Discouragement is one of the arch enemies of single people everywhere for
one simple reason you don't have anyone to bring perspective but I do and so
this video I want to share with you four secrets to overcome discouragement and
dating hi I'm Jaki Sabourin for those of you don't know me I'm an executive love
coach and CEO of a company called engaged in any age and we help women
deliberately date and consciously create the man of their dreams I met and
married my own soulmate match husband Michael after being single for eight
years and I'm still on the honeymoon and passionate about helping you get engaged
at any age let's jump right into the first secret to help you overcome
discouragement in dating and the first one is validation validation what does
that really mean Jackie well validation is so important especially when you're
on this journey to find your soulmate because it's easy to become discouraged
and disappointed in this process but when we validate give value to your
feelings they it's easier to release this feelings and energy of
discouragement and get back into balance so when you give value to how you're
feeling what you do is you you don't allow your mind to repress minimize or
deny all these feelings that you have it's normal natural and necessary for
you to feel and release any emotions that you have so that you can get back
into balance because remember whatever you ever you think about expands and so
if you're this energy of discouragement if you're stuck in that really is a
negative heavy energy and so the faster you move out of that place this
energetic place the better and the fastest way you can do it this first
secret is by validation giving value to your feelings that is normal that you're
feeling discouragement anybody's going through it you're going through we feel
exactly the same way so it's really showing up as your own best friend when
you're feeling this discouragement and then honoring up that part of you that
is feeling discouraged and then releasing the the emotion behind it so
you can get back into balance and get back out there
so the second secret I want to share with you is I want you to hold your
vision and so what do I mean by that hold your vision
I know that you have a vision by your soulmate vision of what you want and
it's so important for you to reconnect to what you want in your soulmate vision
because what you want and even more importantly perhaps is why you want it
really helps to keep you connected to your journey when things get challenging
you really need to know why you want what you want why do you want to be
married why do you want to be any committed relationships you really need
to check in with that because this will carry you over the difficult times of
challenges and this energy of discouragement much easier when you keep
reconnecting to your vision right of what you want and why you want it that's
so important it's going to be intimate to you and unique as you are so make
sure that you write out your what and your why and that'll be your soul mate
vision it's really gonna really help you to stay the course and things get
challenging you get into that negative energy of discouragement so just let me
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alright let's go into the third secret that will help you move through the
energy of discouragement and that's a plan you need to have a plan you know
you really need to be honest with yourself are you doing everything you
possibly can to make your dreams come true and so it's so easy to get
discouraged with dating or maybe a relationship that didn't work out and
you find yourself single again but you need to have a plan and and you need to
have a plan of where you're gonna meet men in real life if you're not online
dating need to have a plan about online dating you need to have a good strategy
when you need to see through the the trials and errors that you go through
what's working and what isn't and you need to constantly revise this into you
until you start to connect and you start to get some flow in your dating life so
you need to have a plan so that you can execute it and come up with a really
good strategy for you and I know if you watch it on my videos you're able to do
that because I cover all of this and so many of my videos and so the the last
secret that I want to share with you to overcome this the challenge of
discouragement and dating is to count your blessings I know this sounds like
it's like a you know you probably hear that a lot right count your blessings
but I can't tell you how wonderful it is and how good it feels right because
feeling good is the goal when you feel good you can create anything in your
life when you don't feel good that's when you stop everything from coming to
you and the fastest way to get in alignment and feel good is to count your
blessings start to list off the 90% of your life that is working or 80% of
every life is working in the people in your life you have to feel grateful for
your job your house your car your clothes we're so blessed in this country
to to live in a place where we have so many opportunities at every turn and the
only reason we we stop ourselves from taking those those opportunities and
running with it is our fears and this energy of discouragement so really make
a list of all the things you're grateful for and I promise you very soon you're
going to realize how what a wonderful life you have and that from that place
that place that's where you want to attract a man from that place of energy
rich you have an energy rich vibration and it's so much easier to manifest what
you want in a much faster way if you are in this positivity in this in this
energy rich place in your life so ladies I want to share with you something that
I know it's gonna help you it's my soul mate assessment so all you have to do is
go to soul mate iq.com and take a quick quiz and my quiz is designed to help you
to discover what frequency your vibrating net and how fast you are how
close you are to attracting your soulmate and it will help you fast-track
your ability to manifest your soulmate because I'm gonna give you the frequency
you're vibrating at and a an assessment as well as the feminine exercise is
gonna help you shift further into alignment because information is power
knowledge is power but taking action on that knowledge is gonna create
empowerment so taking my soul mate assessment at soul mate IQ calm is going
to help you to take action so that you can feel
better faster get further into alignment and fast-track your ability to attract
your soul mates I hope this was helpful and just know I'm sending you all so
much love today