hey guys it's practice psychology and in this video improvement pill is going to
be teaching us how to text girls with the intention of setting up a date and
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mentorship in the link below it guys improvement pill here for those of you
who don't know who I am I run a channel very similar to practical psychologies
today we're going to be talking about yet another popular topic that you guys
have been requesting how to text girls nowadays more and more people are
communicating using instant messaging this includes things like Facebook
messenger Instagram snapchat and of course good old-fashioned texting which
is why today I'm going to show you exactly what the most effective way of
messaging and texting a girl is especially if your goal is to start
something more than just a friendship now before we get started I want to
clarify something about texting texting is not something you want to do a lot of
in fact you should keep your texting to a minimum the number one goal of texting
should be to set up a face-to-face interaction this is because the more you
text someone the more time it looks like you have think about it this way if
you're a guy who has a lot going on in his life you have projects to work on
you have hobbies to enjoy you have friends that you hang out with how often
do you respond to texts not often that's because when you're having a good time
when you're enjoying life you're not on your phone so the more you text someone
the more free time it looks like you have the more free time you have the
more of a looser you look like and girls are very keen to picking up on this
funny enough a very strange thing happens when you stop responding to
messages as frequently as you used to in fact it's happened to me multiple
times I'll be having a conversation with a girl over to incident and she'll say
something I'll take a look at it and then get sidetracked on my business or
what's in front of me lo and behold four hours later the girl messages me again
trying to restart the conversation why do they want to respond to conversation
well it's because they know that I'm somebody was a very fun life a life so
exciting and fun that I honestly forgot to respond to them and they want in they
want to hang out with somebody like that alright so enough with that let's talk
about the actual context of texting again I want to emphasize that the
number one goal for texting should be to set up a face-to-face interaction this
is mainly because attraction is most easily built in person how are you going
to display confident body language playfully touch her and have an intimate
private moment over text it's not possible you can't even if you're
extremely good at all three of those things but you never meet
up with her in person she'll never know that you have them the number two goal
is to show her that I'm fun if you're not fun why would anyone want to hang
out with you and of course the best way to teach this is with a real-life
example so I'm going to pull a random interaction I had with a girl on tinder
which is something that I stopped using a long time ago so the first thing I do
is look at a profile 99% of the time you're going to have to send the first
message messages there are somehow related to her profile have the highest
response rates so I noticed that she says friends only and I'm going to tease
her about it my mentality when it comes to texting is to have fun and make
really stupid jokes so as you can see right here I throw in a cheesy little
joke the next thing I bring up is where she's from this is called a qualifying
question it gives me some information that I will need in order to meet up
with her in person it gives me an idea of where our good
spots that I can bring her it brings me one step closer to getting her number
and meeting her face to face so the next thing you'll notice me doing is talk
about her work here I'm doing two things first thing I say is that it's boring
which shows her I don't mind speaking my mind the second thing I do is I throw in
another qualifying question that is related to the subject at hand if her
work is boring she must do something fun right this does two things number one is
it puts her in a position where she needs to prove herself
so think oh I'm not boring I do this and this were fun and number two is it gives
me more information as to where I can bring her if she likes drinking we can
go for a drink if she likes smoking hookah we can do that whatever it is it
doesn't really matter so I find out that she likes drinking and I tease her about
it because while she's technically under age the type of teasing humor is called
role-playing and it's extremely powerful if she chooses to play along with it
which she does I make another joke and I immediately ask her another qualifying
question this one is especially important as now I'm only a couple of
steps away from actually hanging out with her in person and you'll notice the
pattern here I always say something that is fun and then I immediately ask a
qualifying question I show her that I'm worth hanging out with and I make a move
to actually get us to hang out she plays along because she actually thinks that
I'm fun a good tip to keep in mind is to never say things like do you want to or
would you like to you want a Fraser sentence so that you're suggesting
something for both of you guys to do she can still say no she wants to
but this portrays more confidence okay so she's done with the plan I tell her
that I'm going to text her a day or two before the actual date and I ask for her
number which she gives me I don't text her again until the day
before the date and the only thing I ask is are you still coming and I also give
her the details that's it no more texting in between so as you can see
this is basically how I text girls i text them as little as possible with the
primary goal of setting up a face-to-face interaction which is
basically a date my other goal is to make sure that I
sound as carefree and fun as possible again guys my name is improvement Hill I
want to channel similar to practical psychologies and if you guys are
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