Girls who will never take out their wallet when they are with a boy.
AAAAAH - Those!
I am on Tinder, and girls on Tinder happen do do that a lot.
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We have been out here interviewing Japanese people all day into the evening to find out
What will make you unpopular as a girl here in Japan. Yeah girls...
don't do that. The next things happening in this video, don't do them.
So you know how to act better and get a bit more popular with the boys so let's
go and Ask Japanese.
What will make girls super unpopular with boys - Oh I know
Girls who cannot dress properly when leaving the house
Girls who will not have combed their hair or washed their face
or going to places like a Sushi restaurant and having really strong perfumes and such
Strong smells are bad for Japanese style restaurants.
The flavor of the food changes
Everything will just taste of lavender
Why are strong perfumes bad for Japanese restaurants??
Things like Sushi, you are trying to enjoy the original flavor of the food, no spices right.
If the smell of the person next to you overpowers the taste of the food that is bad.
Agree.
Because it is such a fine taste, strong smells will overpower the food?
Did your female friend totally mess up once?
Girls who never take our their wallet with a boy.
AAAH - Those girls!
That is just not on - Can't believe girls like that!
In Japan boys often have to pay the food bill right
That is the common one but
I will definitely take my wallet out or even split the bill - Me too
I would feel bad for the guy having to pay
So imagine we are at the restaurant . Pretend I am the boy.
Let me get the bill - No it's fine I will also pay
It is fine don't worry - Oh no no
She took it out! - You ate with me, I will add my part
Let me do my part - You are fighting back
You did not take your wallet out.
Oh that's what you guys did. Thought it was just you two
Sorry I didn't go with the program.
So like that, you have to fight back about the bill a little.
But instead of saying "i will pay" it is a lot smarter to go to the register and pay already.
Aaaah
That is smoothe. - I will already have paid my part then.
Which one is worse, having a boy say "I will pay for you' or just having him take care of the bill covertly
If he shows he is paying, I can also pay
If he should already have paid, then you can offer to pay next time.
It's best not to leave the food bill up to the man
If he paid for it, you make it up to him with drinks or desserts?
If he paid for something there, you try and give that back in a different restaurant
That's how its done.
Girls who treat different people differently are scary. They will be nice to this person...
but really cold to another. That kind of discrimination turns me off.
I think that makes girls unpopular
You see their true colors.
For example 'Squeeee senpai' ... 'you are like whatever' attitude - THAT ONE!!!
- That just made me feel so disappointed
The one who is in favour might still feel good about it but in my case...
I watch how a girl treats other people around us.
If my girlfriend was rude to my friends, I would not want to date her anymore either.
If I am nice to you but cold to your friends, it would be a no go.
True. I would want her to be nice to my friends too.
But if you are dating her and she is TOO friendly to your friends. Will you not get jealous?
She gotta get that balance right. She doesn't have to treat him like me but
I should still feel special
And she should be nice to my friends. If she gets the balance right, that will make her popular.
Super popular
One thing that one girl has to be able to do...a
Girls who do not take out their wallets at restaurants are the worst
There are girls who take it for granted that the guy will pay
I am ok with paying the food bill
But girls who take it for granted and are not even grateful afterwards... are the worst
That's the moment when I write them off. It's just not on.
Has happened. - Happened to me before.
We all went for drinks and one girl left early from the party.
She would not even try to pay her share or take out her wallet while leaving
Then I had to say ' I will pay for you'
Cause otherwise she would have just left without a word so I offered to pay out loud.
She would not even try to pretend - There are girls like that
Wow.
If friends did that to me, I would also not be happy.
Happens a lot with girls here
I am on Tinder. The girls on Tinder do that stuff a lot.
Girls on Tinder in Japan expect the guys to pay all bills.
Wow, that would definitely make you unpopular.
Nonono
What would make a girl be unpopular?
Bad language
For example?
Language that is too strong
And also bad words - That is right
Girls with a bad attitude
against whom?
Girls who are rude to staff and who do not answer to someone properly
girls who will only answer questions by shaking her head instead of talking
I think that is bad
What should the girls do instead?
Answer in full sentences when you get asked a question.
IF you are trying to come across as mysterious and barely talk, that is not good? - Not at all
Not that mysterious then - That is something else
What would make a girl unpopular with boys?
Girls who cannot laugh or react to others around them - boring girls
My male friends say they like girls that can laugh - smiling is so important
Laughing in a loud voice is ok?
That depends on the situation
In a very luxurious place that might not work put
but if nobody is around its fine
Depends all on the situation - Yes
Anything else? - Attitude.
The attitude is really important.
What does not roll?
Girls who say a lot about others behind their backs - Yeah talking bad is so bad
Is there anything style wise that is bad?
I think a girls hairstyle is the most important thing
Girls with straight hair look cuter than scruffy ones
Rather than just a ponytail, curl your hair and such
or straighten it
Wearing the same clothes it will still make you look better
Girls gotta put some effort into their hair - Yes
Even if you do not have money for expensive clothes, curl your hair.
Make your legs look longer by wearing heels and a shorter skirt
That will make you look more stylish
Girls who know how to show off themselves in the best way are cute in my opinion
You are praising me too much - You really look cute girl
- Stop it - But you are cute - You are getting flustered, that's so cute too
That shyness is also a great point for her. - I am getting so embarrassed.
Being a little shy is also good in Japan
Instead of 'yeah i look good' saying 'no no' is very popular here. - That makes her cute
What would make a guy unpopular in Japan?#
Girls and boys who cannot greet properly
Girls who cannot say 'thanks for the meal to the chef
will be hated for that
I think girls should be able to greet like 'good morning' and such.
Japanese people love their greeting manners. - We do.
Girls who leave rice corns behind are unmannered.
Sometimes I will see girls like that and dislike it.
Is that so bad? Never heard of it, please explain. Leaving rice behind is bad?
In Japan we say that each rice corn carries one of the seven gods
Our parents tell us that when we are little
So we believe that people who leave rice behind are not mannered.
Do you have to eat everything up then? But when you are full, do you have to force at least the rice down?
No matter what, you should never leave rice behind.
Even if you suffer, you gotta eat up all the rice? - I think so.
That makes me think of one more, girls who go all you can eat and leave that behind - Ah
That is so bad - No way
And boys who cannot eat the food that their girlfriend made for him? - Also no good
What will make girls unpopular? - uncleanliness
Girls who cannot take care of their visual appearance will not be popular in Japan
Comb your hair before leaving the house and such - And similar things like that.
Why did you pick your current girlfriend? - Cause the was so cute
How embarrassing
What about girls who never take out their wallet during dates - Goodbye.
Turn off.
You at least want them to pretend to take it out? - Right.
Alright ladies now you know it, if you do that...
you are not gonna get popular with the boys and maybe not
even with your girlfriends guys so
Be aware of those but don't worry we actually interviewed Japanese people about what can make you popular in Japan
Be sure to check that video out. I am sure there are a couple of differences compared to your country
Looking forward to reading that in the comments
If you are curious about how to get popular in Japan, that is your video right here.
Thank you so much catch you soon with another video on Ask Japanese, bye!