Matt: So it's our first night in Sweden. I don't I have this in my ear. Did you put this in my ear?
Woman: I did. Matt: You're so bad.
Man: I charge for videos, my friend.
Women: (Speaks in Swedish)
Matt: Yeah, what she said? Woman: I miss my new best friend.
Matt: So, I just got this cool gimbal stabilizer that I'm going to put my phone in when I do approaches
and record. And, basically hold it out in my hand like this, which may cause some negative reactions.
Matt: Excuse me. Hi. One second.
Matt: The stereotype here is that the people are a little bit more impersonable than in the US, right? If you
are on a bus, for example, you don't really talk to the person next to you
and the people lack of emotion. They don't lack emotion but they're not as
emotional as Americans. Unless they're drunk of course then all those
stereotypes fly out the window. So, let's go meet some Swedes and see what it's like.
Matt: Hey, real quick. Do you know where the train to... woa, you're really pretty.
Woman: Thank you. Matt: What's your name?
Woman: Ida.
Matt: I like the crazy type, always getting drunk, seducing boys, that are making blogs. Say hi to the vlog.
Women: Hi.
Matt: I'm putting you on the spot, like what do you like for me? I love to travel and I love to play guitar.
Woman: I just bought a new guitar and I'm learning it. Matt: Really? Nice, I like that. High five. I'll teach you
some chords and then in no time you'll be a rock star.
Matt: Hey ladies, come check out our boat. So, we decided to
stay on this epic boat called The Burger Yarol or something like that. And it has
pretty good logistics except it's a little bit far from the center, about 25-minute walk.
And we have to climb up this really big hill or cliff every time we come to and from the city center.
Matt: Excuse me. Hi. Real quick, tell me one cool thing
about you before you go and I gotta get back to my food. It's getting cold. There's
got to be like something cool about you like what's... Woman: (speaking indistinctly)
Woman: We're gonna go to a concert this night. Matt: Ah, yeah, I heard about that.
Woman: Are you filming? Matt: No, no, no. It's me.
Matt: Alright, listen. I gotta go, okay. Bye!
Matt: So, this is my first time recording in a club using something like this.
So, we'll see what kind of trouble we can get into.
Matt: Hello. Woman: Hello.
Matt: What's your name? Matt: I'm Matt. Nice to meet you.
Matt: Do people do the on the cheek in Sweden or no? Woman: No.
Matt: Say hi. Woman: Hi.
Matt: And, anytime you walk into a new club, what should you do, Duke?
Duke: You gotta find points of interest. You got to know where to take her, now, get
all the logistics inside the club. Matt: Yeah, cuz you don't want to have a long
conversation in one spot for too long cuz that gets boring even if it's a
great conversation. So, notice behind me, there's some ping-pong tables. That could
be a fun place to take her entire group if you want. There's some places to sit
over here, not a lot of people of this club but a couple of people sitting over
there, right? So, after you've been standing for a while you can sit down.
And of course, there's a photo booth, which is like the classic makeout spot.
Matt: Okay, you guys go to Subway. We'll play some ping-pong. You're good, right?
Woman: I'm amazing. Matt: Amazing.
Matt: You should always be tracking your results because then you know if you're
improving and you also know how long does it take for you to get a date and
how many approaches does it take. So, for example, let's say you go out at night
and you're out for three hours, you do ten approaches, you get three phone
numbers and one date. Comes out of that. Then it would take you three hours to
get a date. If that was your average for a night game. For day game, maybe it's
ten approaches and you get one date. Out of ten approaches, maybe an instant date.
And on average, your approaches might only be like a minute and a half because
some of them are only gonna be thirty seconds, the girls not into it or she has
a boyfriend and other times it'll be up to three minutes before you say "hey,
let's go grab coffee right now." So, if that was the scenario that means
it takes what, 20 minutes or so, to get a date. That would be pretty good. Now, I
just made those numbers up. You got to figure out your own statistics. But when
you figure that out, you can realize "hey, if I go out and spend you know X amount
of time or I do X amount of approaches, I know you know pretty consistently get
dates." And then, that can definitely motivate you, like for example,
I know if I get seven phone numbers within a five day period, oh yeah,
at least one date. Now, if I stay I said five day period because if I stayed in
the city longer, I might get two or three dates out of 7 phone numbers.
But I'm traveling a lot so sometimes I'm only in the city for a very short time.
So full moon only there for two days, I need to get more than seven phone
numbers, if I really want a date. So, with that knowledge, I know what to do. I know
exactly how many phone numbers I need to get if I want a date. And, you should do the same
Often times during the day, they're in a hurry and you got to deal with
logistics as best you can but hey, keep trying. what you speaking this okay all right bye
Matt: Hi, real quick... Woman: (speaking Swedish)
Matt: What? Do you speak English? Woman: (speaking Swedish)
Matt: Okay, alright. Bye.
Matt: (speaking Swedish) Apparently means "I must go."
Matt: Hey, excuse me real quick. No, no, no it's for YouTube.
Not everybody likes to be on camera. So, using the Gimbal and having a camera in their face is
definitely polarizing but you want to be polarizing. You don't want to be nice and
everybody likes you, every girl is like "oh, he was a nice guy, let me give you let
me give him my phone number because he's nice." No, you want to be a little bit
polarized. You want to be masculine. You want to seem dominant, you want to
seem sexual so that, you know, the girls that aren't into it are gonna be ones
that are married or the ones that aren't in tune with their sexuality or the ones
that aren't open-minded the ones that aren't fun, you don't want those girls
anyway so there's nothing wrong with that. And, it doesn't mean they're bad
people for disqualifying you. They're just not into it. So what? That's okay.
But remember, the mission is to find the girls that are into it and there's plenty of them.
Matt: Say hi. We just met in whatever store this is...
(Matt and the woman speaks Swedish)
Matt: See, I get so many languages confused now. I'm starting to speak Spanish.
Woman: Yeah, I speak Spanish and Russian. Matt: Swedish people don't really like to be in each
other's comfort zone. Woman: Oh, no.
Matt: Like, if we were in Latin America, we'd be like this, you know, like holding hands.
Already making out in the store. Only in Brazil. Woman: I'm actually gonna like
being a Miss Sweden competition. Matt: I came here just for you.
I really would be here, I knew he meant to be but I'm only here for two more
days so our romance will have to be brief. I'm sorry. Woman: Yeah.
Matt: It's not you, it's me. Well, listen, let's exchange numbers. We'll grab coffee later.
Woman: Yeah, sure.
Matt: Swedish blondes! Gotta love them. Gotta love this Swedish blondes.