Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com.
What does it mean when a girl sends you mixed signals?
What does this mean?
What's a mixed signal? One day she shows
interest, another time she shows
disinterest, one minute she wants to hang
out with you,
the next minute she can't hang out with you.
One minute she says something really
nice and gives you a compliment,
the other day she ends up teasing you or
she's mad at you about something.
What does this all mean? Well let's get
specific here. What we're talking about
is this time before you guys are in some
sort of relationship. If you're in a
relationship already, if she's your
girlfriend and she's sending you mixed
signals, this is bad news. We shouldn't be
getting mixed signals from someone
you're actually in a relationship with.
We're talking about
this before time. How do you read this?
Here's the thing; what I want you to
do is throw away reading any of these
signals. There's only one thing you
should ever pay attention to, maybe two.
I'll go as specific as I can here.
But really you need to be paying attention
to if she ever actually wants to be in
your physical presence. Meaning you guys
are together, she's in front of you in
the real world. No DMs, no text messaging.
She's with you in the real world and
you guys are being physical with each
other and sexual with each other. If that
is not happening, you can just consider
this person not interested in you.
I don't care how nice she is to you
over text or even in person. If she's
not with you romantically, sexually in
some way whatsoever, she's not interested.
You're in the friend zone.
Or you're in no zone whatsoever.
There's nothing happening.
I don't want you to sit
here being so over analytical like well
she showed me this sign and then she
showed me that sign and now my mind is
just blown. Does she like me, does she not
like me, what's going on? One thing to pay
attention to, like I said it's kind
of two because it's two parts here.
It's you being in front of her and with her,
spending time with her,
probably alone because you guys are
being more physically intimate with each
other. Now of course you guys can be
together and not have sex or not be
touching each other a lot which is fine
once in a while. But normally, how
does it normally works when a man and a
woman get together
is there is something physical going on.
And you know that she's gonna be
interested in you if that's happening.
Now of course she could also say to you
that she likes you and she really
likes you. Maybe she loves you.
That's still good but still no matter
what, the difference between your
relationship with anyone in the whole
world (in this category) and the
relationship with a girl, the only
difference between this is sex.
Is physical intimacy okay.
The relationship you have with your siblings
and your parents and your friends and
your colleagues and your co-workers and
your boss and your teachers and all
those people, that is not an intimate
sexual relationship okay. But the one
with your potential partner is.
If she's not doing that, if you guys don't
have that kind of relationship together,
then it's some weird glorified
friendship, some weird friend-zone
relationship where nothing's really
happening. Of course there's
some exceptions here. Maybe you're
too young and maybe she's not ready for
sex or maybe you guys are religious and
that's not happening. That's fine
but still even in that case, you guys are
discussing that. There's a discussion
there. So it is clear between you two
that okay you're not doing that right
now for whatever reason but you guys
still like each other. Again that's a
small little exception there.
But remember, the signals that you're getting
from a girl; just stop, just stop.
Stop trying to read them. Stop trying to know
what's going on. In order
to figure this out, like I always say in
a lot of my videos is you need to ask
her out. She needs to know that you guys
were hanging out and it's the sort of
date. I even like to tell guys like I'm
telling you to say the word "date".
Yeah maybe it's cheesy or whatever but I
don't care about all that cheesy stuff.
I want it to be clear that the girl that I
am interested in knows that, is clear on
that so she understands like oh this is
not a friend-zone thing. This is not a
friendly thing like he's interested in me.
It's better to get that
rejection then sit here just being like
well I don't know what to do, I don't
know what's going on and I just hope she
gives me enough signals where eventually
it works out. Forget that, throw that away
completely and just go for it. Now you
might be wondering how can you tell if a
girl is playing hard-to-get. What if
she's throwing out these mixed signals
but they are her being interested? I have
a video for that on youtube. I'll put a
link in the description below. How to
tell if a girl is playing hard-to-get
so you can learn how to do that. Go to
the description, click on that video,
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