Uncle C, back in the office and in this video I'm going to be explaining specifically one
masculine men have five standout traits that totally revamped the way they carry themselves.
Now, if you have these specific traits, not only are women and everybody who comes into
your domain or your interaction is going to notice that you have a certain spark and a
certain ambition and energy about you, but these are also going to be traits that propel
your life forward in every single way, shape and form and when a man really zones in and
structures his whole life around all of these, not only do the stars align and his entire
happiness skyrockets, but women wealth happiness and just really the ability to play life on
his own terms becomes very pushbutton. So stay with me until the very end of this video,
because in the very end with you, I'm going to be sharing a very special link where all
of my students have been learning MBT masculine behavioral therapy to completely revamped
the way they carry themselves in dating when interacting with women, and when making sure
that they're hooked up So there's no pull backs, there's no games, she's not going cold
on you. We have a system that works very, very greatly. Now let's dive in what are these
five traits? Now keep in mind, these are not just five basic traits of all have confidence
or Oh, you know, make sure you're hustling and working and grinding, those all sound
nice, but we have to get a little bit deeper into these and really digest all of this stuff
that goes on because a man's life's very dynamic. And when you can actually interject the correct
amount of energy into the specific areas that you need
it. This is going to rock your world the very
first is stoic stoicism. Okay, the three things that I love that go with stoicism, the ability
to really just stay calm, stay firm, stay mask, and then do not show emotion under hard
situations and precious times, when most people would be skyrocketing in fear and depression.
You hold firm and you understand that you are the one who's rationally in control of
your emotions and not the other way around. The three things that goes along with this
is no art. Doing. You have to stop
explaining yourself in situations when you do things and you cannot always apologize
for what you do. Now you see what this brings out of a man when he breaks these three traits
of stoicism is he starts to interject too much emotional energy, too much feminine energy
into his life. And this right here will start to kill your work ethic, kill your drive and
kill your dedication to the things in life that it's actually going to take to make you
a rock solid, stable man. If a man can master his stoicism, not only do the little things
in life, not completely throw him off center. But women also notice he's like a rock. He's
strong, he's stable. And this isn't a man who has heightened sensitivity when any little
thing goes without his way super important trait to master. If you can understand these
three things, we're not going to be arguing or not going to be apologizing at every single
way, shape and form and we're done explaining ourselves to everybody. We just start to live
our mission. The second point that's extremely important to discuss is no escapism, no more
escapism through certain vices, certain mechanisms to take you away from this reality or this
situation, what you really want to look at is you want to look at the typical man's life.
And you want to say, Okay, what are the typical problems that the typical man has? And you
have to ask yourself, do I want those problems or not? And if you take a look at what mass
majority men do, if you take a look at what mass media culture promotes onto men, well
guess what, fellas, if you do all of those things, you're going to get the mass majority
of those men's results, which is basically zero. And not only that, you're going to be
infested with all of the problems that mass majority of men have. We're talking women
issues, addiction to dirty websites and bad behavior, reliant on alcohol or certain drugs
in order to cope and have confidence. Not only that we're talking credit card debt,
and just no direction and no path in life. These men are broken searching for meaning.
But can't necessarily find it. Now I'm not trying to come off like, I'm so high and mighty
and I have everything figured out in my life. But the best trait that I have that I want
to share with you is just the ability to look at yourself from an outside perspective. Like
if you're right here, imagine you're another person right here and take a look at your
own life to essentially See, hey, am I headed down the path like everybody else? Or am I
going away that strong and diligent for me, if you look at what most men's escapism is,
it's going to be secret synthetic sex. When I say synthetic, it's not normal. It's not
real, to be constantly jerking it on a computer screen. It's not normal to have your cell
phone as your only form of female intimacy. Yet this is what's considered normal. We live
in a culture where it's normal to jerk it to that, but it's abnormal to approach a woman
and convey some level of interest. Look how backwards things are moving. This escapism
leads men to feel shy and insecure about their sexual desires. And now we have a bunch of
men with A bottle of a vino with their door locked at night all by themselves in their
left hand, extremely bad form of escapism. The next is going to be alcohol and drugs.
