Hello my wonderful friend! Today's video is on what women really want - the three
biggest lies. What you are about to hear is based on my training as a certified
coach and my extensive research. This is based on female psychology and science,
guys, not popular opinion and hearsay. I have a very special secret at the end
that you really need to know if you have been struggling with these lies so be
sure to watch to the end. Before we get started be sure to subscribe and ring
that notification bell. I'm a Christian dating coach for men. My specialty is
helping really good guys get the girl of your dreams. So let's talk a little bit
about what women really want and a little bit about female psychology.
There are so many lies out there, guys, about what women really want. I recently
did this video which is Female Psychology: What Women Really Want. Be
sure to check that one out as well, it will comfort you a ton. There is a link
in the description below. In that video I kind of go over some of
the important traits that women want in a man and if you have those traits
you're going to attract women like a magnet. So I wanted to kind of devote
this video to some of the biggest lies and kind of explain why they're lies and
why they're not true and why you shouldn't give them any more thought.
Lie number one is that all you gotta do is be super rich and then women will
love you. I don't know what kind of women you're hanging out with if you think
that, but you are clearly hanging out with the wrong women. A quick story for
you. Several years ago I started to get to know a guy and he would show me his
big-screen TV, he purchased a brand new car, like brand new, shiny, all the bells
and whistles, and he had to walk me through his house and let me see how
awesome his house was. He was showing off some wealth. And guys, we only went on
like two dates and I was done. I was really done.
What happened with this guy, is yeah he was showing me off some of his wealth,
but he didn't treat me very good and I didn't enjoy my time with him. He was
really boring and it just wasn't a good experience at all. The fact is that
wealth or no wealth he did not have some of the essential traits that women want,
some of the traits I actually teach you in my free guide 17 Traits Christian
Women Want Most in a Man. If you haven't downloaded your free copy of that yet
check out the link in the description below. But long story short, this guy had
wealth and I wasn't interested. Why? Because that's not the only thing that
matters to women. You can be rich all day long but if you are a dirtbag it doesn't
matter. Lie number two. "Well all you have to do
is be very successful and have a high level of prestige and then women
will want you." Another story for you. I started to get to know a guy who had a
career choice that was prestigious and he let me know how prestigious it was
and in his church he was very prestigious, and guys, I ended up telling
him to never call me again after date two. Why? Well very similar to the first story,
he was a dirtbag. I felt terrible when I was around him and my mom and my sister
actually came to me and said "Hey, you gotta stop seeing this guy. Ever since
you met him you have been a nervous wreck and you have your self-esteem has
plummeted and you've just been really down." Here was a guy who was very
prestigious and many people would say incredibly successful by the world's
terms and I didn't want him. So if success and being, you know,
prestigious, if that's the only thing that matters to women then why didn't I
want him? Again, he did not have the key things that women actually want in a man.
Quick question before we get to lie number three and the secret that you
really need to know. I want to hear from you guys if any of these are surprising
to you, if anything you're learning today is a surprise, be sure to comment "WOW!"
in the comments below. And we are to line number three which is perhaps the
biggest lie. I have people leave me comments about this all the time. Lie
number three is "Well, girls only care if you're super hot. That's all that matters
to them." Again, I don't know what kind of women you're hanging out with but you
are clearly hanging out with the wrong types of women. The truth is, according to
female psychology, guys, physical attraction is actually much less
important to women than it is even to men. Quick story for you. Again, lots of
stories today. I met a guy several years ago and he made me weak in the knees you
guys. When it comes to physical attraction he was like my dream guy you
guys, I'm not even kidding. I could not look him in the eye without blushing and
looking away, I couldn't get with you like four feet of him without like
butterflies taking over and not being able to breathe. He was so, so physically
attractive. We started to get to know each other and I started to become
really miserable. Yes, he was attractive and there were those butterflies
and stuff, but as time went on that lessened and my self-worth just
drops dramatically. I felt terrible when I was around him. It turned out that he
was very, very manipulative and he always was trying to get me to lower my
standards, which I wouldn't do, but when I wouldn't do that he would pout and mope
and be unkind to me. Here was a man who physically speaking was one of the most
attractive men I ever met, I'm not going to lie he was incredibly
attractive, but he wasn't attractive because he didn't have those other key
traits that were most important and that women want most in a man. At the end of
the day we ended up breaking up and I never felt better. It was a very good
experience for me. I finally felt free and I was able to start finding the type
of man I actually wanted, the type of man who has the traits I teach you about in
my course How to Get a Girlfriend, the traits that matter most to a woman. Now,
we are to that special secret I told you about at the end of the video. With every
lie we just addressed there is actually some truth. The truth is, guys, well yeah
women like men who are physically attractive. Duh. Women like men
who have drive and ambition and who are proactive about being able to provide
and care for themselves and their future family. That is something that does
matter to women. However, that is not the only thing. This is one of the biggest
lightbulb moments anyone can have when it comes to dating and relationships, so
pay very close attention because this has the power to change your life.
