Let's get right into it
and we'll start with number one,
which is basically if we kind of like you
then we're going to share everything
that we can about you
with our girlfriends
with our closest girlfriends anyway.
We will obsess about you,
we will share way too much information
not specific intimate details necessarily
but we will definitely talk about you a lot
and we'll even think about potential future
with you and what that might look like.
So, that's the first tidbit now stay tuned
because some of these are going to get pretty juicy.
Number two,
I’m going to skip number two
because that's a juicy one
let's go to number three
I'll share number two later on in the video
if you stick with me.
Number three,
we evaluate everything you say,
do, post, don't do, don't post, like.
So, we are super hyper vigilant
about paying attention to what
you're doing in the world
when we kind of like you.
So, if you put a like on
Ashley’s photo of her
at the gym or at the beach
we're going to wonder if you like Ashley.
Now, that doesn't mean you should
change your behavior necessarily
it depends on where you are
in the courtship or relationship.
But just know that even though we might
pretend not to be paying attention we are
hyper, hyper paying attention
to whatever you're doing.
Number four,
okay, this one's a little bit juicy
but if a girl has been with a lot of guys,
which is subjective I suppose.
But whatever she thinks
you'll think is a lot of guys.
She's not going to want to share that with you
she's not going to want you to know
that she's been with as many guys
as she maybe has been especially
if that number is something
she can count on her hand
more than once etc, etc.
So, the reality is that
even though with feminism
there's a lot more freedom for women to be open
about sexuality with their bodies
and everything else biologically.
The reality is that men still prefer women
who haven't been as
promiscuous you know.
If you're looking for someone
well, if you want to just hook up you do,
but if you're looking for someone
for a long-term relationship
you prefer a woman who's actually been
a little bit selective,
which shows that she has high standards.
So, definitely if she has gone
through a period of her life
where she's been more promiscuous
she's going to be hesitant to
want to share that with you.
Number five,
along those lines is
she will not want to share with you anything
that might turn you off.
So, she's going to play
her cards pretty close
until she gets to know you better
and she might even
not share some of these things ever
and you'll have to discover them.
So, some of the things that might
turn you off would be
if she's got medical conditions
or she's got mental conditions
or if she's got bad friendships
or has had bad relationships
especially if it's her fault.
If she doesn't have a job
or if she's in debt
or she has a terrible relationship
with her family.
So, anything where you might
negatively judge her
she's going to hold back on
sharing that information with you.
Number six,
now this one's going to be a bit of a surprise
but women don't want you to know that
even though they're they are hypergamous.
We are hypergamous to some degree,
which means that we are attracted to money,
power, status, good looks, intelligence,
the whole you know, Chad Tyrone qualities.
We will compromise on many of those
if you make us happy.
And I’m going to do a separate video
on how to keep a woman happy
without compromising yourself.
So, if you're interested in that
definitely put a comment below
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And as well with this one is that
if you meet her standards,
which aren't necessarily
all those hypergamous things
they could be very specific things.
If you meet her say top five
which you should know about,
which is in my wake up to love program
if you haven't taken that yet
you definitely have to take that.
Well, you don't have to take that
but you'd benefit by taking it for sure.
Anyways, so if you meet her standards,
which might not be what you think they are
then she can be content with you.
Now, the reason why
she doesn't want you to know this
is because she doesn't want you to slack
she doesn't want you to just get
lazy in every area
and not even try.
Okay, next one.
Okay, number seven, you're going to love this one
well, you might not love it
but you're going to appreciate
the information in it.
So, number seven is that women
keep track of points differently than men do
so, for example you plan a romantic dinner,
you buy a new suit,
you get your hair cut,
you put on the cologne she likes,
you pick her up,
you take her to the restaurant,
you make sure that she's seated comfortably,
you even arrange for the restaurant
to create a special dessert for her.
And you take her home there's candles
and you know, you
go the whole nine yards, right.
So, you're thinking dude, dude, dude
I have accumulated
like 9 or 10 points tonight for sure
for every single thing that I did right.
Wrong, unfortunately.
So, for a woman that evening
counts as one point.
Maybe if it's really spectacular
it'll be one really, really strong point
but she counts points differently.
So, that whole evening
is counted as an amazing point
but that doesn't mean you can rob
the piggy bank tomorrow
and start getting lazy
because you think you're ahead of the game.
So, better to know
because then you know.
Okay, number eight
this is especially important
if you're in a long-term relationship.
Women typically require
higher amounts of stimulation
not just physical,
mental, emotional that works
than men do after they're in a relationship.
Then some yes, there are exceptions
but here's the reality of what usually happens.
Once you get comfortable in a relationship
whether you're just dating
or you've been seeing each other for a while
or you're living together or you're married
men slack off.
You're like, you're the hunter
you've got your game
and now you can just sit back chill and relax.
And you forget to continue to do the things
that turned her on in the beginning.
You forget to continue to do the things
that made her happy in the beginning
and that will need to continue to make her happy
now and in the future.
