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you're going to have a process for mastering NLP processes rapidly
I've been practicing NLP for eight years and for a long time I was kind of lost I
went to a lot of NLP trainings but I didn't have a lot of good understanding
about how to practice when I wasn't in the trainings and so I had to cultivate
some of my own ways of practice which I'm going to share with you today as
always if you have questions or you have comments please put them right down here
in the comment section down below and I will respond to you what I'm going to
show you is a way to strategize your practice to make it systematic and to do
it in steps that you can track you can go back to and repeat several times
until you get to the level of mastery that you want to get in NLP and at the
end of this video I'm going to show you a way to sort of tie it all together
with a free assessment and if you are impatient and you want to know what this
assessment is about before this video is over in the description below you will
find a link just click on that link and it will take you to a website where you
can take part in that assessment and in some research for free so really what
I'm going to show you is based on perceptual positions if you don't know
what perceptional positions is a link of video to this one where I show you how
to do that process with perceptual positions usually perceptual positions
is its own process but we can also use it for learning rapidly so if you are
using YouTube videos to learn processes and opie processes or if you have a home
study course an online course where you're studying this is perfect so what
you want to do is when you watch someone else watch a teacher or an instructor do
an NLP process you first want to do just that just observe don't try to
understand it don't try to figure it out just observe so you if you're watching
this on YouTube or you're watching a process on YouTube or you're watching on
your home study course just watch the demonstration like I said without trying
to figure it out and watch it a second time where you don't look at the screen
and you just listen so you want to separate but also include eventually
bring all the senses together but you want to separate them and do them one at
a time so you go one pass just watching it and then you do an a second pass just
listening to the instructor or a teacher do the process with someone then you're
going to practice it on yourself not enough people do this in NLP a lot of
times people skip the process of proficiency with using NLP on yourself
some people are just the opposite they only use NOP on them on themselves and
not other people total NLP proficiency is the ability to do NOP effectively on
yourself and to do it effectively with other people and it doesn't matter what
you're what you're wanting to use it for you want to do both of these so do the
process by yourself on yourself and just notice what you get out of that you
might not get anything the first time lots of people do NLP techniques once or
they do a process once and they go oh that didn't work and then they they
either think they know P doesn't work or they jump to the next technique or
process it usually doesn't work the first time because it takes practice so
you're going to do that once with yourself then you're going to find a
practice partner you have to find a practice partner you don't have to be in
their presence you could do it over Skype or zoom whatever you can do it
over video it doesn't matter so you do the process with the other person and
then this is very very important have that person or have someone do the
process with you the way to truly understand NOP processes and techniques
and how they are effective is you have to experience it yourself
so maybe the person that you're practicing with the
isn't interested in NLP and that's fine and you definitely want to practice with
people who don't know NLP because it's different
practicing with people who don't know NLP versus people who do or people who
are studying just like you it's good to have both and you probably will find it
easier to find someone who's also practicing NLP to practice with you it
might be a little bit harder to find someone who isn't interested in NLP but
there are people who are interested in getting free coaching and that's the
holy that I would frame it if you're looking for a practice partner who isn't
interested in learning NLP basically just tell them it's free coaching but
you're practicing you know let them know that you're actually practicing a
process not that you're offering them full-on coaching but I would frame it
that way to make it more interesting to them lots of people would love free
coaching and so that's basically what you're doing so you want to experience
the process doing it with someone else and it's okay if you have to have notes
to look at or if you have you have the process written down don't think that
you have to memorize it first before you do the process you can go step by step
and that's the way I first started practicing I had my manual in front of
me and I went that way not an important tip when you're doing this when you're
doing a process with someone and you're having to read from a manual or from
your notes make sure that your face is not buried in the notes the whole time
because a big part of NLP is sensory acuity and calibration you need to be
observing the shifts and the changes with the person you're working with so
how do you do this well you look at your menu or your notes whatever it is you're
reading from read the line that you need to do next or whatever the step is and
then look at the person and say whatever it is that you need to say to them with
too many people do is they read straight from their book and they never look up
and that's not you're missing out on a huge part of NLP you're missing out on
how their response to it and their response to it is not their words what
you're looking for is a nonverbal response to what happens next whatever
their nonverbal responses because that's a truer more honest expression of what
they're experiencing then their words could ever be so you look down you
memorize the next step just the next one look up
say whatever it is you need to say to complete that step see the response then
go back to your book manual notes and then see the next step
and then do that that's the best way to do it and again you want to have
somebody practice the process on you and then if you had and then if you can if
you have to practice partners you want to sit back and observe someone else
doing it so if you notice if you know perceptual positions what are we doing
here I'm experiencing the process and first person I've experienced it as
second position so the other and then I'm experiencing and third position
observer and when you're doing all of these positions you're really getting
the technique and process into your muscle so that it becomes second nature
to you think about how you started out you first were just observing someone
who does it well an instructor a teacher someone who has mastered this already
then you listen to it then you practice it on yourself you practice it with
someone else you let that person practice on you and then if you can you
observe two people practicing now once you've done all this you will have a
much greater understanding of this technique in this process what a lot of
people do is they just watch an instructor do it and maybe they try it
once and I think okay that's good enough no it is not you will never really learn
and I'll pee that way you certainly won't even come close to mastering it so
when you actually get into the process and are doing it receiving and observing
it this is making it real for you now once you've done that where you've done
the practice with someone else you want to go back to your instructional video
whether that's on YouTube or a home study course and watch again the
instructor do the process with the demonstration subject and I assure you
you're gonna you're going to understand what's going on so much more it's sort
of like learning a language you'll you'll be able to understand why the
teacher does what the teacher does so much better and that's still not the end
of it you can repeat this process several times and I would recommend that
you do you observe you observe someone who does it well you try it on yourself
you practice it with partners then you come back to observation and if you do
this several times like say between three times of the very minimum and
seven times I have you do the seven times you're gonna have this mastered
the reason this works so well is that NLP is a 6p riyal model you cannot get
it just by memorization you have to experience it and you have to experience
it from different perspectives that's why we use the perceptual positions a
big mistake a lot of NLP students make or people who are just dabbling in NLP
you know watching YouTube videos is they're more interested in just learning
a bunch of techniques but it it doesn't matter if you learn a bunch of
techniques and you don't really master them you won't be good at any of them
it'll be haphazard or the results will be haphazard when you try to do them so
in a way you're wasting a lot of time but that's what people think they think
the magic is in the wand and no the magic is in you it's in your ability to
cultivate this skill and the understanding of why the process works
that is far more powerful than then trying to memorize a bunch of techniques
Bruce Lee it was behind me right here don't know what you can see them used to
said I don't fear a man who knows 1,000 different kicks he says I fear the man
who has practiced one kick 1000 times and that's what we're doing here if you
have a if you have a vague understanding of ten NLP processes and take our
techniques that's nothing that is not effective it's not nearly as effective
as effective as mastering one NLP process or one NLP technique some people
build entire coaching practices off of really mastering one NLP process and you
can totally do that because if you're getting the results that's what it's all
about is getting the result so if you want to create a vision not just for
mastering NLP but really mastering your life and you want to be able to
transform yourself which is what NLP is all about and you want to be able to hit
the goals that you have which again is probably why you want to learn NLP to
begin with it starts with assessing where you are
so to do that go to the description right here down below you will find a
link just click on that link it will take you to a page where you can do a
free assessment you basically answer some questions and then
we put it all the information together for you and then give you that
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