hey guys it's Tim from success insider here and in today's video we're gonna
be basically covering topic over how to take action without hesitation
okay and this is a question that is asked a lot in success insiders secret
group our facebook private group and basically a lot of you have been asking
me you know how do you take action because I keep on you know hesitating or
something is happening in their life that's really holding them you know you
usually fear something on the lines of that sort of deal so we'll be covering
this topic I'll be revealing five action steps that you must try in order to
really move your life forwards and as always guys if you haven't tried these
steps you must try why because as Einstein famously once said
insanity is doing the same thing over and over expecting different results
right so if you're not happy with your current outcome
you must try something new right in order to have something different in
your life you must do something differently it sounds so simple but very
few people do what they know so one of the most famous life coaches Tony
Robbins said it is a moment of decision your destiny is shaped right it is in a
moment of decision your destiny is shaped so a lot of people know that
action is critical in order for them to really move forwards in their life right
so they have made a decision on something but they're still hesitating
on that action thus holding them from basically reaching their dream self
right their destiny and so why is it that so many people know what it is that
they want and have made the decision but they're still holding back
well it's usually guys it's usually down to the fact that they're being selfish and so
this is the first point on I want to talk to you about right in order for you
to really stop hesitating on taking action is you have to stop being selfish
what do I mean by that basically guys is that you have to stop thinking about
yourself it's a very hard trait considering we're all self-centered
humans from birth right we're born alone we die alone
but you have to look at the bigger picture whatever you're trying to do in
your life right in let's say health well for love whatever you're trying to do it
will impact others along the journey if you're trying to create a big business
right it's going to help a lot of people or hopefully it will because that's the
only way you will create a big business right business is basically adding value
to people's lives so you have to basically look at the bigger picture and
no longer make it about yourself it has to be about other people what value will
it provide to other people if you take action right say you're hesitating on
basically asking a girl for their number or taken out for a day well you may very
well be a future husband right and in order for you to contribute value to her
you have to go bloody approach her right she may be a very lonely girl you're the
guy to make her happy that's still a former contribution and value is it not
visualize the fact that whatever it is you're trying to do you're going to
succeed and it's going to change the world right whatever idea it is whatever
mission you have got you have to look at the bigger picture and realize that when
we all die one day because guys you will die our time is limited
every second going by is a moment in our time that is eventually gonna you know
blow out right so what you have to realize is once you're gone you don't
wanna be the richest guy in the graveyard you want to be the guy who has
left a legacy that have literally changed the world okay Steve Jobs was
always implying this traits in speeches about the fact that his mission is not
to be the richest guy in the graveyard he said his mission was to create the
greatest products that you know human beings have seen that will change their
lives of masses the people who used Apple products and that is the reason why
he was working on the iPhone 4s during his death right on his deathbed he was
working on this business even though he was about to die why
because his picture why he want to do that is huge right his um his why his why
on why he's taken action is not about him it's about other people
it's about contribution is about adding value to other people's lives it's no
longer about him and that's what basically pushed him forward and that's
what made him you know such a successful entrepreneur who have left a massive
legacy on this planet and will continue to as long as Apple brand survives right
this is a classic example of how you should not be selfish no longer make it
about yourself guys you have to look at the bigger picture of life okay
the second point guys is basically clarifying your life's mission right
your dream life what do you really want to achieve in your life what sort of
legacy do you want to leave behind what do you want people stood around your
grave or funeral right stood around you to say about you right the positive traits you
have to look at your end goal right what do you really want to have achieved by
the time you die and once you've really clarified that end though you need to
start chunking it down say your end goal is to become a millionaire well start
chunking it down into let's say five year goal and then three year goal one year goal
and then start doing into monthly goals weekly goals and daily goals right and
then you can start ticking it off as you go along you it's all about setting
goals right but not setting these well big visions just say yeah yeah it's
gonna get there one day it's about chunking it down as well so
clarify life's mission the reason why life's mission clarify your life's
mission is so important is the fact that it acts as like a flagpole right you
plant in the ground and when the life swings try to blow you down you've got
something to hold on to because life never operates on a straight line you
will be chunk obstacles you will be thrown down face flat you know you'll be
felt you'll feel horrible at times you'll
feel like giving up that time but as long as you've got a life
mission right you know exactly why you take an action because you want to get
there you want that legacy to be left behind you want those particular traits
