have you ever heard of those cases before of somebody who's reached the top
of success mountain gotten everything one could possibly desire from life finances
the perfect wife you name it and you find out they've killed themselves why
does that happen it's because confidence and self-esteem is not the same thing
somebody can't have a confidence to go for what they want somebody who can have
the confidence to climb the success mountain but if they feel like once at
the top that they don't actually deserve it that's where most people fall into
depression and all the other nasty things that you probably have heard of and
that's why in today's video insider I wanna share with you the five warning signs
of low self-esteem most people in life they work on confidence but they don't
really work on this self-esteem element so firstly let me describe you what's the
difference between confidence and self esteem self confidence is your ability
your power to go for what you truly want based upon your skills and capabilities
and getting started on the project self-esteem is whether or not you feel
like you truly deserve it it's the self worth is to value of how you truly value
self and so I'm gonna be breaking down every single one of these signs and
at the end insider I wanna offer you a gift that's helped me tremendously
work on my self esteem because this is an area of my life that I've suffered so
much from and this is why it's holding you back from success so be sure to pay
close attention without further ado let's go straight on to the first
warning signs of low self esteem most people ignore which is you lack
consistency if you're somebody right now whose ability to take action is is on
point sometimes and once you've got that courage you do get start on a project
but you find yourself you're struggling to finish a project you're fit you're
struggling to finish what you start that's a warning sign that you got low
self-esteem why because you may be looking at productivity hikes thinking
oh I'm just not productive I'm not managing my time well but often
not the root cause of what's stopping you whilst making stagnant is the fact
that you don't believe you truly deserve it at the core
and as a result yourself sabotaging yourself you're holding back from your
true greatness because you don't believe you deserve it and so you've got
resistance you're starting a project but you're not continuing every single day
because you begin to doubt your value you begin to doubt your worth that's the
first sign the second sign is you attribute most of your success to luck
if you're somebody right now when somebody gives you a compliment you say
oh you know I'm not that great it's you know yeah I suppose I've done well but
you know most of its like if that is you you're doing that subconsciously
and now it's becoming a conscious awareness because you don't believe you
deserve what you've got and when somebody complements you maybe on your
physical appearance or the way you are or the way you do something if you're
not somebody who says thank you so much I know right it may sound a little bit
cocky or egotistic but if you didn't feel like that at the core of course you
don't have to respond like that in the outer world but if you do feel like that
the core it means you don't believe you deserve it and most people in life you
always find when they've received a compliment they say oh no this is what I
used to do I remember when I was super shy in terms of dating women when I was
17 years old I socially anxious I was a nervous wreck I don't believe I deserve
the girlfriend although I wanted one and I remember when a girl found me
attractive and she gave me a compliment I was just
like no I'm not good-looking that's literally why I said back to her so if
you're somebody right now struggles with taking compliments and you attributes
most of your success to luck that's the second warning sign the third warning sign
is you try to impress the Joneses there are two types of people in life insider
the first type is the one who tries to get to top of success mountain so they
can see the world the second time the one who tries to get to the top of
success mountain so everybody else can see them
and depending on which type of individual you are the mindset you
approach when you are climbing the success mountain will dictate how
fulfilled you are at the end of it all because after all if you're trying to
impress everybody else it means you're gonna end up in a job you damn right I'm
miserable over because you shouldn't impress your parents your friends you
name it everybody else the Joneses and as a result you end up buying cars or
buying material you probably can't afford just to impress everybody else
buying a big house to impress everybody else you're not sure to impress yourself
because you don't believe you deserve it so you want everybody to affirm that
you're good enough because you don't own the fact that you are that's the
third warning sign the fourth warning sign is you don't handle mistakes or
failure as well now the reason why this is a warning sign in terms of low
self-esteem is because people low self-esteem once they get a setback they
begin to take it really personally yeah they have the self-confidence to get
started they packed out that courage they probably watch a motivational video
and they're fired up they're like yeah I can do it but then all of a sudden the
business they're trying to launch it doesn't take off now they're just
thinking maybe it's not meant to be maybe I'm not good enough and now
they'll begin to stagnate and to eventually they quit and they tell
everybody else that it didn't work this is the fourth warning sign now the final sign
is something that most people who lack self-esteem
suffer from dramatically that cost you a fortune
literally the final warning sign is this you struggle to be paid what you're
truly worth and you struggle with taking somebody else's money when somebody
offers it to you I remember when I was hosting my private in a circle event and
either a room full of mentees that I'd be teaching them over several days in
terms of advanced psychological concepts that helps them to take a have a
breakthrough in their life in business and I ended up reaching out to a friend
and I told him I wanted them to film all of the days of event and that way all of
the mentees will have something that they can
take home so they can constantly educate themselves over and after he filmed the
whole event after three days he put I don't know god knows how long
twenty five hours worth of his personal time into it next day I messaged him on
Facebook saying hey I love to offer you some money he said oh no Tim don't worry
about it oh I'll do it for free I said why I'm
trying to offer you some money it's just have it no no no it's fine fine you
know you can you know take me out for lunch later and it's fascinating because
this is how I used to be back in the days now it might seem like a little
gesture and you might think I'll bet it's a friend I want to realize how you
do anything is how you do everything and most people who suffer from low
self-esteem they tend to be excellent givers they love to give give their
energy give their time give maybe even presence or money but they are terrible
receivers they don't believe they would deserve it and this is why they begin to
turn it away but remember this insider when somebody is trying to give you
something although it felt good by giving you it of course so when you're saying
no remember this the other person now it doesn't feel good because then you're
not accepting their gift so this is why you gotta work on this and that's why
insider I highly suggest if you wanna work on your self-esteem and you're
somebody right now who suffers from low self-esteem from the signs we've gone
through I go through daily a visualization a hypnosis session I do it
to myself but I had a lot of my students asking me in terms of what I do and I'll
go for a process that's called connecting with my future self it allows
me to upgrade my self-image it allows me to connect with who I am who I'm born to
be and the more you upgrade your identity insider the more you'll find
your goals become effortless in terms of trying to achieve as a wise man once
said you cannot consistently behave in a manner that's inconsistent in the way
you view yourself so here's a little gift for you insider you don't have to
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www.successinsider.tv/self and you're be able to download this hypnosis audio track that
I've recorded for you for you to listen to every single morning and evening or
whatever time you prefer I highly suggest you begin to work on the self
esteem insider because you can get started on projects for self confidence but self
esteem is what's gonna keep you going self esteem is what's gonna make you
feel fulfilled at the end of it all so I hope you enjoy the gift like I said
follow link above or I'll chuck some link in description box below and please
let me know insider how you get on I hope you enjoy today's video be sure to
let me know inside there what's been your biggest takeaway today also be sure
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about paying it forwards after all so be sure to share this video with somebody who you
know would benefit from this and as always insider follow your heart my
friend and take action and go live the life you truly want to live I'll see you
on the next video soon insider take care