Uncle C back in the office and in this video, I'm going to be showing each and every single
one of you specifically how to set rock solid congruent relationship boundaries if you decide
to enter into some sort of relationship with a woman.
Now these five methods are not only proven to have you create massive upside in your
life and to make sure that the bond and the Unity can actually be something that's positive,
and not just games 24, seven, left and right trying to tear each other down.
But this can also help you develop your masculinity so that way, you're a man who is used to setting
the guidelines and the foundations for your own life.
These are keys that have helped me along the way these are, these are keys that have helped
numerous other students along the way.
And throughout this video, I want you to stay until the very end, because the fact is that
if you can actually sit in and focus in for the next five to 10 minutes, oftentimes what
that does is that creates years of trauma and Bs along the way because you never took
the time to learn the actual steps that it takes to be that 1% man Now I wanted to quickly
announce that registration for the masculinity mastery program is now available.
Meaning since I'm doing free consults one to one on the phone where you actually get
to speak one on one with me if you're qualified to register for that program and you're ready
to actually work with a coach and get this handled in your life, what I want you to do
is go down below, fill out the application book a call to be part of that program.
But moving on, let's begin.
What are these five relationship boundaries?
How does this help us screen for quality women?
And how can we make sure that once we have these boundaries set they don't get broken
and that they're actually followed to make sure that both parties can have equal opportunity
in bettering their life.
You guys see that Phil is the one part that most people don't understand about dating
a woman or seeing a woman is they're never consistently asking themselves in their head
day to day Hey, are our lives are better together than they were apart?
meaning is there more positive Together, is it easier to enjoy experiences?
Is there more fun?
Is there more enjoyment?
Is there more unity?
Do we get more stuff done?
Are we growing together as partners?
Or is this negative?
And the issue is that they can never actually see the negative because they're so focused
on the physical, the beauty, the sex, all of that, fellas, when you have some rock solid
boundaries, you're putting yourself in one mode and that mode is called Thou shall not
thou shall not do any of these five things.
If your woman agrees and does not do any of these five things to test you to push your
hot buttons you might have found yourself a quality woman who is not all about the mainstream
narrative of phones and games and dating BS.
So what is number one?
Thou shall not what the number one fellas is that you have to set some rules for the
cell phone.
Okay, now shall not be on any dating apps ever.
Like just some basic stuff.
The problem is is people never actually sit their woman down.
One, two.
One or say what they will and will not tolerate.
And since she since your spine listens, you don't have any rules since you don't have
any backbone.
She doesn't know what to follow.
And she thinks that she can do whatever she'd like.
Now she'll have rules with apps.
Okay, if you if you met on a dating app, if you've had dating apps in the past, Thou shalt
not ever activate them just something simple.
If there's social media, Thou shall not be fishing for attention.
Okay, there is no booty pictures, there is no pop in the hips out left and right, China
take these boomerangs with peace signs and kissy lips, like she has to actually be respectful.
She has to actually know what the guidelines are.
And the whole reason why most men fail in relationships is right
here.
They do not have any expectation of the other party.
If I'm with a woman, That woman is a sheer representation of me.
Okay, and if she's making me look like a jackass, if she's making me look like a bitch, that
is not something that represents me.
Well, that's actually representing me very, very negatively and it looks like it Don't
have any control of my life.
Now, when you set the expectations as in no booty pictures, there is no DMS back and forth
if I sense anything fishy if it looks like this is weird, I'm out.
There's no a three strike policy.
It's just like that's the rule.
If you break the guideline, if you break the trust, I'm leaving that minute.
I'm leaving that second.
She's she says she understands that you have some spine, some backbone, some guideline,
this is extremely crucial because you want your woman to represent you.
Well.
If you're a woman doesn't represent you, well, then you're a joke of a man.
If you want to actually propel your life forward, you got to realize that if
you're entering into a day to day interaction with somebody, that person is becoming part
of you.
That person is rapping the ways they talk into your subconscious, you're going to adopt
some of their habits, it better be positive phone rules are number one most important.