want to be remembered for so make sure to clarify life's mission and really write
it down and really tell yourself every day every time you're hesitating this is
what I want and this is why I'm doing what I'm about to do okay the third point
guys is basically set at least one goal a day that really pushes you forward
right set at least one goal a day because it's all about being better than you as
yesterday right you always want to be trying to improve yourself on a day to day
basis you always wanna be analyzing your day-to-day habits and what's
happened if something's happened that was negative today or last week you wanna
go back to that day and basically ask yourself how can I be better
moving forwards today right it's all about self-improvement self-development
it's all about improving how you are on a day to day basis because basically
small chunks is what makes the bigger picture right a mountain wasn't you know
a man doesn't build a mountain by just chucking it onto the planet a man builds
a mountain by basically grabbing one stone at a time right it crates the
bigger picture right imagine like Lego bricks and you're just building this
huge mountain one at a time that's exactly what this is all about it's
about setting daily goals that gets you to your dream life right setting goals
that you know pushes you forwards and really makes you strive towards success
so guys try it set at least one goal from now on every day and make yourself
better than you was yesterday if you make mistakes today it's fine just make
sure you've learned from yesterday's mistake make sure you don't make that
same mistake today right learn from them grow from them and so forth move forward
right every every passing moment every passing second is a new chance for you
to really turn around and really you know try again right every passing
moment in your life is a new chance so this is your new chance to be better
okay the last point is basically turn into habit so everything I've mentioned
to you during this video yeah it's all fun and games you might give it a shot
on Monday but by Friday are you still doing it the difference between a lot of
successful people and a lot of unsuccessful people is that successful
people are able to create things and actually do it on a day to day basis so
a trait that a lot of average people share is they give something a shot and
then they it just slowly fuses out right so in order for you to really chuck
yourself into the 5% right and make yourself successful you're gonna be
one that's different that carries on that creates things into habits and you
know when their minds you know your mind saying to you I can't be bothered you're
the one who steps up to the game what you have to realize guys is that the
same voices in your minds right that's holding you back is the same voices that
is being heard in the guy's mind that's next year okay so you have to realize
that people all have these inner voices that really holds them back so it's up
to you to decide are you the one that's gonna step up are you the one that's
gonna move forwards or are you gonna be like the guy next to you who just
holds back and just listen to his inner voice that's humming back inside oh I
can't be bothered to go into the gym I can't be bothered to start a business
right don't copy other people you have to be different if you wanna be
successful be different from other people and create things into a habit
it's easy to meditate once it's not easy to constantly do it so are you the one
whose gonna create things into a habit if you're watching videos like this I'm
sure you are so make sure to move forwards on this the last point is
basically pain and pleasure and a mistake a lot of people have made is
basically not really our fault but it's are more like our minds fault is that we have
linked pain and pleasure to the wrong things so let's say and usually people
who are large you're obese have linked pleasure to eating a lot of food and
pain to eating less amount food right let's see unsuccessful people have
linked pleasure to finishing work at 5:00 p.m. and going home and just
resting and they have linked pain to working starting work at 9:00 a.m.
starting work at Monday after their weekend off right in order for you to
become successful and just basically take action you have to question your
beliefs around pain and pleasure what is it that's holding you back from action
usually is the fact that you've linked more pain to taking action instead of
pleasure right so you have to question that belief system in your mind right
now right what is your mind saying when you want to take action is it actually
saying oh I don't wanna take action because I think this will happen or if
it's a pain emotion you have to change it you have to start reconfiguring that
programming and start think to yourself how can I link that with pleasure right
think yourself the positive outcomes of what could happen instead of the
negative and focus on that positive and take action moving forwards right
because if you link pain to action you are never going to take action but if
you link pleasure to action you will never hesitate right think of all the
opportunities that will happen from you taking action and think of everything
that you will attract right that you want to attract from you taking action
or think about how taking actions gonna contribute massive amount of value to the
world and towards your bigger dream right without you taking action you will
never get to your end goal you will never help other people in the world
you'll never leave a legacy you will never have you know people stood around
your funeral caring about you saying the stuff that you want them to say about
you this is a power of really questioning your belief system about
pain and pleasure you know what have you really linked pain and pleasure to in
your mind once you find that out your life will never be the same again really
start questioning what your mind is saying you guys and analyze it and once you do
that you really start reaping the benefits so guys that is it from me I
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video I'll see you next time have a great time and make sure to take action
as always see you soon