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it's okay it's okay to fail
it's okay because failure ain't that
until you
give up failure is growth
you know as long as you look at failure
as a milestone of growth and what did
you learn from it and how did you move
forward from that
that to me is growth it's not failure
the last thing i will ever do
is fake perfection i want to keep making
mistakes all my life because i know i'm
working hard when i do that
failure is a learning lesson we need to
reframe
our belief about failure reframe it
and put a different story behind it and
watch it empower you
and stop and to stop freezing you up
because that's what failure does when
you look at yourself as a failure
you're frozen you know you can't allow
it to freeze you up
and with that belief that failure means
that you're nothing you're nobody you
can't make it you can't do it
it prevents you from moving on it
prevents you from moving on and
that's why i had to reframe this whole
word failure and i realized that
you're not a failure okay you didn't win
that world title against darius mikozki
don't mean your failure so i came back
stronger
in that moment it can devastate you it
can put you on your ass
the fact is sometimes the worst things
that happen to you are the best things
that could have happened to you
because you find something else as a
result so
that's why i'm never scared of failure
because all it's doing is bouncing me
back
into the right direction of where i
should be going anyway
i'm done i've been abused i'm done
i've been giving up on i'm done my
parents didn't sort of look after me
i'm done someone got me into selling
drugs on the roads
country lines i'm done there's no hope
for me i've got a criminal record
how am i gonna become a businessman how
am i gonna have a child i'm done no
you're not done it's the start
reframe the story it's in our control
to reframe our story why do we buy the
story that we're given
why do we give up on this gift called
life
so easily and allow the pain
to stop us from moving on into our great
future man we got this we got control
we're a special creation
and we give up and we throw it away so
easy that's why i can't give up and i
can't throw it away
because i realize that i'm special that
i'm made by a special power
and we all are every single one of us
i think um i think having a purpose is
that thing that
that makes us tick that gets us up every
day and gets us over the hump
of opposition and adversity
i think for the most part in life people
pretty much know what to do when things
go right
when things go right they know how to
feel they know how to act how to react
but it's when that opposition and that
adversity comes
and it creates a level of
misunderstanding
right now the vision is blurred now you
don't have clarity
about what you're supposed to do now you
question
if your existence matters and i think
when you have a purpose
it's powerful because in the midst of
the opposition it makes you realize that
you've been put here for a certain
reason
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what you do there's loads of people
doing it but not like you
not like you are not like you you do it
your way
there's no one on the planet like you
no one they got they ain't got your dna
they ain't got your fingerprints
they can't they haven't got your tone
the way you do things
they're not like you so you can't decide
to throw in the towel and and get out
get out the game of life
you can't do that you're robbing us of
what you've been given what's
hidden inside you there's a hidden
leader in
all of us there's gifts in all of us
why don't we tap into it forget what
this world has taught us
to fall in line do as you're told
know think for yourself step out of line
feel that freedom and power of stepping
out of line and say wait a minute
hold on what you're saying doesn't make
sense
what you're saying is not right you're
taking away my constitutional
right to live life on my terms
and that's what benefits everybody else
we
impact on everybody else's life by
taking ownership of ours
by using our gifts and our talents by
treating
everybody the way we like them to treat
us
the problem is bro we're not loving
ourself
we ain't been taught to love ourselves
this too shall pass
like i said i champion adversity right
we know what to do when things go right
but the next time it gets tough uh the
next time you question your purpose
the next time you question your
existence uh your mission
if you're supposed to be doing what
you're doing and it gets tough
and challenging just whisper to yourself
this too shall pass
don't allow their doubt to be contagious
doubt can can allow them to
almost let that seed of doubt be
contagious
but just reframe that and think i'm
going to prove you wrong
you have to know who you are first you
have to recognize
who i am and accept that you're loved
that means you love you by
reframing that story that everything
that you told yourself about
life how you got dealt with how growing
up was
or your relationships all the stories
you told yourself that end up being with
a negative outcome
reframe it and give it a new outcome
that benefits you and empowers you i
reframe my dad's story
and my dad ain't don't love me look at
the way he beats me look what he does to
me he don't love me don't care about me
i reframed it
dad needs help my dad got his part wrong
but that doesn't mean if i don't walk in
the right steps in believing in myself
that i can't still bear fruit and find
out who i really am
daddy didn't show me but i showed me
because i believed
and understood that i'm a special
created being
that's very important to have great
self-esteem
forget the esteem that others put on you
because normally they don't
we need to put a steam on ourselves what
do we do we hear people talking
positively about the stuff oh he's
arrogant you know he thinks too much of
himself
he doesn't you know what's always
talking about how much you love yourself
because you're you can only love people
at the level that you love yourself bro
you can't love me more than you love you
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it's okay it's okay to fail
it's okay because failure ain't that
until you give up
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