Now the second is picture posting attention now shall not do any fishing.
There is no fishing for secondary options.
Though I don't like a lot of pill color channels.
The one phrase that I love when it comes to the red community would be I've
heard this phrase before optimizing her hypergamy This one's genius.
That one phrase right there what she's doing if she's fishing, if she's keeping something
on the backburner saying, hey, if this doesn't go accordingly,
I have some sort of option that I think maybe will fit me better.
Right?
She's always trying to level up just like you're trying to level up your purpose, your
life all of that.
Thou shall not do any fishing.
The picture posting attention, you got to understand this right here.
These two things is a tool for women.
This is their only resource.
This is their only fighting and stomping ground.
Because nowadays, the modern woman it's not like she has a whole lot of good verbal skills.
It's not like most most women are terrible at flirting and extremely socially awkward.
The only way she can express herself because let's be real, if most of them are just eating
nachos in bed and drinking tequila Friday, Saturday nights acting like they're doing
something with their life.
The only way she can express herself is through quotes and through showing off her body today.
That's just what she has to offer.
And it's not really her fault.
It's just the way the culture is went.
That's her fishing.
Now, you got to realize the more scandalous these photos get.
If you're in a relationship with her, the more disrespect she's throwing you.
This is flat out rude.
You guys have to understand this.
This is flat out rude.
If you start to tolerate that, what's going to happen is any respect that she had for
you previously, she's now going to flush that down the toilet and there's going to be none
left.
Now, I've spoken with a lot of men, a lot of men say, Hey, I didn't want to be controlling.
I didn't want to have no empathy.
I didn't want to have no sympathy.
Yeah, you might come off as a controlling dick.
She might tell all of her friends.
He's a controlling dick who sets rules.
So be it.
It's worth your own sanity to realize that hey, if she has to do all this stuff, this
isn't necessarily worth Your time, especially if you're slaying the dragon with your passion
and with your purpose, which brings me to rule number three, the Hours of operation.
She's got to respect the Hours of operation.
Because if she doesn't, you got to realize fellas, you're gonna get nothing done as a
man.
Now I tell my woman, that from the hours of 9am, to about 6pm, I'm off limits.
I'm off limits completely.
Don't text me unless you absolutely need me.
Don't call me just to say, Hey, don't Snapchat me pictures at work of memes or dogs?
I can't deal with that.
As a man, you've only got so much mental bandwidth per day.
And the more mental bandwidth you start giving to other people, the less you're going to
actually get done with your own life.
There's absolutely no way I could build my business.
There's no way I can meet with my clients.
There's no way I could speak to people on the phone.
There's no way I could build my courses and build my programs.
There's no way in hell I could get to the gym accordingly every single day to make sure
I'm looking like a stud.
There's no way you can do any Any type of male type shit, man type shit, she's got to
respect the Hours of operation.
And here's the thing, fellas, if you're actually on your purpose, she should actually appreciate
that.
She should say, wow, I don't have a needy guy that needs me.
24 seven, I can just let him work, I can let him do his thing.
She's got to respect this though, because you got to understand.
As a man, the quickest way to get ahead in life is to maximize output.
You got to get more done.
There's a lot of people that go well, you can't get rich quick, dude, you better figure
out how to get rich quick, or you're gonna die one day, you better figure out how to
grow that business quick, or you're going to be 50 and you're not going to be able to
enjoy it for the long haul.
You get what I'm saying?
I'm not saying getting rich is the only thing but for a lot of you like you want something
out of yourself.
You want to make something out of yourself.
You want to make something out of your life I sure as hell do.
And that's why I'm not ashamed to plug my programs on these courses.
I want you to work with me.
I want you to give me money.
I want to help you to better your life.
I think I got a kick ass product.
Now see as a man You sort of flip your mind like that and go, Hey, sales is cool.
Money's cool.
Being on my purpose is cool.
I can actually give value and I can help men will sweet now.
