this video I'm gonna show you why increased importance is the resistance
you feel it's the main reason the main thing that blocks you from experiencing
what you want it's super important you watch this video so let's get into it
right welcome back to another video my name is Erin and I know people
expand their consciousness now in this video I'm gonna be sharing you with you
how important it is to watch and to understand how decrease in importance is
it's super important to decrease importance okay that's a paradox I'm
aware of that I just think it's a funny plan words to be honest with you but in
general this is the the one thing that blocks so many people from experiencing
what they want is they put it on a pedestal they put it on a pedestal and
it's vibrationally and separated from you you know what I mean
like imagine it's like I really really want this person this prep I can attract
a specific person to my life then I'll feel so much better
what's first off if you say first I'll track this person then I'll feel better
then we're externalizing our own happiness that's strike one strike one
vibrationally now it's a little bit further away okay now secondly we say
it's very very important we put it on a pedestal and then we can't actually
experience it because it's all the way up here aren't they like we put that
person on a pedestal we're like you are so amazing if you would just give me a
little bit of validation and make me feel better then I could sleep at night
and then chase your text messages in the morning but if you didn't send me a text
message then I'll feel very sad about it you see it's we put someone on a
pedestal we vibrationally separate ourselves from
them and then what happens is there's so much important say that it's created
resistance I look at my own manifestation journey how I have
attracted things in my life and anytime I feel an immense amount of importance
it normally doesn't end necessarily well there's something I have to do in order
to decrease the importance so that then I experience it now this actually
happened when I was the last house I was in before I'm traveling the world right
now I'm gonna show you by the way just I want to give a little more context I was
just filming up on the the Airbnb is actually up there
these are like two little cottages that are connected to the Airbnb and I was
recording with like a pool and a really cool background but the pool guy came so
I told him I say hey this isn't very very important I said I'm in a flow
state right now so can you go do something else for 20 minutes why I
finished filming his video finished filming that video and then now I feel
like he's like okay can I couldn't clean the pool now am I gonna go clean the
pool I'm gonna go find another cottage now Here I am okay now you got a little
more context this is some of these vids and and yeah I decided to explain a
little bit more rather than just being a cool place and just like making a video
so importance the house side I had before I had a house for a year in Las
Vegas I remember when I saw the house it was so beautiful it was it was like a
minimalist style all open floor plan one story I love one story houses because
you know I'm lazy and I don't like to go up the stairs or something it's all
super important that it adds to one floor but it is enough natural for me to
have that I like that so it was like one open floor plan and and I remember
seeing it and I was like wow this house is amazing I really like this house I
already saw two or three houses and they weren't nearly as amazing and then I
went and I applied for but here's the thing I applied to rent that house for a
year when I did that I found out there were already four of their applications
on the house or I was either one of four or there are four other applications I
don't remember but there was competition for the house at least there was
perceived competition for the house really was all competition you want to
know why because I vibrationally resonate with the house now here's what
happened though a couple of days after I applied for the house and they told me
you know there's a couple other people that applied for it I'm like oh Mike
okay I really really want the house I was imagining myself meditating in the
house imagine all the cool videos I could make in that house it was like
really really important that I got that house but then what I did is I saw I saw
how resistant I was becoming I saw how I was putting it on a pedestal and I
realized that I had to do I to vibrationally do something about this
then I tapped into something that's called outer intention it's a process
from a book called reality transfer fee outer intention is where you realize
that it's not just your inner intention like my inner desire to live there would
make me feel so good instead is the outer intent
I imagine how it would make other people feel for me to live there now what I
mean by that is I make videos for a living and I thought how what about the
cool videos I be able to make there how much value that would add to other
people I thought about how cool that would be so what I did is I then also
thought about how the owners would want me to live there because they would say
I'm such a clean person I don't have animals I take good care of the house
I'd be traveling a lot so it's like they wouldn't they just want to have as much
to worry about with me there so I thought of that so I took it out of my
ego self and put it on to what's called outer intention I then thought about how
the house wanted me to live there cuz I would take such good care of it I know
this has a little weird esoteric but if you give certain things a personality
not like you know just a personality like you realize everything is energy it
makes it easier for you to then not make it so important because then you see it
from different points of view rather than just our ego well I did that and
guess what happened I got the house out of all the four other people I got the
house because I didn't put it on a pedestal I believe if I would have kept
it on a pedestal though I probably wouldn't got in the house but other
times before where when you first get into relationship you put that person on
a pedestal and you really hope they'll text you back and when you get like that
what happens is is you start to put out resistance and they could feel the
resistance to I know in the beginning of when Lior and I started dating I started
to feel all this emotion like why am I feeling I've never I've never felt like
that by the way when I was getting to relationship with someone for some
reason when I first got a relationship with Lee or I started feeling all heady
and like oh I wonder about this I wonder about that and I I was vibrationally
butchering it and in a way I was putting her on a pedestal there she was on a
pedestal hi hi Lee or hi could you just can he just like me and I was I was
vibrationally it was like not a part of my NAT it wasn't natural for my
self-image just to be COO like and it was it went back and forth for a while
he was like past life stuff for it stuff too we both feel because that we both
felt that way the irony is we both felt that way however I know that in the
beginning I felt like that it was so unusual for me because normally it's
just I just don't not attached you know what I mean however
anytime I put something on a pedestal or made something very important
they then creates resistance that you didn't have to mitigate you didn't have
to deal with now this is what in the key to balancing out the importance is when
you make something very very important you are saying that your self-image
it is not natural for your current self-image to experience it so if you
