We've been reading more and more headlines about Harry's intention of going to the UK
for Lilibet's christening.
And this looks a lot like Meghan looking to regain notoriety by gaslighting the royal
family once again.
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We've seen enough from Harry and Meghan and what they are capable of doing just to stay
relevant.
And I think most people is already tired of them.
I'd love to drop them as video topics, but their patterns are too simmilar to those of
narcissists when they want to twist someone's arm metaphorically.
You might already be aware that narcissists use emotional triggers, especially to make
people feel guilty and force them into doing 'the right thing'
And of course, 'the right thing' is what the narcissist actually wants.
But how can someone gaslight an entire family, let alone the British royal family?
Hint: you take them one by one.
I know that it looks like I'm giving The Harkles too much credit sometimes.
But hey, Meghan went from being a b-list actress to marry into the Royal Family, which is no
easy feat, and Harry...
well, he knows how to... ride horses, I guess.
But the problem is that there's a myth about narcissists, in the sense that they are portrayed
in popular culture as super intelligent, cold and calculating, and of course, charming.
Just a reminder: those are the traits of psychopathic narcissists.
People that were born that way.
But the other kind are the sociopathic narcissists, that can be a total mess in any behavior aspect
that you can imagine.
Including making no sense in public statements that can be easily disproven.
So, well.
Back to Harry and Meghan.
It's already known that the Home Office of the UK has stated again that they are not
going to back down into their denial of Harry paying for his police security if he brings
Meghan and the kids to London.
And if you want to understand why Harry just cannot pay for state security, you can check
my other video on this issue.
But then, there are the allegations that Charles has been offering Harry to stay with him in
the case of a trip home.
I can understand why Charles is making such an offering.
Because it must be the Royal Family's intention that all these frictions with the Harkles
are solved in any way possible, because, well, the world is going through so many relevant
things lately to be invested in the whining of these two.
And please take note of this point, because it's going to be relevant later on.
So, Charles offering them to stay with him does not solve the "I want to pay for the
police security for my family" issue, but at least they would be safe enough while staying
with him.
If you combine that, with Harry paying for private security, as any celebrity in his
right mind would do, then it's a good deal.
Anyway, I don't think Harry, much less Meghan, would want to hang out with the commoners.
But no.
It so happens that Harry and Meghan would have declined the offer.
And I feel exactly the same like you: Who is pushing all these narratives out there?
because OK, nothing of that is official, nothing comes from the sources themselves.
But in these spheres, what you see in the headlines has a big chance of being a Public
Relations stunt.
That someone pays a reporter or a royal commentator to just become a mouthpiece to plant the seed
of something that may or may not have happened.
Exactly the same way the seeds of William's supposed cheating with Rose Hanbury were planted.
And I have to make a video about that topic.
What most people don't realize is that this is the exact same pattern of triangulation
of narcissists.
Triangulation is when a manipulative person brings a third party to a relationship in
order to remain in control.
This third person is brought in to create discord, confusion, jealousy or any other
kind of conflict that could give the narcissist the upper hand, while the victim struggles
to remain sane in circumstances that are anything but fair to them.
So, in this case the Montecito Narcissists do not bring a third person per se, but engage
a third party that is public opinion.
Again, any public person usually wants to use public opinion on their favor, but if
you haven't built anything to show to the world, then... you're only left with the option
to smear others so, at least you get the attention of the world as a victim.
And attention is the gasoline of the narcissist.
What is called supply.
But in some cases you can capitalize people's attention.
Well, if Kim Kardashian could sell emojis with her face, then anything's possible.
That was really sad about Oprah's interview, and a missed opportunity.
Because two of the most popular memes of 2021 were from that trainwreck, but in all irony,
they were from Oprah's performance.
I think Oprah should sell them as NFTs.
But again, if all this is about Harry's interactions with his family, what does Meghan have to
do with it?
And that's my question, in fact.
Harry claims that he wants Lilibeth to have a 'royal christening'.
I mean, why would Meghan care that her daughter get a 'royal christening'? seriously, can
you make any sense of that?
because I can't, besides trying really hard to make another shot at friction with the
royal family just to gain notoriety.
If Meghan was treated so bad and she wanted nothing to do with them, then why would Harry
be requesting this, if it wasn't her explicitly pushing for it?
And this is the perfect moment to do it, because just recently we knew that the decision to
strip Prince Andrew from all his military titles and charities was made mainly between
the Queen and Prince William.
Well, Prince Charles is already the hardest working royal, with Princess Anne being close
behind, so we can only guess the Queen is delegating more and more responsibilities
on William, including and upcoming trip to Dubai.
This is how the Montecito Duo can keep making the public opinion believe that the royal
family are heartless, including the Queen, Prince Charles, and now William, too.
The Harkles know that the only way to be truly relevant in this world is to actually do something.
So many options!
have a job, build something, dedicate your time to something constructive, but no.
They have to stir the pot because their so called mental health depends on the number
of headlines written about them.
And don't tell me that Harry couldn't just contact his father, or his grandmother, or
his brother directly to talk about these matters.
Well, there are claims that William is not picking up Harry's calls, but hey, Harry,
have you heard about voice mail?
you leave a message.
With your voice.
After the tone.
And we already know that Catherine is a great peacemaker and would not think twice before
suggesting William that he should, at the very least, consider picking up his brother's
calls.
After all, she broke the ice in Prince Philip's funeral and encouraged William to go to Diana's
statue unveiling along with Harry.
So there is no reason for these matters not to be discussed and resolved in private.
The only reason they reach the headlines is because interested parties want them to be
highlighted in some way.
If you try to guess who those 'interested parties' are, well... you don't have to look
much further than the ones that crave those headlines with their morning coffee.
The value of understanding these dynamics is that they help us decipher patterns used
by narcissists when manipulating people.
In this case, it's a triangulation, where they include a third party, which can be another
person or the public opinion, so the victim or the attacked party is cornered into a no-win
situation.
And I've said it many times.
If you haven't built anything, if there is no substance behind what you do, then you
absolutely don't care if you're enmeshed into that 'no win' situation.
After all, you have nothing to lose because you have built, literally, nothing.
It will always be critical to spot these kind of behaviors before they put you into that
corner, so you can tell when it's time to just end those relationships and leave them
for good.
I'm sure this will not be the last time we'll have an example like this in the royals and
non royals drama.
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