never actually tried one it'll just two months ago I was blown away at
how good they are every time I come in are a hard time resisting
okay so when I raise my voice like that asserts speaking
he got the attention to the four other priest is around there wasn't that busy
there is kinda hanging out
and they all kinda look make small steps come towards you so now you have the
ground for real so now's your chance to really make an impact on people to keep
talking
I'd gotten thirty-year they're listening you're interested I was some kinda
person that can stand up to social pressure
I'm saying something a little more personal don't most people wouldn't know
are you going to
a story about be just had a man they love my most people would think that
financially but now they're drawn in soon as your chance
to become memorable and to get that report them say all came around I said
as you know you know it's like
when you have a cocky writer the other end but it's just a little bit undercut
i'll i'll and right when I get there another girl in Ross with a huge smile
Chagall Marc
I love cookies one like that too the keep us remind you that
no other girl comes in the weather breezes come unstuck
you know around christmastime we actually have brownie cake pops
and the sprinkle a little um candy cane on top
the third one comes in and she says you know there's another seasonal one and
its
chocolate salted it comes out around spring time you gotta try that
okay so the engagement wet from one girl was being very short with me
and she said you know we have to call them back a scissor
you guys are all sold out no we have 12 action back work from that
to every single one other Greece's happens huge smiles on their faces
trying to engage want to be involved in that
because you created this whole energetic seen
where you show your open you very comfortable
true them ended to your outgoing miss your social ineptness
and your comparability with the scene comparability
your comp whole mess with the scene made them comfortable
made them want to participate get into that good energy who doesn't want to be
around someone who says
you know how when you to get cocky over up a little early
it's a little bit strange I'm sure a lot of people listening this would think
that says
very strange coming to make however you'll find when you come from a very
honest place on Sat on this comment very comparable smiling happy to be there
radiating good energy
not wanting anything from them providing the good entertaining store
people want to be involved in that match I was able to switch up that situation
from a cold stifle want to re-open engaging one
in which you know I would imagine opposes breezes a Prime member Beate are
coming later today I'm guessing it probably have a comment about
kick popper cookies coming out of the oven early but that just creates
a very warm image in your mind
the world you know when I leave a place like that obviously I'm not thinking
the world is hola people don't like me people are quiet and rude in social
situations
people are I'm coming out over thinking hey you know what a pleasant town
people really are nice once you get to know it keeps you in that good positive
state which radiate
snowballs on itself so stick in there
you make a small talk commenter you try to break the ice all been somewhat kinda
short with you
it doesn't necessarily mean they don't want to talk plow through it
don't be a mostly affected you know no sir we have 12 in the back
no no no sir we have 12 in the back
you got a funny story like just doesn't even stop you're all you plow through
your emotional on react emotionally
unreactive draw other people in begin to look at life through rose-colored
glasses by the way people will begin to treat you or possibly on a consistent
basis