Gentlemen, this is Mantelligence. I’m Beardy and this is Larry. Today, we’re going to
show you how to psychologically make a girl chase you.
Psychologically? That’s a big word. Oh, hi guys, I’m Kay.
Oh yes, Kay. Mind power. The mind holds the most complex mysteries
of the human race and so I think this is public service we’re doing right here.
Oh wow, isn’t that a bit of over-the-top? Well, I was just trying to explain why it’s
important to know these 5 proven and scientific tricks to get girls to chase you.
These tips are already tested by psychologists and have been proven to be effective.
But hey, I thought we already have a video about the 10 powerful tricks to get girls
to chase you? Uhm, yes we do have that in our channel already,
but this time we had a little bit of help from psychology, so this is going to be different
and a bit more fun! Plus, at the end of this video, we’re going
to show you the one thing you should not do as it rather chases girls away (away, away)
Now, let’s get into it. 5. All About Standing Out
Hey guys, I wanna start this one with a question. Among these, who do you think stands out?
That’s right, it’s Larry who stands out the most. Why? Because he’s a monkey!
Oh, that makes so much sense! But wait, why again?
According to research, this is called the Von Restorff Effect.
This states that when multiple objects are present, the one that differs most is most
likely to be remembered. And I think you know what that means, don’t
you? Do your very best to stand out. The best way to do this is to know how to
make jokes. If you’re able to make her laugh, you’re already a million steps ahead of
the rest. And if she laughs at even the corniest of your jokes...
Well that’s one of the most obvious hidden signs a girl likes you.
Unfortunately, being funny isn’t one of the easiest skills to learn. However there
are other ways to stand out. By simply standing straight, wearing pressed
clothes and smelling nice, you can stand out pretty easily.
Just be sure to work on your comedic timing a little bit as well.
Want to know if she likes you or not? Find out more hidden signs a girl likes you in
this video we made just for that purpose. #4 Familiar Flair
Back in college, I had this roommate who’s the biggest foodie I know. And it isn’t
surprising because his mom was one hell of a cook.
During one of his birthdays, he invited me to come over to their house and oh, I still
remember every dish I ever ate that day because they were so dang good.
I remember thinking, “he’s so lucky he grew up eating delicious food.”
Years later, I found out that Greg married one of the best chefs in town.
See, it’s possible that Greg was inclined to be attracted to women who are good cooks
because he was familiar with the presence of one, his mother.
This is called the familiarity effect, studied by social psychologist, Robert Zajonc. Now,
listen closely because this is how you make a girl crazy for you:
His studies show that people tend to develop a preference of persons or things that are
familiar to them. Ooooh. I didn’t know that! So. How does
that work for the guys, eh? Always be around, be someone familiar. As
simple as that. By putting yourself around her all the time,
you’ll increase the likelihood that she’ll be attracted to you.
Wanna know more about how to make a girl chase you? Check out this video with 915K views
already! #3 Favor Flavor
Kay, can you give me a pen? Here.
How about me some paper? Here.
kay… Hey, what now, Beardy?
Oh, sorry don’t get mad, I’m just testing the Benjamin Franklin effect.
The Benjamin Effect states that you are more likely to like a person for whom you do favors
for. Now, pay attention because this is one of the tricks to get a girl to chase you.
Wait. What? Don’t we just do stuff for a person we know
we like? Hmmm. In a perfect world, Kay. Yes. But, have
you ever thought that you’re doing favors for someone you don’t like as well?
Hmmmm. Are you forgetting about your boss?
Hah! Beardy, you got me there! Well, kidding aside, this effect became known
as such because in Benjamin Franklin’s autobiography, he wrote that someone who once hated him became
his friend because he asked a favor from him. So, the favor was Ben borrowed a book from
this someone. After a few days, he returned the book and
thanked him. When they saw each other at the White House,
this person began talking to him very civilly, which he had never done before.
And they became good friends after that. Oh, so it worked like a charm!
Oh yes, it did, which is why this can be one of the tricks to make a girl fall in love
with you, guys. See, when you ask someone for a favor, it’s like saying “I need
your help”. That makes it flattering for the person who
will do the favor and this boosts their self-worth. Also, when we do stuff for people, our brain
thinks we must like that person. So guys, the next time you see your girl,
ask her for a favor. This is one of the weird tricks to get a girl to chase you so see if
it will work for you. But, beware of overdoing this. You don’t
wanna seem like you’re bossy and you like asking other people to do stuff for you all
the time. This is clearly not doing you any good if you want to learn how to make a girl
want you. Did you see what happened with Kay earlier?
