Hello ladies and gentlemen. Welcome back to my
channel. As a relationship expert and a therapist, I am
always on the prowl for unexpected flirting hacks that
actually work. Whether you are a guy who likes a girl, a
girl who likes a girl, a girl who likes a guy or any of those
other combinations; flirting is one of the fastest ways to
get someone to notice you and to let them know that you
think they are dope.
Without further ado, today's video is the Top 20 TEEN
FLIRTING HACKS that you need to try. And if you have
any trusty flirting hacks, let me know what they are in the
comments below. Disclaimer right now guys, effective
flirting is subtle and intriguing so I am not a supporter of
ever just throwing yourself at someone. "Oh, my God, I
am so sorry I bumped into you, but your pecs are so
hard." No. Guys these tips today are way more effective
than that and they are going to make your crush be
intrigued by you and want more but not feel like they
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Flirting hack number one is to tag them in a funny or
hilarious post, whether it be on Instagram, on Twitter or
another form of social media. This one will let them know
that you are thinking of them and that they are in that
group of people that you are engaged with at the moment,
but it is also not so isolating that it is centers them out and
makes them feel awkward or makes them feel like you are
totally head over heels for them. This is guaranteed to
make them laugh a little bit especially if the post has like
a flirtatious undertone and it will definitely lead to further
discussion.
Flirting hack number two is to ask for help with
something. Now obviously, you don't want to seem
helpless, but it is okay to be a little bit vulnerable
sometimes and this one is super subtle. So, for example
guys, when I was younger, I actually asked a cute guy on
a plane to help me lift my suitcase into the baggage
compartment. For the record guys, I could totally lift it, it
wasn't even that heavy. It was just a really awesome way
to start up a conversation. You could also try this if you
are at the grocery store and you have a list, but you are
not sure exactly what something is. "I totally need shallots
for my recipe, is this a shallot?"
Flirting hack number three is to give them a knowing
look. If something interesting is happening around you,
do not let the opportunity to make contact pass you by.
So, if you are waiting in line somewhere and you see the
person at the front emptying their wallet and leave
pennies on the counter, look at your target and give them
like a knowing smile and laugh. A shared experience of
something funny that is just between the two of you sets
the tone for further conversation.
Number four is setting a time limit for your flirting. Now
this one might seem a little bit weird, but if you
immediately mention at the beginning of your
conversation that you have to go in five minutes, or a
certain period of time; this immediately makes you seem
more desirable but also helps your target relax a little bit,
because they know that there is no pressure. Guys it is so
genius.
Number five, when you are in that conversation, get out at
the right time. If you feel like the conversation is reaching
its peak, then it is almost certainly the time to get out of
that conversation. Your goal is to leave that conversation
on a high note and leave the other person wanting more
and wondering what else you could have talked about.
The last thing in the world you want to do is cover all
possible topics, because you have so much time, leaving
you with nothing more to say.
Flirting hack number six is to compliment, though be
careful not to overdo it because it could come on too
strong. I personally think that the best way to compliment
someone is to do it in a text message actually after the
fact. "You looked so cute in that romper today. Your new
hair looks really good on you."
Number seven, if you are having trouble finding topics of
conversation, just bring up someone that you know
mutually and talk about them. Science shows that we are
more likely to like someone if we feel like we have
something in common with them, so your mutual friends
is the best place to start.
Number eight is to get the scoop. So, ask your crush to
tell you the story behind something that you notice. So,
whether that is a tattoo or like an article of clothing,
getting them to open up about something that might be a
little bit more personal, shows that you are interested in
learning more about them.
Number nine is replying with something funny to one of
their Snap Chat stories so whether that is like a funny
emoticon or is like LMAO, sending this shows that you
have enjoyed watching their story enough to comment
something.
And number ten is really good, it is to send a subtly sexy
snap. So, what I mean by subtly sexy is that it is on the
exact border between a purposely sexy picture and a
picture that you didn't mean to be sexy. The goal of this
one is for your crush to be wondering whether you meant
to send them like a sexy pic or if this was just like
something totally innocent. You can do this by showing
like a tiny bit of skin, like a tiny, tiny bit or having your
hair just like a little bit messy or even just laying down
playfully in your bed. You could do anything so that you
didn't mean to be sexy right?
