Heya playas, I wanna let you know that this Thursday night I'm gonna have my second ever
Google+ Hangout event dedicated to Valentine's Day.
But this episode today is all about how to get a girl's phone number.
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I'm gonna sharing a bunch of tips on Valentine's Day and answering a ton of your questions
that you guys send to me.
Back to the topic though, one of the first steps before asking a girl out is to build
some kind of rapport or connection with her which you can do over the phone.
Before you start texting or talking to her, you may actually need to get her phone number
first so this is how you do it.
In today's day and age everyone is constantly on their phones so with a million different
ways to contact a girl, you can do it through Facebook or Instagram or Kik or Snapchat,
why get her phone number?
I would say that a phone number actually holds more value than all those social media profiles
because a phone number is kept more private from everyone else.
It's easy to message someone on Facebook or take a picture on Snapchat but to sit down
and actually talk to someone requires a lot more time than we're used to investing.
So if you can get a girl to dedicate a portion of time talking on the phone that holds so
much more weight than everything else.
A big rookie mistake that a lot of guys make is starting the conversation off asking for
the girls phone number.
The problem with this is not only does it make you seem nervous, but it also makes it
seem like you're not that interested in her you're just interested in the number.
Once you've established that connection with the girl, then you can ask for her number.
And as far as I see it, there are 3 basic ways to say it.
There is the safe way to do it where you don't put too much on the line.
Hey I was just wondering if I can get your number, and if you're free maybe we can hang
out sometime?"
The normal way where there's confidence in your voice but you're not to overbearing.
You know you seem like a really cool person, let me get your number so we can hang out
some time.
And a more aggressive way, where you're not asking you're telling her to do it.
That's pretty awesome, I gotta hang out with you sometime.
Tell you what, put your number in my phone right now, do it.
How you choose to phrase the line it is entirely up to your personality type.
Don't feel inclined to say it in a certain way or do something that is out of your character.
One thing you should always do is have your phone directly in front so that she can immediately
input the number as soon as you say it.
The key here is to minimize the amount of work involved.
If says yes you don't want to then scramble for your phone and wait for everything to
open up and then put it in front of her because you give her those few moments of hesitation
and anxiety to think, maybe I shouldn't give this guy my number.
Now if you want to have fun with asking for her number, here are two little techniques
that I've picked up over the years.
Carry around a notepad and pen with you and when the time is right, draw 10 blank lines
on paper with parenthesis and a dash in the middle as if you were going to fill in a phone
number there.
Hand it over to her and tell her to fill it out.
If she asks you what it is, just tell her "You're a smart girl.
You could figure it out."
The second technique is a little bit more strategical, start telling her a story and
right before you get to the end, stop.
From there tell her, "hey look I gotta go but tell you what give me your phone number
and I'll call you up later and tell you what happened.
The main reason why this works is because people hate to be left in antici.....
pation.
So they go along with it.
What do you guys think though, out of all these methods of asking a girl for her number
which one seems to resonate the best with you?
Leave your comments below so we can talk about it.
And just like opening a conversation, never end a conversation right after asking for
her number.
It makes you look desperate and it make her feel anxious for giving it to you in the first
place.
So now that you have her number, when is the perfect time to call her?
That's gonna be another video.
As always guys, love and peace.
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