When do you want him to cook for you?
When I come home and am tired, I want him to just have made something for me.
That would be perfect! - The cameraman is laughing!
I want him to have a clean appearance.
I think the thing we can always work on ourselves is money.
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If you have a person who has the perfect face, money and is kind to you,
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There is your perfect partner. He has really handsome looks...
He even has money...
On top of that, he is also really kind...
But there is one more thing you want. What is that?
I want him to be able to speak English.
A Japanese boy? - He can be Japanese too.
Why English?
I think it would be cool. It's a language that can be understood anywhere.
I would feel more save with him.
- Going on a journey? - That's right. I wanna travel.
What shall he use his language skills on foremost?
When we go to America, and get lost in the streets.
I want him to be able to ask and understand the reply, and lead the way.
I don't want him to have a short temper.
I hate it when people get angry at me.
I want someone who is more tolerant.
He should have a mature personality.
I want someone with the right height. - What the...? Height?!
I am quite tall you see. I want a girlfriend who is not too small.
Instead of a tall girlfriend, smaller is cuter?
Just a little bit smaller is best.
I want her to listen to me.
I like girls who can listen well.
Instead of listening while checking her phone, listening while looking at you?
Yes like that.
A hobby! I like men who actually have a hobby.
What hobby is good?
I like games, so someone who likes games too.
I want to do that hobby together with him.
If we don't have an interest in common, it will get boring.
It will only make me think "He has no hobby, that's kind of sad."
"Did you not enjoy anything up until now" like that.
I want someone who has his own interests.
I want a girl with good manners.
Things like, not littering and such.
Or not throwing cigarette buds on the floor.
Or not walking with a cigarette in her hand...
If you were like that, that would be great.
I want him to be prosperous. - That's the same as having money.
I want him to be able to cook.
What kind of food is good?
I am fine with normal Japanese cuisine.
As long as he can cook he is good.
I don't cook.
When do you want him to cook for you?
When I come home and am tired, I want him to just have made something for me.
That would be perfect! - The cameraman is laughing!
Household duties.
For example?
I want him to clean.
I suck at cleaning.
If he is good at tidying, I would be super happy.
If something is on the floor, it would help if he could pick it up and throw it away.
That alone would be great.
I want him to hate the same things that I hate.
Not things you LOVE in common but things you HATE?
I would prefer it, if we hated the same things.
For example what? Green peppers?
Not food but things like...
If he hated being treated in a certain way as much as I do.
So for example, hating being cheated upon.
Well yeah that would be a big one.
More things like eating noisily, and being a pain when being drunk.
So if you both hated that, life would be easier.
I want him to keep a clean appearance.
If he looks unclean... It makes me step back.
Keep up his looks. - Yeah.
I hate men who smell.
True. He can look like mr handsome but if he smells then...
I can't deal with that.
If you had to loose money, looks or kindness, what would you loose?
His looks.
As long as there is money and kindness, I am fine.
He can look ugly too.
I am not that pretty either, so I don't expect him to be.
What would you give up?
His looks yeah.
If he looks too good, I think we would not work well together.
Like "ah he is too attractive" - Yes!
So shiny!
Yeah I would be like that.
I don't need him to have a pretty face.
As long as there is money and kindness you are ok?
Those are the bare minimum that is needed.
What would you give up? - I would give up on money.
The other way then?
- You make that money yourself? - Yeah that's the idea.
I would give up on his looks. Money needs to be there though.
I want money and kindness too.
If he is not attractive, I will be ok with that as long as I love him.
The one thing I would give up is his looks.
Are you sure?
Well if there was no money... it would make my life a lot harder.
I can just about endure the loss of his looks.
I would give up on her kindness. - WHAT?! WHY?!
It's important for me that she has good looks.
And if she doesn't have money, it's hard to make a living.
That's why I would throw away her kindness.
Do you mean a cool beauty then? I would understand that.
What would you give up? - Money.
I want a cute looking girlfriend.
But I don't want her to be unkind.
Money is something, we can both work on together.
The thing I would give up on.....
is money.
Why so? - If we tried hard, we could make it happen.
The rest I can't make happen.
Changing someone's personality is hard.
I think the thing we can always work on ourselves is money.
I believe, I can earn some money myself too if I had to.
I will definitely not give up on his kindness.
And his good looks. - If he looks good, we can make it happen.
Maybe because he looks hot, it will be easier for him to find work?
Yeah that might be a reason.
Those were the interview questions. Thank you!
Money, looks and kindness. Those 3 things. If you have all of them together,
you might already be happy but there is just one more thing you want ...
We heard Japanese tell us about that, one more thing that they wanted
for example, have a skill, have a hobby.
So these are all skills that we want plus alpha.
How about you? What skill do you want definitely, or what thing do you definitely,
Stop it! (to director)
What thing do you want in a partner? What are you looking for?
Which of those skills would you drop. It was interesting:
The women generally dropped the looks, because they said it's ok if you don't look pretty
The men generally dropped the money...
And said I am gonna work hard to make that money.
So she doesn't have to have the money.
One person dropped kindness, that was interesting.
That's a thing I would never ever drop...
Hey everyone is different. Which of these thing could you not go without?
Which of the plus alpha things do you want in your partner?
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