She got a bit annoyed when I kept asking her favor after favor.
So use this trick sparingly. Want to know more tricks on how to make a
girl fall in love with you? We have another video discussing just that. Check it out.
Hey! Thanks for staying with us. Hang tight because we have 2 more psychologically-backed
tricks to help you learn how to make a girl chase you.
Plus, towards the end of this video, we will show you the one thing you should not do because
it quite simply chases the girl away. Now, back to the good stuff.
#2 Stellar Similars Guys, have you heard of the cliche "opposites
attract"? Well yeah, in magnets maybe. But in a relationship?
Hmmmm. That’s another story. I’m not saying that people who are opposites
don’t have a chance at a relationship. What I’m saying is the probability of that happening
is really low compared to when two people are actually similar to each other.
If you don’t believe me, think of this. Why do you almost always think of questions
to ask a girl to see if the two of you are compatible?
This is because of homophily, which is defined as “love of the same” and is explained
as a person’s tendency to link up with someone who confirms, rather than tests his core beliefs.
Oh c’mon, Beardy! Was I that boring? Hey. I’m sorry but you lost me when you
started defining stuff. So, explain again how this is going to help me learn how to
attract a girl? Okay, while dating somebody different from
you could be quite exciting and challenging, let’s be realistic here. In order to get
girls to chase you, you should at least share something in common.
And, it doesn’t even have to be great, big things.
Do you like the same cake? Do you like your coffee black?
Did you go to the same school? If you answered yes, then that’s a start.
Such small similarities will induce feelings of warmth and fun which will eventually lead
to attraction, well, at least according to the concept of homophily.
Just think of it like this guys: she’s more likely to hang out with you when she finds
out that you ALSO love watching Star Wars. So go my padawan, may the force be with you.
Short on questions you can ask your girl to see how similar you are? Check out this video
for more conversation starters. #1 Pretty Plenty
Alright guys, I think for this one we might need the help of good ol’ Professor Beardsley.
Hey! I heard my name… Yes. I think you’ll be able to help us explain
the abundance mindset. Oh, the abundance mentality is the thinking
that there is plenty for everybody. Or that everything in this world is abundant.
This mindset has been explained by Stephen Covey in his most popular book: The 7 Habits
of Highly Effective People. Oh, thanks Professor! So guys, you may be
wondering what this has to do with dating and how to get a girl to like you.
Well, it’s simple. If you have an abundance mindset, you won’t think that you have to
compete with anyone other than yourself. Imagine this. Greg is in his late 20s and
he currently doesn’t have a girlfriend. Now, since Greg doesn’t have the abundance
mindset, he thinks that he’s running out of time.
He chases every girl he meets and tends to rush potential relationships. Now, do you
think he’ll land a girlfriend anytime soon? I don’t think so.
In essence, people with the abundance mindset focus more on what they have instead of focusing
on what they don’t have. And in doing so, they’re able to go through
life with a more positive outlook and less anxiety about what they might miss out on.
Basically, they see the light in everything. Not the light at the end of the tunnel.
Want to know more tricks on how to get a girl to chase you? We have a separate video for
that. Check it out. Oh wow, it’s now time for our bonus.
Which means it’s time for us to tell you the one thing that you should NEVER do because
it chases girls away rather than attracts them.
Ready? Don’t try too hard. This is because, according to experts, trying too hard can
is pointless and it can actually backfire. They call this the “white bear problem”.
Try this simple experiment. Try not to think of a white bear.
Try very hard. Let me guess what happened to you. You thought of a white bear, right?
That’s it. See, by trying too hard to do something, the
opposite actually happened. For example, don’t wear her dad’s cologne while testing out
the Familiarity Effect from our 4th item. That’s just creepy.
Something like that will make her want to avoid you instead of chase you. So, don’t
try so hard. Know when to stop and she’ll eventually chase you. If she doesn’t, then
maybe it’s time to move on. Do you know any more psychologically-backed
tricks on how to get a girl to chase you? Let us know in the comments below.
Your Conclusion Did you know that we have more tricks up our
sleeves to make her chase you? Check out this video we published which has over 2 millions
views. It talks of 10 powerful tricks that are just as good and equally as effective
as the ones we have in this video. Thanks for watching!