Matt: Hey Siri, what's a good pick-up line? Siri: "My love for you is a monotonically
increasing unbounded function" Matt: So maybe Siri doesn't have the best answer for
this one... But my name is Matt Artisan from The Attractive Man and this is my
three best pick-up lines that work nearly every time.
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right now because, I said so. One time I walked up to the hottest girl
in the bar and I said: "Hey do you like squirrels? Because I'm gonna nut in your
hole." Yeah... pretty bad, pretty much the worst pick-up line you can think of. I
only did it because it was a dare. But the woman responded with: "I love
squirrels!" And so I asked, "But why didn't you slap me or throw your drink at me?"
"Because I can see you're just having fun!" Now please don't use that line! But this
was a big "Aha!" moment for me. If you have a fun energy, a positive vibe, and you're
feeling great about yourself, then almost anything can work. Now here are my three
favorite lines that I think worked the best. If you're afraid of getting
rejected before you approach, simply say this: "Hi, you just seem really fun and
friendly so I thought I'd come over and say hi." This may seem like nothing, but it
uses a psychological principle called "Planting and identity" basically, you're
putting into her mind that you perceive her as being friendly, therefore she's
more likely to actually BE friendly. The chances that she gives you a bad
reaction and acts rude after you tell her that she seems friendly is pretty
slim. I mean sure, it can happen. But why would you even want to continue talking
to a girl like that anyway? "I noticed that you and I are like, the hottest
people in this entire place. So I figured I should at least come say hi." This works
great in a bar or club, because it's fun, flirty, it shows your interest, and it
creates an "Us-versus-Them" frame. Where you and her are the coolest, hottest
people in the club. And how can any girl say no to that scenario? "Hey real quick
this is totally random, but I just saw you in the distance and I thought you
were absolutely stunning. I had to at least say hi." This works great during the
daytime because women are often busy and you're cutting right to the chase
there's no... you know, there's no fluff, you're being genuine, and you're using
the "Law of reciprocity." Because you're likely to make her feel good with such a
bold and genuine compliment that she'll want to reciprocate, and give you
few seconds of her time, and listen to hear whatever you have to say next.
Shannon: Usually the ones that get me the best and the quickest are ones that made me
laugh. Even if I'm not going to take you home with me at night, maybe just sitting
and having a drink, or just thinking, having a conversation is always nice. So I
say - make them laugh! Just don't come across as pushy. You're not entitled to
conversation just because you walk up to us, you want to talk to us, we don't have
to talk to you. So just be nice and be yourself. Matt: All these openers just buy you
a few seconds of time, what really is important is what comes after the opener.
That's why I created a free Conversation Cheat Sheet where I break down exactly
what to say after hello to make her want you. You get my top conversation starters
for any situation. Simple techniques to never run out of things to say. Simple
ways to escalate the interaction and more. Download it right now because
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