being one of the rarest personality types infjs are hard to come by
if you are one it's pretty improbable to find other infjs so you're most likely the only one
in your circle these lone infjs have to go through so much that they can't share with their non-infj
peers because they just wouldn't get it in this video we will look into some of the struggles that
these lone infjs have to face let's get started with the video then before we start make sure to
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any of our videos without further ado let's start one you keep trying to please everyone infjs are
naturally people pleasers they're always trying to make sure everyone is happy this is not always
possible and they can easily exhaust themselves trying to make it happen they try their best to
appeal to everyone no matter how different they are from them this can make them go as
far as try to completely be a different person to make sure people are happy with them they want to
seem likeable more than they want to be seen as themselves at times even when there are plenty
of people that like them for who they are this is obviously not healthy for their mental well-being
and is extremely exhausting to pull off as well constantly switching between all those roles
they create for themselves is not easy by any definition two you find it difficult to voice
your opinions being outspoken and assertive isn't an infj's strong suit whether you're deciding what
to have for dinner or where to go for your next road trip infjs face difficulty expressing their
opinions in their friend group they usually go along with what other people say sometimes even
when they actually don't want to they would rather wait in hopes that someone else expresses the same
opinion as them instead of actually just saying it this is why they are rarely the dominant ones
in friend groups they're the other people that go along with plants not the ones making them
they usually keep their opinions to themselves and bend to the wills of the rest of the group
they feel like their take on the matter would only bother the group instead of actually contributing
to the decision this is why they require friends that know and understand this habit of theirs
and specifically ask for their opinion regarding every decision and do not judge them for it
three you find it hard to say no the word no seems to not exist in the infj vocabulary because
you would almost never hear it from them as a response always eager to help their friends infjs
keep pushing their limits trying to fit as much time for others into their schedule as possible
they always oblige when asked for favors and rarely ask for anything in return they genuinely
want their friends to be successful and are happy to do whatever they can to make that happen
trying too hard to assist as many people as they can they tend to over promise and spread
themselves too thin infjs are the kind of people who would pull all-nighters for other people's
work four you can be too clingy and sensitive when an infj commits to a friendship they really
go all the way once your lucky self is part of the small exclusive group they call their friends they
offer all kinds of support to you and are there to listen and help you with all of your problems
this makes them appear a bit too clingy for some people they share everything and expect
you to do the same this is because they're genuinely interested in the other person
but it can be a bit too much for some people this is a turn off for many and doesn't give a good
impression of the infj in the eyes of some people and they grow distant from them they also take
everything you say to heart so they appear very sensitive as they care about your opinion of them
this can make them sensitive to a lot of things that are said about them even as jokes they
might take friendly banter seriously and get hurt by what was said as an obvious joke 5.
you keep zoning out getting lost in their own world is nothing new for infjs but it can be
an issue when it keeps happening in the middle of conversations they can randomly zone out at
any time anywhere although this is completely normal for them it does have the chance to
make their friends think that they are being too boring and have lost the infj's interest
zoning out is also annoying when they're trying to focus on a story your friend is telling or an
important decision it's hard to keep up with all the context and inside jokes of your friend group
when you're not mentally present a lot of the time this can make infjs feel excluded they think
they're not as close as the rest of the group are to each other and they blame themselves for it
six you feel drained by others emotions infjs can absorb energies they match the energies
of the people they're with if the people around them are happy they reciprocate
the feelings and feel joy too if they're in a depressing environment they feel upset as well
sometimes they get overwhelmed by these feelings and need to take some time off to process them
and return to their normal emotional state they withdraw for a while during this time they need
their space from friends and family too this is normal for infjs but for other people this act can
appear as if the infj is no longer available for them and they've been left to fend for themselves
make no mistake as soon as they get back to normal they'll be as supportive and loving as ever they
just need to recharge from time to time 7. you don't enjoy being spontaneous with their tendency
to plan everything infjs find it hard when they have to be spontaneous with their friends
they prefer everything to be laid out weeks in advance in order to mentally prepare themselves
for the day they aren't known for spontaneity and decisions made on the spot therefore they
can feel quite overwhelmed when they're expected to go along with a plan that is made seconds ago
they can get anxious and uncomfortable in such situations and can enjoy themselves to
the fullest as they're preoccupied with their thoughts they can even overthink simple plants
as they like to be prepared and in control rather than be at the mercy of circumstances
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