so welcome to the final video in this series which looks at how to give really amazing erotic massage
and touch if you haven't already done this i recommend watching the other videos in the
series which i will link to in the description box so let's check out my final professional tip
that's going to help you to take your intimate and sexual experiences to a whole new level
i'm libby at touch of happiness massage i'm a body worker and an intimacy coach
i teach couples and individuals how to give and receive intimate and sensual massage
and have more relaxation and connection in their sex lives
this is a concept that if it clicks for you will really transform the way you touch
and approach intimacy it means paying attention to what is actually happening
rather than what you think should be happening or what your habitual routine might be
we all develop our comfort zones when it comes to touch and intimacy you might have a set of moves
that you believe are effective and successful but again those are often rooted in the goal-oriented
performance-based approach to intimacy that requires you to achieve something
and dazzle with your sex wizardry you can study all the fancy techniques and use all the
exciting brightly colorful toys but if you're not present and responsive to the person you're with
you will only ever be connecting on a superficial level it's also the case that what works for one
partner won't be pleasurable for another even if you've been together for 40 years and you
think you've pretty much got it sussed when it comes to pleasuring your partner stroke here
tap there twiddle this and like a predictable machine will get to the goal but consider this
your lover is brand new every day a unique set of experiences hormones stresses needs and desires
by approaching them with the intention to get a certain response or result from their body you
are limiting their experience of sensation and pleasure if you allow yourself to relax to move
beyond the narrative and conditioning of your mind and to slow down enough to tune into the
moment moment-to-moment sensations and responses of their body they will be able to expand out
of the habitual narrow passageway of sensations and into more meandering
full body experiences of orgasmic sensation so in collaboration with all the previous points
that i've covered in these videos allow yourself to be curious to pay attention to the subtle and
non-verbal responses of your partner's body how they breathe how they tense up how they
relax or move make sound the goosebumps on their skin and the flush in their cheeks this approach
has the potential to bring you both into a far more meditative flow state during massage
and intimacy and opens up the opportunity for new tender erotic unexpected and orgasmic experiences
for more ideas and tips that will help you to feel more relaxed present and pleasured during
sex and intimacy remember to hit those like and subscribe buttons and i'll see you very soon until
then please remember to keep touching enjoying and exploring your beautiful bodies everyone
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