﻿It's time to reconsider your relationship if your spouse takes you for granted,
doesn't pay attention to you, or spends time with you.
Sometimes men need a harsh reminder, and in this video we are going to share with you
some advice on how you can make him worry he is going to lose you.
So, how can you get a guy to notice he's losing you? Everything appears
to be extremely exciting at first, but as time passes, your partner may cease appreciating you
for what you do for him. As a result, you'll feel that he's not as interested in you as he once was.
On the other hand, relationships are built on mutual understanding and equal cooperation.
However, if you are the only one putting up all of the work in your relationship, it is time to
consider all of these factors. Here are 15 helpful hints to help him understand he's losing you.
1. Inform him that you are willing to leave
It is preferable to end the relationship if your spouse refuses to commit.
First, talk to him and figure out what's going on in his head. Sticking with him if
he is undecided about the relationship's future can only lead to disappointment.
Tell him how you see the two of you working together. If he sounds distant, it suggests
he's not paying attention, and you're not on the same page. If that's the situation, tell him that
you're not willing to stay in the relationship any longer and that you're ready to move on.
This will prevent you from disappointment and alert him that you are losing interest in him.
2. Don't Let Him Take Your Hard Work Away In Vain It's much easier said than done! To put this into
practice, you'll need all of your inner power when you notice that he is taking you for
granted; back away from him. People are frequently unaware of the implications of their actions.
Your spouse, too, must see that his behavior may be harming you.
Communication should be kept to a bare minimum. Allow him time to reflect on you and realize
that love and respect are not one-way streets. If that's what it takes to get his attention,
don't call him or respond to his SMS. Going in the shadows for a while can enable him to overcome his
preconceived notions about you and come forward to invest time and effort in the relationship.
3. Make Yourself a Priority Self-care isn't about being selfish; it's about
meeting your needs. Furthermore, you know how to look after others when you look after yourself.
So, if you don't feel that your boyfriend is reciprocating your love in the same way,
reduce your efforts and focus on yourself. It's acceptable if you're madly in love with a
person, but he should also know how to treat you with respect. Stop putting forth so much effort
to get him to adore you as you do. 4. Remind him that he isn't the
only one who can help you. You may be together, but it does
not obligate you to him. Love is a sensation that should be shared rather than forced.
Stop waiting for his attention if he makes you feel unwanted. Speak out about your feelings and
let him know that you are not obligated to him. Allow yourself to move on. Change your access
codes and prevent him from accessing your belongings.
This will give him a feeling of realization about what life would be like without you.
5. Keep Yourself Involved Your boyfriend may be underestimating you
if he believes he is the center of your universe, and you can't imagine your existence without him.
He could assume you're leaving if you cease giving him that idea.
There are several significant events in your life. Pursue your passions and participate in things you
enjoy to make yourself joyful every day. 6. Change Your Look
Give your partner a pleasant surprise by assuming he knows you well.
Remove the label that says you are something and can't change into something else.
A new haircut, a new wearing style, or a piercing might all be part of your new appearance.
Before you question him or give him the specifics, get it done. That would eliminate the element of
surprise and negate the aim of demonstrating to him that you can make decisions on your own.
7. Give Yourself a Break From Replying How do you feel when he doesn't pick up your
calls or doesn't react to your texts for hours? Isn't that when you start to be concerned? He may,
however, perceive you as clinging. Take a break from texting and answering if this is the case.
We're not asking you to ignore him, but you could get caught up in your job and forget to
check your phone for a while. Isn't it possible that this may happen? (It's a wink! it's a wink!)
This may prompt him to recognise that he must go above and beyond to gain your attention.
8. Don't Make An Effort To Please Him It's OK to attempt to make your boyfriend feel
unique, but it's not acceptable to please him. This might give him the impression that you are
all over him without him having to do anything. When you break the habit of continuously
satisfying him, he'll notice the differences and enjoy your presence when he notices them.
It's all about not allowing yourself to be taken advantage of.
9. Get Involved With Your Tribe Make sure you don't have any shared
pals with your boyfriend. You may share many things and do a lot of things together,
but hanging out with the same group of pals should not be one of them.
Find your tribe and spend as much time with them as you want. This will show your boyfriend that
you have a life outside of your relationship and that it isn't just focused on him. It's crucial to
establish your personality and show your spouse that you're not reliant on them for company.
10. Be True to Yourself Your boyfriend should not
be in charge of you or your actions. If he doesn't appreciate who you are or how you handle yourself,
it's probably time to reassess whether or not the relationship is worth keeping.
You deserve a partner who doesn't try to persuade you to be someone you're not and instead
encourages you to be yourself. Changing yourself to meet his expectations is the last thing you
should try to convince him of your value. 11. Eliminate His Second Choice
Are you someone who stands in for him when he doesn't have anybody else? Is it true,
for example, that he only comes to you when he is out of pals to chat to or hang out with?
Do you believe that filling the area at such times is a good idea?
Certainly not. This would encourage him to use you whenever it is convenient for him. While you may
want to be there for him out of love, you must quit if he constantly takes you for granted.
12. Demonstrate to him that you are willing to move on.
Use social media to show how much fun you're having without him.
Post images, utilize hashtags or express your sentiments in descriptions, so your boyfriend
understands how you're having fun without him. This isn't anything you're doing to spite someone.
This is a simple activity to demonstrate to your partner that, as much as you like spending time
with him, you can also have fun with others, and that this is why he should value your presence.
13. Reduce Your Inquisitiveness Reduce your enthusiasm for his work,
tales, or concerns. He will notice your lack of interest and pay attention to your requirements
if you do this. He could even attempt to reclaim your interest and attention.
This approach can instantly revitalize your man's attention and make him aware
that you are not someone he can take for granted if you choose the correct person.
14. Remind Him of Who You Used to Be You must remind your partner who you
are if you want him to understand that he will lose you if he takes you for
granted. Demonstrate that you existed long before he came into your life and that you
will continue to exist even if he does not. This will remind him that you are a strong,
mature woman who understands how to take care of herself and stand up for herself.
He may cherish your identity in the relationship once he discovers this. No one wants to lose a
woman who is strong and self-aware. After this revelation, he'll be scared about losing you.
15. Quit talking about the future. If you are a couple who intends to spend the rest
of your life together, you will inevitably make plans and discuss them frequently. However, if
you believe he has begun to take you for granted, it is time for you to make him fear losing you.
Stop talking about your future and see how he reacts when you don't talk about it. If he's the
correct man, he'll initiate a conversation with you about the situation. You may now tell him
that you don't like how he's treating you and that you'd like him to change his attitude toward you.
Love does not have to be a daily battle. It shouldn't seem like you're being taken for
granted, waiting forever, or being alone in a relationship. Love should not be complicated.
There's no purpose in staying in a relationship that makes you feel this way. If you want to
give him one more opportunity before moving on, use the suggestions in this video to let
him understand he's losing you and watch how he reacts. Another great video we recommend watching
is “Is HE Emotionally Cold? do THIS now!” you might just pick up a few new red flags!