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. >> DR.
. >> DR. OF LOVE CHELLEY McNEIL.
PEOPLE LOVE TO DISH OUT
RELATIONSHIP ADVICE BUT
ACTUALLY YOU HAVE THE WORDS OF
WISDOM CAN BE EASIER SAID THAN
DONE.
DONE.
DONE. THAT'S WHERE THE GROUP RIGHT
HERE BY GROUP I MEAN MYSELF AND
THE MAN SITTING NEXT TO ME.
LOVE DOCTORS WE COME IN
ANSWERING YOUR BURNING VIEWER
QUESTIONS.
QUESTIONS. AND CHESLEY LET'S DOIIVE N HOW
WAS YOUR BIRTHDAY.
>> IT WAS GOOD I DIDN'T DO A
THING.
THING.
THING. WATCHED MY EAGLES LOSE TO THE
FALCONS.
FALCONS.
FALCONS. >> OH.
>> OH.
>> OH. >>
>> OH. >> WOW.
>> WOW.
>> WOW. SORRY THAT'S BAD.
LET'S FORGET ABOUT THAT.
LET'S DO WHAT YOU DO BEST
DISHING OUT LOVE ADVICE.
FIRST QUESTION I'VE BEEN
MARRIED FOR A YEAR AND WHILE
THERE'S LOT TO BE GRATEFUL FOR
I AM STRUGGLING WITH MY
HUSBAND'S PARTYING I THOUGHT
GETTING MARRIED WOULD SETTLE
HIM DOWN BUT SEES HE HAS A
PARTY EVERY NIGHT.
TALKED TO HIM ABOUT IT AND HOW
I WANTED TO BE ON INVOLVED DAD
BUT HE SAYS HE IS A
ASSOCIATESSIZE AND HAVE I MADE
A HUGE MISTAKE HOW LONG DO I
GIVE IT BEFORE CALLING IT
QUITS?
QUITS?
QUITS? >>
QUITS? >> OKAY.
>> OKAY.
>> OKAY. THIS IS INTERESTING WE DON'T
KNOW HOW LONG THEY DATED.
>> RIGHT.
>> RIGHT.
>> RIGHT. >> BECAUSE THIS GUY JUST DIDN'T
START THIS THING.
>> RIGHT.
>> RIGHT.
>> RIGHT. PROBABLY MET HIM AT A SOCIAL
EVENT.
EVENT.
EVENT. AND BECAUSE YOU GOT MARRIED YOU
EXPECTED HIM TO CHANGE?
THAT SOUND LIKE THEY HE HADN'T
TALKED ABOUT IT.
>> RIGHT.
>> RIGHT.
>> RIGHT. >> SHE DIDN'T TELL HIM SHE HAD
THREE WHEN WE GOT MARRIED WE
SETTLE IN AND TURN ON TV AND.
>> YEAH WE WOULD.
>> AND POPCORN AND ENJOY EACH
OTHER'S COMPANY FOR THE REST OF
OUR LIVES.
OUR LIVES. DIDN'T TALK ABOUT THAT.
>> NO SHE DIDN'T.
>> HE WENT IN ON HE CAN SPECKS
AND SHE HAD ANOTHER.
>> ANOTHER QUESTION I WANT HER
TO CONSIDER IS ARE THOSE TRULY
LIKE WHAT IF THE MAN WORKS IN
PUBLIC RELATIONS OR HAS A JOB
WHERE HE IS ENTERTAINING AND
HAS TO BE OUT.
IF THAT'S THE CASE, AGAIN, YOU
KNEW WHEN YOU TARTED TO DATE
HIM BUT PERHAPS THERE'S A WAY
TO MAKE THE TIME THAT HE IS NOT
AT EVENTS MORE YOUR QUALITY
TIME WHATEVER THAT MEANS.
NO OTHER COUPLES JUST YOU.
IF HE DOESN'T HAVE, YOU KNOW A.
JOB WHERE HE HAS TO DO THESE
THINGS AND HE IS CHOOSING TO DO
THEM, I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO TELL
YOU.
YOU.
YOU. YOU
YOU. YOU HAVE TO HAVE A LONG TALK
WITH HIM AND SAY, I LOVE YOU,
BUT THIS IS WHAT I EXPECTED.
AND.
AND.
AND. >>
AND. >> MAYBE HE SAID THIS IS WHO I
AM SO HE IS COMING CLEAN.
THIS IS WHO I AM AND THIS IS
WHAT I AM GOING TO DO.
SHE HAS TO MAKE UP HER MIND.
THINK IT'S MORE TALKING TO DO
BUT SHE HAS TO MAKE UP HER MIND
THIS IS NOT WHAT I.
>> RIGHT.
>> RIGHT.
>> RIGHT. >> I BARGAINED FOR.
>> AND FIRST OF ALL YOU'VE BEEN
MARRIED YEAR.
MARRIED YEAR. DON'T CALL IT QUITS JUST YET.
AND BY THE WAY, I FOUND THE
FIRST YEAR OF MARRIAGE TOUGH
YOU KNOW.
YOU KNOW.
YOU KNOW. >> IT'S A ADJUSTMENT.
>> A LOT OF ADJUSTMENT.
GIVE IT A MINUTE.
AND BUT REALLY, YOU NEED TO
HAVE -- WHY YOU LAUGHING.
>> NOTHING.
>> NOTHING. >> YOU NEED TO HAVE.
>> WHAT?
>> WHAT?
>> WHAT? >> NOTHING.
>> NOTHING. >> YOU GOING TO TEXT, IT'S
ADJUSTMENT YOU ARE LIKE OH MY
GOSH HELLO, HUSBAND AND WIFE.
