Hey, it's Mark here from Make Him Yours. And today, me and my Afro mic are here
to give you three more fantastic first date questions as well as how to bring them up
naturally. Stay tuned.
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Welcome to the video. So today, we are doing part two of great first date
questions. And with first date questions, what you really want to do is you want to
find out about a guy you want to find out about his values. You want to find out about
what he stands for. You want to find out about what drives him on a deeper level. The problem
is a lot of the great questions can seem very contrived or premeditated, which is kind of
weird when you're on a date. So today, I'm giving you three more and showing you how
to bring them up in a contextual way in the conversation. So number one, men love to be
able to flaunt their achievements and men love to be able to show off to you and do
a bit of chest beating to you. And this is a great question to allow a man to do that.
Jermia: What are the three things you're most proud of achieving in your life?
So this is a great question that allows a man to talk about what he's proud
of and what drives him. And it'll give you some huge insights into his character. The
problem is it can be a bit random, so you want to wait for the opportune moment.
Jermia: So how did you end up in sales when you were such a shy kid?
Mark: Yeah, know, it's, it's a question I get asked a bit and it's a pretty cool story.
I spent the first 15 months being the worst salesperson in the company and I just persisted,
came along way and for the last two years I've been top of the charts. Yeah, it's really
cool. Really cool. Very proud of it.
Jermia: Yeah, you should be proud of it. That's awesome. So what would you say that the top
three things you're most proud of achieving in your life? Is that one of them?
The next one is a great question to bring out his values and show you what
really drives him.
Jermia: If you've never had to work again, how would you spend your time?
This is a great question, but you can see how if it came out of nowhere, it
would seem very premeditated. Instead, you want it to come up naturally.
Mark: So you love your job?
Jermia: I do. I love it so much and look, as cliche as it sounds, I just, I come to
life when I'm on stage. I love it. What about you?
Mark: Yeah, you know, I do enjoy it. I do enjoy it. Um, it's probably not something
I'll do forever, but it's put me on a good pitch financially for now. So the sales roles
good for now.
Jermia: Mmm. Okay. So it's all about the money, hey?
Mark: No, it's not all about the money. No, it's just, it's certainly not something
I do for fun.
Jermia: Well, if you never had to work again, money's not an option. It's not even in the
equation. How would you spend your time?
Okay, so this final question is a really cool one and it was actually inspired
by one of my favorite TV shows. If you've ever watched scrubs, you might remember from
season four there was a particularly beautiful episode. JD was teaching a class and in that
class one of his students puts hand up and asked JD and the storyline flows out. And
long story short, every single character has their best moment in medicine around this
single father and son who are in hospital. It was a beautiful episode and every single
character lit up during that episode. It's one of the only episodes I can remember where
that happened and I adapted that question since and I found out it was a question that
lights people up.
Jermia: What has been your best moment in your job?
What has been your best moment in your job is a question that goes well beyond
dates. You can use it at networking events, you can use it meeting new friends. You can
use it in groups that you spend time around. You will see people light up when you use
this question. Just make sure it's not too random.
Jermia: So how long have you been a vet for?
Mark: About three and a half years now. Yeah, it's really cool job. Really cool job. Lots
of different challenges as you can imagine, but loving it.
Jermia: Yeah, that'd be so good. What's been your very best moments as a vet?
Okay, well, those are three questions you can use on your first date that now gives
you six you can use. Just make sure, as I say, you don't bring them up to randomly.
They should come up in context, otherwise they're going to be contrived or seem premeditated.
Now, in that first video, we do show you a way to bring them up at random, but in general,
you want them to come up naturally.
Thank you for watching. Would you like another video on this topic? Let
me know. Would you like a part three? Let me know. Thoughts, comments, questions, et
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do. I'll see you in the next video very soon.
[Showing bloopers] So you obviously love your job. I do. I do. Really love it. Yeah, loving it.
I definitely imagine he said my thing and I got thrown out. I'm figuring out my thing.
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