Now she has a man that is actually output focused.
She should be happy that she has this.
The best way they'll fellows to maximize output is not to try to get more done.
It's strictly just to remove distraction.
There's so many guys that go.
I got to stay up an extra hour at night.
I got to wake up two hours earlier, I got to beat the sun up.
Dude, I get up at 9am and I go to bed at an appropriate time every
single day.
Why is that?
It's because I don't have distraction.
My hours of operation are clear.
I don't have Snapchat on buzzing on my phone.
I don't got Instagram DMS left and right going taking my attention I don't I'm not texting
20 people.
If you do that you can't get shit done with your life.
Now she has to be understanding of this.
If she's understanding of the Hours of operation fellas.
It's going to make the whole world so much Much easier she knows you're on your mission.
The fourth thing of the relationship boundary is to be, understand that you need sanity.
Okay, Thou shall not cause disturbance, Thou shall not cause drama, Thou shall not cause
distraction.
You guys both need sanity.
When you see your woman at night, or when you see your woman, when you guys go on a
date when you guys are hanging out when you guys are doing whatever, that should be a
safe haven.
As a man, if you're slaying the dragon, you're doing the shit.
When you come, you're a woman who's much more sweeter and softer than you are, at least
she shouldn't be or something's really, really messed up.
That should be like a safe haven.
That should be a place where it feels comforting to you.
And she should feel safe, protected and secure.
If it's not that you guys are going to flip flop and rolls and she's going to get bitchy
on you.
She's going to get rude at you.
It's because you're not doing the type of things A man should actually make her feel
protected.
Now, what I'm saying is she needs to be sweet and not bitchy, but the only way Fellas she's
going to do this is if you're acting like a man, I've said this before, women following
men lead, she will assume the authority in your role if you start slipping up, and she's
going to see how far she can push those buttons.
If you're doing the first three things, you have the communication panels laid down for
what needs to go down in your life, this will be respected.
The last on this part is that she needs to actually enjoy you and you need to enjoy her.
There needs to be mutual enjoyment.
There is no such thing as one person chasing the other one's playing games.
One person's heartbroken, the other one's off sleeping with other people like all of
this shit that's going on right now.
Most women have just been like ran through the gutter with multiple guys, they have tons
of sexual trauma, they bring that baggage into every other relationship and most guys
have no idea what to do then just go to the bar and look for more ask because they think
that's gonna fulfill them.
When you live differently, you can think more clearly the last the fifth, Thou shall not
put in more effort than the other person it needs to be equal effort.
Now this is when you actually mutually take care of one another.
If you're having a bad day, your woman needs to help you, your woman needs to comfort you.
If she's having a bad day, you need to say, hey, once I'm done with my hours of operation
here, let's let's bond together, let's hang together, let's comfort each other because
you got to understand she needs to want your company.
The second you start chasing harder and she no longer values, your time or your company,
you're going to start to go downhill really, really quick.
Because what this does, fellas if one person chases the other than the other person does
is a fight happens.
And what you have to do is you have to communicate and explain the situation before it escalates
into drama into a fight.
Those are the five things those are the ways to screen for high quality women.
It's going to be a lot slimmer pics for you if you do that, but the thing is, is if you
have the tools in the tool belt to communicate properly and you're not afraid of flirting
or showing any type of intent with a woman, it's going to be easy to pick through this
because you don't necessarily care Now fair warning.
When you live like this, not everybody is going to like you.
There's a lot of women that might say you're a fucking dick.
There's a lot of men that might think you're controlling ass.
There's like, you're gonna go against a lot of the social norms, who gives a shit?
You have if you want to be a one percenter, you got to realize that 90% of people probably
aren't going to like you.
But when you do find that person, what happens is you have insane mental focus and mental
clarity that 99% of the population does not have.
If most people are splitting up if most people are divorced if most people are hooking up,
there's something wrong with the culture and you do not just add tactics to the man that's
constantly in that boat.
You fix the man from the ground up, fellas.
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