>> YOU ARE THERE AND THEY ARE
RIGHT THERE.
RIGHT THERE. AND THEY ARE GOING TO BE RIGHT
THERE.
THERE.
THERE. >>
THERE. >> I WANT YOU TO HAVE THAT
DISCUSSION.
DISCUSSION. DON'T GIVE UP JUST YET BUT TRY
A GET HIM TO SEE THINGS FROM
YOUR PERSPECTIVE AND YOU NEED
TO AS WELL.
AND SEE HOW YOU FIND COMMON
GROUND.
GROUND.
GROUND. GOOD LUCK.
GOOD LUCK. SO MUCH ALL RIGHT.
OKAY.
OKAY.
OKAY. MY
OKAY. MY LONG TIME CRUSH JUST BROKE
UP WITH HIS GIRLFRIEND O. MY
AND I HAVE BEEN COMFORTING HIM
A LOT LATELY.
WE GOTTEN REALLY CLOSE FROM IT
ALL.
ALL.
ALL. AND
ALL. AND THE OTHER DAY HE FINALLY
KISSED ME.
KISSED ME. I AM THRILLED BUT PART OF ME
WONDERS IF HE LIKES ME OR IF
AID REBOUND.
AID REBOUND. HOW CAN I KNOW FOR SURE THAT HE
IS OVER THE FACT AND INTERESTED
IN PURSUING ME.
>> LET ME LOOK AT SOME DETAILS
HERE.
HERE.
HERE. JUST BROKE UP WITH THE
GIRLFRIEND.
GIRLFRIEND. >> YES.
>> YES.
>> YES. >> HURT LONG TIME CRUSH TONIGHT
SAY HOW LONG HE WAS WITH THE
GIRLFRIEND.
GIRLFRIEND. >> NO.
>> NO.
>> NO. >>
>> NO. >> WHAT?
>> WHAT?
>> WHAT? >> TIME.
>> TIME.
>> TIME. TIME IS THE ONLY ANSWER.
THAT'S THE ONLY WAY SHE WILL BE
ABLE TO SEE IF IT'S REAL OR
NOT.
NOT.
NOT. >>
NOT. >> GOT IT.
>> GIVE HIM SOMETIME.
OF COURSE HE IS REBOUNDING.
>> YEAH.
>> YEAH.
>> YEAH. >> AND SHE IS CATCHING HIM AS
HE FALLS THERE TO CATCH THE
REBOUND.
REBOUND.
REBOUND. MY LONG TIME CRUSH, TOO, YEAH.
MAYBE HE KISSED ME OTHERS, MAN.
THIS IS GOING SOMEWHERE.
NOT.
NOT.
NOT. >>
NOT. >> SLOW DOWN.
>> YEAH.
>> YEAH.
>> YEAH. >> SLOW DOWN.
>> PUMP YOUR BRAKES.
>> YEAH.
>> YEAH.
>> YEAH. OKAY, MICHELLE.
OKAY, MICHELLE. WE HAD TO WRAP.
>> RIGHT MICHELLE.
>> I SAIDGET IT TOGETHER I
DIDN'T MEANTIME IN THE SEGMENT.
>> I WILL SAY IT DEPENDS MAYBE
IF THE PERSON IS OLDER, IT
DOESN'T HAVE TO BE IT'S A
REBOUND.
REBOUND.
REBOUND. MAYBE IT COULD BE LIKE WHERE HE
IS FINALLY SEWING YOU WITH NEW
EYES.
EYES.
EYES. BUT, IF AT THE END OF THE DAY I
HAVE TO AGREE AND I WILL HAVE
TO AGREE IN THAT YOU KNOW,
DON'T GO RUSHING INTO ANYTHING.
BY THE WAY, YOU STILL KEEP YOUR
OPTION OPEN I AM SORRY I KNOW
YOU HAVE A CRUSH BUT YOU KEEP
OP EGGS IN THE BASKET OF YOURS.
>> I DON'T CONDONE THAT.
DON'T CONDONE IT.
>> KEEPING HER OPTION OPENED.
>> KEEPING EGGS IN THE BASKET
KEEPING DUDE OVER HERE.
>> I AM NOT SAYING.
>> KEEP.
>> KEEP.
>> KEEP. >> I AM NOT SAYING OKAY I KNEW
WE WOULD FIGHT BUT I AM NOT
SAYING KEEP YOUR DUDE I
MEANKEEP YOUR HEART OPEN TO
EXPLORE AND FIND LOVE WHEREVER
IT MAY TAKE YOU.
>> PURSUE YOUR PASSION YOUNG
LEADY.
LEADY.
LEADY. PR
LEADY. PR SUE YOUR PASSION.
BUT YOU ARE ALL INTO IT.
BUT YOU ARE ALL INTO IT.
>> WHERE'S MIMI I SWORE I HEARD
HER LAUGHTER FROM WAY OVER HERE
BECAUSE SHE SAYS KEEP A DOZEN
EGGS IN THAT BASKET.
>> OKAY.
>> OKAY.
>> OKAY. >> THERE YOU GO.
>> IF YOU HAVE A QUESTION FOR
THE LOVE DOCTORS WE WANT TO
HEAR FROM YOU.
KEEP WE KEEP IT ANONYMOUS OR WE
WILL BLAST IT IF YOU WANT.
>> YEAH, PETE.
>> FOR CHANCE TO BE FEATURED
HERE I DIDN'T MEAN I WANT HER
TO BE LIKE DATING MAMA I WANT
HER TO BE OPENED TO.
>> I WANT TO MAKE IT CLEAR.
WANT TO MAKE IT CLEAR DON'T
CONDON'T