You see, when men get really locked into this, they may have wild charisma when they're intoxicated,
or they may be able to speak to women or just really convey a message in the world that
says, hey, I'm strong, I'm dominant. I'm alpha, I have it together, when they have these substances
in them. But the problem is these substances is just a mass for a broken man. What this
is really saying is, Hey, I would love to convey myself this way. But the only way I
can convey myself this way is if I have enough courage in me to do it while I'm intoxicated.
The only way I can is if I remove all of the limiting factors that I have with my current
personality. This escapism is often a very hard one to get rid of. Because while the
man would love to remain confident and dominant in his interactions, what tends to happen
is he's now relying on these substances that are man made. So if you look at it, now the
confidence is reliant on a man made substance also sexual fantasies and encounters is reliant
on a synthetic man made encounter and substance. The next is going to be gambling. Okay, if
you notice men who have high addiction to any sort of poker, or blackjack or anything
like that, this is also just a tricky one to get rid of. If you're always thinking you're
going to hit it big, you're reliant on luck, and you're not actually chasing your purpose
and your ambition in the directions where your time could be used. Now the reason for
this is because when you do hit it big gambling, it sends a ridiculous spike of dopamine to
the brain. The problem is, is chasing any sort of business encounter, purpose encounter,
ambition encounter, you have to delay that gratification and delay that dopamine for
so long. It's almost like a chase a hunter a pursuit, what you need to do to really beat
escapism is you have to realize, hey, my current situation needs to completely be altered.
What we need is we need a good current situation so that we we don't necessarily have to make
our current situation false. If you have a desired situation here in a
current situation here, you have to ask yourself, What do you have to do? to actually make real
life possible to live the life you want not necessarily be sitting there,
filling yourself with these false fantasies to try to put a mask on your current situation
if you are suffering. If you are suffering, it's time to dig deep into escape not to enable
the reasons for it. The third is going to be ambition. It's no secret that men who have
passion and drive just get further ahead. Not only is your happiness high, because you
are chasing that ambition, you're building something you care about, you've developed
a skill set, you can even display to the world, but this is going to be a very attractive
trait to women. The reason for it is because these men who are ambitious, relationships
and hooking up and getting with the quickest female counterpart is usually not on the forefront
of their brain. What's on the forefront in their brain is crushing it at their passion,
crushing it at the things that they're driven towards crushing it at the things that they
want to see out of themselves and make the most out of this 50 6070 8090 100 years out
of their life. Because when you understand that you have value on your time, you can
put strict value on your time when you're allowing certain people to have access to
you and when you're not what you now have is you now have will, okay the will to say
no, the will to say no, when people get out of line when they should be in line with the
things that you're doing the will to push through hard times, or the will to not necessarily
put up with the wrong type of people in your life. This is ridiculously key, having strong
masculine ambition. This ties all the way into having these stoic traits. Because the
only way to succeed with this long term is to not be constantly wrapped up in this emotional
state. We have to start making logical rational decisions. How can we move towards the path
of suffering, so that way we can make this current situation better in the long run,
not just put a mask over it. Ambitious men get further ahead and are better with women.
If game is your problem. If you think you need more game, you need more charisma tips.
You need more attraction tips. You need more Hidden hacks, what you really need to do is
you need to actually take a look at your life. Because trying to apply tactics to a man that
just is not ready for it is essentially like trying to put a bandaid on a broken leg, it
is just not going to work fellas, your ambition will keep you going. Your ambition and will
will keep you going even when money's tight, even when times are scarce. Because you now
have developed true self belief. The fourth thing, your word has to actually start to
have meaning. There are so many men that they have YouTube syndrome. They have YouTube syndrome,
and they've had it for years, they watch a video, they get a lot of great information
out of it, they know exactly what to do. And then they just click to a different video
and they keep watching more people talk to them. And then guess what a week rolls by
a month rolls by a year rolls by they are the same person that they were last year.