So, you need to keep that in mind
that she doesn't want you to think
that she's higher maintenance
than she is by nagging.
but eventually she will get to nagging.
That reminds me of like a little saying you know,
why women outlive men
because we nag you to death.
Okay, well, anyways
so that's the thing
and it's not that we don't want you to know
that we need higher amounts of stimulation
and variety and all the rest.
But we just don't want to come off
as high maintenance
and really if you have to compare that
men to women in this department
we are kind of high maintenance
but that's across the board
so you're just going to have to get used to that one.
And this is especially important
if you've slacked in an area
that was originally a selling feature for her.
So, here's a typical one that happens is that
I'll go I'll do the reverse actually
because this happens also in the reverse like
so when men slack then women start to slack
you don't get the thing you really want,
which is often physical intimacy.
So, she will sometimes gain weight
maybe you lose a job
and you don't start looking for one again
it's a little bit challenging to do
you know, during the pandemic.
But these are generalities you have to look at
what was a real selling feature
for her at the beginning
and you need to be able to step up
and keep up with that without her asking you.
Because if you don't
and it continues for any length of time
she will start to unconsciously
usually it starts with unconscious wonder
what else is available on the market
if the product that she bought
isn't meeting her needs
if the warranty has run out then
she is going to wonder what else is available.
Be very careful if she starts losing weight,
working out and cuts her hair
yeah, that's for another video as well.
So, that brings us to number nine.
if your warranty is running out
because you're not doing the things
that you used to do that were really
important to her in the relationship
that's when her eye will wander.
She will consider cheating even if it's not conscious
she will look around at what's available
she doesn't want you to know this
she just hopes that
you will actually step up your game
and she will ask you in many different ways
usually by nagging which is ineffective.
But you need to pay attention to that anyways
because even if she can't
communicate effectively with you
you need to pay attention to the signs
that something needs to change
or it's not going to be a happy ending
if you know what I mean.
So, pay attention to her requests
and she may not be requesting something
specifically that she wants
but if she's generally upset
then you kind of need to look at yourself
and say okay, where have I
kind of slacked in the relationship
am I keeping up?
And again I'll do another video
on how to keep a woman happy
so that you can keep your woman happy
and then you'll be happy.
Because then there'll be more happy endings in your world.
Everybody likes a happy ending.
And because she might not even
know what her real needs are
you should watch my
understand women play list
I'll put a link below.
Okay, number 10
and then don't forget we're going to go back
to number two the juicy one.
So, number 10 is
we don't want you to know
or we don't want to have to tell you
we just want you to do this
we want men to seduce us, a men.
We want our man to seduce us,
we want a man who is good at seduction,
we want a man who's had some experience
or who at least seems like
he's had some experience.
Because just like you
we also enjoy physical intimacy
and want to be...
Happy.
Just know that to keep her happy
then it's good for you
to learn the art of seduction.
And the other part of this is that
when you're good at seduction
it gives her permission to be seduced
she can go into her feminine and relax
and allow you to lead
and she trusts that you're going
to lead in the right direction
to your mutual satisfaction and pleasure.
There is a reason why the
50 shades of Grey movie and books
are very popular.
If you look at the theme there
it's basically the dominant male
and that allows her to submit safely.
And this is whether you're in a long-term
or short-term relationship.
Okay, so what was number two?
This leads us to number two.
Number two is no matter how hot
let me give you a bonus tip
on the word hot at the end here.
But no matter how hot beautiful
sexy, attractive a woman is,
almost all women are insecure
about their bodies
or particular parts of their bodies
or particular intimate parts of their bodies.
So, definitely once you get
physically intimate with a woman
you want to make her feel secure
and comfortable being
in her birthday suit with you
by complimenting specific
parts of her body that you like.
And I can't go into how to do that
because I'll get punished here on YouTube.
But it's important to know that
you want to make sure
that she feels comfortable.
And definitely don't forget to get
my wake up to love program
where you will learn more about
how to be your best self that works for you
but that also works for women.
I'll put a link below.
Now, here's my little extra tip
on just the tip on the word hot.
More women prefer to be
called beautiful than hot
when you were in the courting stage
or sexy, sexy is okay too.
But if you go to hot,
hot is more objectifying
and definitely overtly sexual
hot means you're turned on,
which is great once you've already
got to that point with her.
But if you haven't then
it feels less intimate emotionally
than if you call her beautiful
or if you call her even sexy.
If she's wearing something particularly sexy,
sexy is great.
Unless she's under 25 or very insecure
then she's going to love the word hot.
But if she's pretty secure about herself
you're better off to wait to use hot
and this is individual.
So, you want to ask her about this word.
Personally, I don't like it at all
but if you're not sure use sexy.
And then you can even ask her
gosh! You look hot or whatever
but do you prefer sexy like...
So, just ask her once you get to that stage.
But if you use beautiful or sexy especially beautiful
almost all women want to be called beautiful.
If they're naked
they definitely want to be called beautiful.
So, there you go those are the 10 secrets
women don't want men to know about us.
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