Attraction and success etc. they're just skills. They're just about mindset. You
can in fact learn those skills. So, don't be upset that women are attracted to and
drawn to men who are physically attractive, men who are proactive in
their careers, and men who are working to be successful. Because the truth is,
well don't you want a woman who's attractive? And don't you want a woman
who is driven and who is accomplishing good things in her life? If you don't
want a woman who's attractive, that's actually really weird. So why does it
bother so many men that women are drawn to men who are successful and who are
proactive and who are physically attractive? It's almost always because of
two reasons. Reason number one is that they're too lazy to actually learn those
skills. Now that is probably not you. If you are watching this video that is
probably not you, it shows that you have drive. Now obviously, yes, ask yourself if
that's your problem, but if you're watching this it's most likely not. The
second reason is that they don't know how. And it's terrifying to try if you
don't actually know how. They don't know how to become physically attractive, they
don't know how to become successful, they don't know how to have the confidence to
do those things. But, this is again where that light bulb moment comes in. You can
learn. Everyone who has become physically attractive and who's become successful
etc. has learned the right skills and the right tools and has applied them. This is
actually exactly what I teach you in How to Get a Girlfriend. If you don't have
those skills, of course you don't know how to achieve your goals. If instead you
have those skills, well then you don't have to worry about it anymore. I teach you
how to attract the types of women you want like a magnet. I teach you how to
stay out of the friend-zone forever. Never again are you going to have to worry
about not being good enough or about her leaving you or cheating on you. You will
have the entire toolkit to be able to attract the type of girl you are longing
to hold. Be sure to check out the link in the description below to learn more
about that, to take advantage of that today. Honestly what else do we have to
do right now? How amazing would it be to have the skills you need so that
when all this blows over you can step forward with confidence and attract the
type of woman you want? You will learn how to be confident in all areas of your
life which, spoiler, helps you become more and more successful therefore it
increases your wealth as well. Now I do want to mention that there is a third
option, I've kind of hinted at it throughout this video. If you are
struggling with women wanting these things, sometimes
the reason men struggle with that is because they're hanging out with the
wrong women, they are hanging out with toxic women. And guys, that is just a bad
idea, okay? All the way around. Another thing you will learn in How to Get a
Girlfriend is how to identify toxic women, avoid them like crazy, and instead
attract healthy women, the types of women you are longing for and the type of
woman who is going to love you like crazy. So again, be sure to check out the
link for that in the description below. So to sum up, the three biggest lies I
hear most often are that women are only interested in looks, success or prestige,
and wealth, that that is all that matters to women. That is a big fat hairy stupid
lie. Be sure to download your free guide 17 Traits Christian Women Want Most in a
Man so that you can actually know what it is women want and start moving
forward in that direction. Of course good looks
etc. are some of the things women want, but the truth is you can learn those
skills. Many, many very awkward men have learned how to become total bosses and
total heartthrobs, so no matter where you feel you are on that spectrum you can in
fact learn these skills, apply them, and become a heartthrob. Thank you so much
for watching my amazing friend. If you enjoyed what you saw be sure to give me
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from you in the comments. If you would like more videos on what women really
want be sure to type "YES!" in the comments below. If we're not yet friends on social
media be sure to check out the links for that in the description below as well. Be
sure to share this with a friend. These lies paralyze a lot of guys and make
them too afraid to make a move or make them feel like they'll never be
good enough. The truth is friends do not let friends struggle with that so be
sure to share. One more shameless plug, be sure to check out How to Get a
Girlfriend in the description below. Guys, the only reason I keep bringing it up is
I know it works. I have seen it work over and over and I know it can work for you
so be sure to check it out. How cool would it be if you knew how to get a
girlfriend by the time this was all over? The truth is, you can finish the material
in a weekend, you just can, so why wouldn't you want to? Check out the link
in the description below. Thank you so much for watching my amazing friend and
have an amazing day! [blooper beep]
If you don't want a woman who's attractive, that's actually
really weird. [laughter] I'm just saying it like it is people.
I don't remember I was gonna say...