have someone on a pedestal you're saying there you are in a pedestal it is not
normal for me to for me to be around you because you are at a different caliber
than I am if it was with the house I would be saying all my goodness that
house would be amazing I've never lived in a house like that is not natural for
my current self-image to live in a house that is that cool
there it is on a pedestal the key to this is linking up your self-image to
knowing it is natural for you to have be or do whatever you want that's the key
linking up your self-image when I imagine the version that when I used to
imagine the version of me that's Drive in the world making videos if it was on
a pedestal advi-- bracele be separated from it but if I realized hola say hi
say hi hola good morning how are you
muy bien I'm just gonna finish todo bien mi a key or Cinco minutos para me no a
glass yes yeah perfecto perfecto do is my y do is my or see my garage
oh god yes so for this anytime what you're saying
is that your self-image isn't on a pedestal and when yourself you're what
you're saying is your self-image is linked up to that version of you but the
key to this is knowing that you're good either way and also knowing that if
something is on a pedestal this is the key to balancing out more so know that
you are good either way you are good either way whether you have that thing
or not what I realized is like oh I was thinking that the the house that I
wanted to live in I was assumed if I didn't get the house and there'd be no
scarcity mindset - anytime we're in the state if scarcity mindset there is an
abundance of everything that we want in reality it's called the create the
creative mindset that makes all the difference if I were to then know wait I
can trust that if this isn't the right house then I'll find a house that's even
better I knew and I had a feeling that was the right house though and it was
even though there was competition perceives competition for it you see and
in the same way with Lee or if I were to assume and and not trust the process all
all increased importance that causes resistance comes from a lack of trusting
the process what if I were just to assume that if Leah were if Leah and I
weren't working out if I were to trust that process I would know that if it if
it if it does happen then it's meant to happen do you see if that house didn't
work out then it means that there's another house that's even better out
there but it's about trusting and knowing that perspective knowing that I
can trust the universe to bring me exactly what I need you see that's what
makes all the difference so what is your self-image and is it natural for you to
experience what you want is it natural for you to be in the perfect
relationship is it natural for you like I travel the world this is natural for
me if this were on a pedestal that would be so amazing to be able to film videos
in any part of the world I want with cool backgrounds and cool things like
that then it would be vibrationally separated from me but this is natural
for me I have one of the most like amazing
use up there but it's just natural it's just natural and because it's natural it
vibrationally resonates with me more so and it's natural for me to be in a great
relationship it's natural for me to be in a great relationship with myself
you see these perspectives change everything that as I saw the cameras at
11:11 so it's super important that you watch this video on decreasing
importance because now you know that if you want to vibrationally resonate with
something all you have to do is link up your self-image to that thing and know
that you are already wholly complete link up your self-image and know that
you will experience a reality that's equal to what you are putting out you
see that's the key to this whole process and if you find you get yourself getting
too heady about something or you find that you are putting someone on a
pedestal realize you're good either way the universe knows more about what's in
store for you than you do and when you trust that process that's
when magic begins to happen you can trust the process
and know that the universe will bring you something even more amazing if you
have some you know house on a pedestal a person on a pedestal just trust that it
is natural for you to be in a high vibe it is natural for you to experience
those things when I'm gonna get ready to I'm getting ready to do live events to
travel the world that version of me it's natural for me to do that it's not on a
pedestal so how cool would that be it's on this pedestal
it's natural the way you make it natural is by imagining that version of you and
just deciding that version of you is who you are now the last thing I want to
talk about is this idea of creation creative mindset vs. competitive mindset
I used to work a sales commission job selling woman shoes at Nordstrom's and
Barneys New York I worked with them both but when I was at Nordstrom's I learned
about read this book called the science of getting rich by Walter waddles old
school book with us it's like 80 pages long or less and in it it talks about
this creative mindset VIRs competitive mindset at the time I worked in
Nordstrom's and it was very competitive you know you were you were competing for
customers and and in a way you and other salespeople that if they
had good sales then it kind of took away from your sales and at least that was a
perspective then I read this book and I realized that wait things but what about
this creative mindset this creative mindset there's this creative mindset
competitive mindset competitive mindset means there's scarcity in the world it
means there's not enough to go around it's like me having a customer someone
else having a customer and say all because they have a customer now there's
not enough customers to go around and then that would be the reality that I
would experience creative mindset means no matter how many great customers come
in and other salespeople help those customers there's always more there's
always more doesn't have to be a causality so much when I had that
perspective everything changed everything changed realize it Oh
instead of feeling like jealousy because someone else had a good sale I'd be like
oh great that means customers today are just really buy in the buying mode today
that's great now that means that I'm gonna have a good customer too you see
the meaning changes then my state changes then I am more likely to be in
vibrationally resonates with somebody that is well at wanting to buy you see
because it was a commission based job so in the same way it works the same exact
way when we are talking about that of-of-of
manifestation in general that house didn't come through not competitive
scarcity mindset creative mindset there's something even more amazing if
you have someone on a pedestal and it's not working out and you're resisting
realize that the universe may be trying to show you that there may be something
that resonated even more and you could trust the universe so this is about
taking things off a pedestal it's about seeing yourself as worthy of the things
you want to experience knowing your good either way it's about trust in the
universe to bring something even more amazing to you than you can even imagine
and all you got to do is trust and know that it is super super important that
you decrease importance which of course I'm being sarcastic about it's natural
it's smooth it's calm because you do me a favor and smash the like button on
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key to to my a lot of the things I've experienced in my life it's decreased
importance and it's increasing the present moment so let me know what you
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