Flirting hack number eleven guys, this one is super
important. One thing that we are all guilty of is getting
just a little bit weird around our crush. It is almost like we
don't want to admit that we enjoy talking to them or that
we are having a good time. We don't want to seem too
happy, because we don't want to weird them out. But
guys, this almost never gets us read. So, if you are
genuinely happy to see someone, just smile, tell them that
you enjoy talking to them and seem excited to be there. It
is not a crime you guys.
Next if this is someone who you have never talked to
before, it is really important that you say something right
away. After an initial approach, anything more than like 2
or 3 seconds, makes for a lot of awkwardness. So, if you
are going to actually approach someone, make sure you
say something right away, because waiting too long can
definitely interrupt that flow.
Flirting hack thirteen is focus on friends. Taking the time
to entertain and engage your crushes friends by telling
jokes and stories shows them that they are not the sole
person that you care about and also demonstrates your
social value. If your crush's friends see you as the most
entertaining, amazing person in the world; what kinds of
things do you think they are going to tell your crush when
you are not around? That's right. They are going to do
those things.
Moving on next to number fourteen is to use your eyes.
The eyes are the window to the soul but they also totally
help you flirt. When flirting with someone, you should be
trying to draw their attention to your eyes. Looking the
person right in the eye when you are chatting sends a very
clear message. "I am not trying to get out of this
conversation, I enjoy talking to you and hmm, I might be
attracted to you."
Number fifteen is batter up. Now I personally love the
classic move of the eye bat. I don't hear of anyone who
thinks it is cheesy. I think it is super vulnerable. All you
have to do guys is look down and flutter your eyelashes a
couple of times. Like this.
Sixteen is to appear friendly and as open as possible.
According to science guys, getting approached in public
has almost nothing to do with your looks and almost
everything to do with your demeanor and your attitude.
So, people who stand up straight, smile and keep their
posture open, are a lot more likely to be seen as confident
and attractive. Oh my gosh, I think it looks so cool.
Now number seventeen is one of my favorite flirty moves,
like ever. Girls and boys, it is the bend and snap. If you
have been subscribed to Ask Kimberly forever, you know
this one. It is included in the movie Legally Blonde. Now
while the bend and snap might seem like something that
was invented for a movie and something that might be a
bit cheesy, it is actually so, so sexy if you get it right. The
next time you drop something, bend over really slowly to
pick it up and then pop back up arching the muscles of
your back and flipping your hair. I feel like maybe one
day we should do a video specifically and exclusively on
the bend and snap because then I can show you guys
exactly how you should do it. Do you guys actually want
that? Tell me in the comments below. Because guys, if
you get this just right, it can make you seem so confident.
Number eighteen is to get your touch on. So, this can start
totally small, so even if you just shake someone's hand or
give them a hug when you first see them; that is a form of
touch and it actually breaks the touch barrier for more
touch to be used later. So, I think touch should be used
very lightly like a subtle touch on the arm, the hair, or
even the face. When you are just flirting, touch should
never have like intensity, like you should never have like
your whole hand on someone's face or on their arm, like
that is just too much. During flirting, it should always be
light and super playful, because this actually stimulates
nerve endings which can actually totally turn a person on.
Flirting hack number nineteen is to ask your crush a
personal question. You can ask them about their family,
what they are most afraid of in the world or even the most
embarrassing thing that has ever happened to them.
Inviting somebody to share something really intimate
with you shows them that you are interested in deepening
that relationship and that you don't just see them as like a
casual acquaintance.
Okay guys, number twenty. We have made it to the end of
our flirting hacks. I really hope you have loved them.
Number twenty is to practice often. Flirting is so fun and
the more you do it, the better you get. You do not have to
limit your flirting to just your crush. You can flirt with
anyone, it could be the cute server at the restaurant. It
could be the cute pizza delivery girl. I don't care. It could
be the cute grocery store stock boy. It doesn't really
matter you guys, but practice makes perfect, just like with
anything else in life.
So, if you guys use these tips you can be a totally
effective flirt and most importantly, you can have fun
with the experience of flirting.
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