And now they're filled with all this information and they've still failed to take action for
more than three days at a time and they cannot seek anything out. They're weak and they know
it. They're weak. The problem with these matters that are constant On the fence, they're indecisive
once again. So this is why stoicism is number one, they're trapped in
emotional behavior. They think, oh, maybe I should do
this. Maybe I shouldn't. Maybe this business idea will work. Maybe it won't. Maybe I should
go talk to that really cute girl I have a crush on maybe I shouldn't. Maybe it might
backfire. I'm on the fence. I don't know what to do. Maybe I should watch another influencer
telling me what to do. Maybe I should read another book. You guys want to know why don't
list my book section in any of these videos, even though everyone keeps commenting it specifically
because you don't need any more books. You know what to do? Get out there and start performing
but they can't because they're on the fence. Because what they tell themselves is they
tell themselves too many false yeses. who say today? Yes, I'm going to do that. And
what happens is it doesn't get done. They give themselves false yeses in every single
night when their head hits the pillow. What tends to happen is they don't do anything.
They don't make the list and document they don't make the list in journal. What you need
to start doing fellas is you need to stop wanting shit for free. This is the problem.
The problem is this since men today typically do
not invest in themselves and yes, when I say invest, I mean financially. Let
me explain why. I'm going to actually take some time to really develop this topic. men
think that they can get everything for free. And these are the same men where they comment,
why would you buy a personal trainer? You can go on YouTube and get all of your fitness
advice for free. Why would you purchase a dating coach? You can get all of the dating
tips for free on different channels. Can't you learn everything about yourself? No. Because
you have to understand the one thing with how your brain works with investment. If you
get something for free, your brain, your body, you take it just as that free advice. There's
many mentors I've heard the saying the more they pay, the more they pay attention.
When I was first struggling with business, even though myself as a dedicated driven human
being I got into Groundhog's Day where I would repeat
the same cycle the same structure. The first mentor I ever purchased, it was six grand.
It was a $6,000 decision. I was stoked through it, I told myself, I'm just going
to go all in and invest in this. And what happens is now that I invested, all of a sudden
I had the ability to start making the changes that I need to your ability to invest in people
will directly correlate how far you get into life. And since then, I've purchased countless
and countless and countless mentors, because the fact is that when somebody can give you
advice that saves you time, you now can actually triple down on this ambition because you have
to understand time is limited and time is fixed. All these men who wants shipped for
free here's what happens to you watch another video and you'd never take action. You listen
to more advice, you never take action, you read another book, you never take action and
because of that, you fail. When you decide to invest you decide to pay attention, and
when you pay attention, you decide to take action. The very last thing the fifth most
important trait that masculine men need to have is the ability to protect and to provide.
The reason for this is because women, children and loved ones
all need strong masculine men. tend to lean on. Because the fact is that when shit hits
the fan, oftentimes nobody has anybody to go to. Now Contrary to popular belief, there's
a lot of people that say it's alpha, it's strong, it's the best to only look out for
yourself false. Because your brain knows what is right versus wrong.
There's a reason it feels good when people can depend on
you. There's a reason you feel strong and dominant when you have value to you Do not
let any of these common misbelief stray you away from what is good versus what is evil.
Now, the thing that you have to understand about
providing your money needs to go up. The thing I've
talked about in many of my videos is try your absolute best to bank at least two years of
cash two years of dedicated savings. The reason for this is because one day bad shit will
happen. And nobody's going to be able to actually lean on you. There's going to be one day your
girlfriend might say, Hey, I'm in a car accident. You got to come help me. We need to pay for
these medical bills. Your mom might say Guess what, I got cancer. I need some help. If you
have a child one day, your child might get into a car crash your child might need you
like bad things happen when Just like the world is in this, this this terrible situation
right now, who do people lean on when shit hits the fan they lean on leaders. As soon
as you can develop these five key masculine traits not only will you start to finally
be the man you want to be, it will be easy to take control of your life. If you liked
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