Hello my wonderful friend! Today's video is on how to get a girlfriend no matter
what. Guys, this works every single time. Now I get thousands of comments and
emails and DMs but what's interesting is there's a common theme in every single
message and comment I get. See if you can guess what it is. For instance, I hear
things like "Well Melanie, I'm shy and I don't know how to talk to girls." or "I'm
an introvert and I really struggle meeting women." or "Well I'm recently
divorced or widowed and I have no idea how to get back on the dating scene." or
"A woman has never even noticed me. I have never even been on a date." And sometimes
it's "Well I'm only ever in bad relationships.
I am the nice guy who always loses." Do any of those feel familiar to you? Well
the common theme in all of these questions is what they're really asking
is "Is there any hope for me? Is there any hope I can have a girlfriend
too?" Have you ever asked that? Have you ever felt that deep down even if you haven't
like been willing to say it out loud? If that is you the answer is yes, a
resounding and most definite yes, If you do what I am about to teach you. That's
pretty exciting, right? Awesome. Let's get started. But before we do if this is your
first time watching be sure to subscribe and ring that notification bell.
My name is Melannie. I'm a Christian dating coach for men and I seriously
help guys in all kinds of situations be able to get their dream girlfriend, guys.
So be sure to subscribe and ring that bell. Especially if this is something you
are struggling with. So let's dive into how to get a girlfriend no matter what.
Now this is a little hard to explain so I'm going to use a quick story to help
illustrate. It'll make a lot more sense if I do. Sound good?
Okay, so full confession guys, I love cars. I'm kind of a nerd when it comes to cars.
I think sports cars are super attractive and I love the look of cars and the
sound of cars and I happen to have a soft spot for
classic cars. If you're a fan of cars too let me know in the comments. We can like
nerd out about it together. Now when I was growing up we had an old, rusted out,
dead 58 Chevy pickup. And guys, I loved that car. I would dream about what it
would look like and what color I would paint it and how I would restore it. And
I'd sit behind the wheel in this is old dead truck and I would picture what it
would feel like to drive it around town and I absolutely loved that car. So I
really, it was my dream to restore this car. So I would pop the hood and I'd look
in there and realize I had no idea what any of this was or what any of it did. So
I closed the hood and I started doing some research on cars and how cars work
and how engines work. And that kind of, you know, gave me a little bit of a
confidence boost. I was like "This is awesome! Okay." So I came back and I popped
the hood again and I looked in there and I realized I still had absolutely no
idea how to restore a car. Yeah, I knew a little bit about how engines worked but
no idea how this engine worked. And what I really needed is I just needed
somebody who actually knew what they were doing to sit down with me and
explain it to me and walk me through the process of restoring this car, but
the truth is I didn't have that. So I closed the hood and I kept dreaming
about driving this car. Well as fate would have it, my neighbor actually got
himself an old classic truck as well and his was up and running in a couple weeks
you guys. He was able to drive it around town and do all of the things I had
been dreaming about doing, all the things I wanted to do so bad. Now what was the
difference between him and me? Was it that he had a better car? Well no, mine
was actually super like more awesome to be perfectly honest with you. It was a
better model in my oh so humble opinion. Was he a better person than me?
No, he certainly wasn't a better person than me.
He had the skills he needed to restore that car, I did not. Someone
had taught him, he knew how to do it. I did not. So consequently I never got to
drive that gorgeous car but he got to drive his car around all day long and
enjoy it for years and years. The same is true when it comes to dating and
relationships. When you have that the right skills you get the results you
want. Sometimes we feel like it's luck of the draw. Have you ever felt that way?
Sometimes we just feel like "Well some people have it and some people don't." The
truth is, some people have the skills and some people don't. If you aren't having
the success you want then it's because you need to learn the right skills. It is
as simple as that. Now here's the important part, so pay close attention,
it's not your fault that nobody taught you these skills. Just like it's not my
fault that I didn't know how to restore a car it's not your fault that nobody
taught you these skills. We're not taught this in our society. Most of us got all
of our relationship education, if you want to call it that, from high school.
And guys, that is responsible for more bad marriages than anything else. At the
same time the media really doesn't portray healthy or realistic
relationships. So what we're seeing on TV, and in books, etc. is not teaching us
these skills either. And I don't know if you were like me but I was raised in a
broken home and so I didn't have that example at home. So many
people they have two really awesome parents, but they don't have a really
good relationship. Well, if that's the case then you still don't have the
skills you need. And again, that's at absolutely no fault of your own. Is this
making sense? So the solution to finally beat the system and finally have the
success and results you are wanting is to just learn the skills that you need.
These are the skills I teach my clients. This is why one of my clients could go
from four failed marriages to almost instant results. Why could he do this after
all of those years of failing? Well, he finally
the skills that worked, the skills that get results. Is this making sense? So if
you're asking "Well, but Melannie, I'm shy and I don't know how to talk to girls."
That's okay. You just need to learn the skills that give you the confidence you
need and the competence so you know exactly how to interact with women and
then there won't be a problem anymore. "Well Melannie, I'm divorced or I'm widowed
and I haven't been out in the dating scene for years." Totally okay. You just
need to know the right skills to be able to handle it like a boss. "Well Melannie,
I'm an introvert and I struggle getting out there and meeting women." Totally okay.
You learn the right skills and you don't have to worry about that anymore. "Well
but wait Melannie, what if I've never had success with women ever before?" Well
you've never had success because you've never had the right skills. Once you have
those right skills everything, absolutely everything, changes. Guys, I have seen this
over and over. So the answer to how to get a girlfriend no matter what is to
just learn the right skills, to honestly give yourself that gift, to finally let
yourself learn the skills that you need. So my question to you is do you want to
learn those skills? Do you want to finally have a girlfriend, your dream
girlfriend? These skills are quite literally ready for you. I have gone to
all the hard work so that you don't have to. If the answer is yes, if you can
honestly say "Yes. I'm ready to finally have results and finally have a
girlfriend." Check out the link in the description
below and register for my free training on the three big secrets you have to
know to get your dream girlfriend. Guys, this is life changing. What are you
waiting for? If you're not having the results you want check out that link
right now. Wouldn't it just feel amazing to finally have a girlfriend
and to finally stop worrying about it and stop wondering what you're doing
wrong, to just have the answers laid out for you? It sounds pretty incredible,
right? So check out that link right now. I created this video because it honestly
makes my heart hurt to see and hear so many men asking "Well, is there any hope
for me?" Absolutely, most definitely, and that is why I created this training so
check out that link right now. Seriously, like right now. Thank you
so much for watching my wonderful friend! Be sure to give me a big thumbs up and
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you so much again my amazing friend and be sure to check out that link and have
an amazing day. [blooper beep]
Here we go. [singing] Here we, here we, here we go. I'm about to put on a show. [laughter]
Maybe I shouldn't be a rapper. [laughter]
Whatever. Okay. [laughter] Okay, you have to admit though that was funny.
...what they're really asking, what the question behind the question is. "Well Melannie, I'm
shy and I don't know how to talk to girls." Wait what? Oh, okay, yeah. [chuckle]
That wasn't really a question. [laughter]
Now there is a common question through all of
these- [messed up] [laughter] Okay.
Gotta fix my hair. That's- you gotta do it with flair. [laughter]
[humming]
This is my thinking face. I'm thinking you should check out the link in the description below
and sign up for your free training. Because I know it works. So, you know,
check it out. [laughter]
Thank you so much again my amazing day- My amazing day? [laugher]
Thank you amazing day for being so amazing. [laughter]