I talk a lot about attraction on this channel, how to trigger attraction or build attraction.
That's what's going to be key in getting you to the point where you're getting lots of dates
where women are going to want to see you again. You're going to be able to have the sex and
dating life that you want. It all starts with triggering attraction. A lot of guys,
they might kind of casually learn a few things and try to implement it, but they don't take the time
to master it. On this video, I want to be able to give you an implementation plan so you can
master it so you can get good at it so you're having a dating life that you enjoy because
you're learning the proper tools to meet and attract women. First, you have to understand
that attraction happens because you are spiking her emotions. There's a saying that men are a
little bit more logical, women are more emotional. And because that's the case, you're trying to tap
into her emotional side to be able to attract her. Now listen, at the end of the day attraction
is an emotional reaction even for men and women. But when it comes to women, it's not going to be
as heavy on the looks as you think it is. I know that. That's a huge disagreement here
on the internet that looks are the biggest thing. And I will agree looks do matter. Of course,
if you're a good looking guy, if you're a tall guy, it does help you. However,
you might be a person who's not that great looking. Does that mean you're doomed?
No it doesn't mean you're doomed. You work with what you got. And then you use your personality
and your behavior to trigger attraction, to hit that emotional spike. The thing is
looks only go so far. That's because your personality and your behavior, that's
harder to fake. That has such a heavier weight in building attraction when you meet a woman. Don't
underestimate the power of your behavior and your charisma when you are talking to women. This is
how you're going to be triggering attraction. Of course, I'm gonna be teaching you (if you don't
know already) a little bit of a teaser into my attraction formula which is called TED. It stands
for tension, entertainment and dominance. If you want to learn more and go deeper into
understanding TED and how to implement it, you can check out my Hooked program. But on today's video,
I'm going to give you just a cool couple of exercises that you can do that will help trigger
attraction with the women that you meet. Real quick, that link is down in the description below
if you want to check out the Hooked program which is a video course teaching you more about
attraction. Let's dive in. Tension, that's the T in TED. That is building sexual tension. There is
no better way to do that than eye contact. A lot of guys don't take advantage of this. And it's
funny because it's easy but it's not easy. Like in theory it's easy. It's like okay eye contact,
that's gonna help a lot. It's gonna make you also look not nervous when you're talking to a girl.
And so in theory, it's kind of easy because it's simple, but in practice it is a little difficult
and it's something that you have to practice. I remember when I was trying to learn eye contact.
It was hard for me to talk to her and have eye contact. It was easy for me to listen and give eye
contact but I seem to look all over the place when I was talking. You got to practice both of those,
talking to her and looking at her in the eyes. And listening to her and looking at her eyes.
Because the eye contact is what creates the connection between you and her. That's why it's
so powerful in building tension. Let's go to the next one. E for entertainment. Entertainment means
self amusement. It means entertaining yourself when you're talking to a woman. Having fun,
being able to be silly, say some jokes. It makes you look more comfortable and
confident when you're talking to a woman. And more importantly, it helps you have fun in the
interaction. You shouldn't make this too big of a chore. You should be having a good time.
And so I broke this down. I thought okay, what's the best way to teach entertainment? Well,
when someone is having a good time, when they're enjoying themselves, there's a difference in the
tone of their voice and the speed of their voice that changes throughout the interaction. Maybe
you're talking like this talking really fast. And then maybe you're talking slow like this.
You change your tone quite a bit. As you're showing your personality and displaying your
personality. If you're monotone like this and boring and you show no personality at all,
she's going to think that you're strange and it's going to be a weird interaction.
It is always fun to help spike her emotions and change up the interaction
by varying the speed and the tone of your voice. That's entertainment. Let's go into D
dominance. We're talking about the TED formula here. This is what helps spike attraction. I'm
going to help you master this because there's a way to break this down and make this work for you.
Just wait a second here while I finish. D is for dominance. This just means you're always leading.
You're the one who's always leading the interaction. You're approaching, you're
setting up the date, you're texting her to set up the date, you're finding the place, you're going
for the first kiss, you're going for sex, you're the one who's leading the whole interaction.
That's all there is to that. That one's a pretty easy one if you ask me. I feel like
guys just don't realize they have to do that in order to escalate the process and continue it
further to get her more invested in you. How do you master this? The way to master this
is you can take each of those categories that I said and you can practice them. I know this is
gonna sound like a lot of work but you will master this. Hear me out for a second. We take tension,
we take entertainment, we take dominance, we take three months, each of these months, you're going
to be practicing each category. For month one, you only focus on tension, building tension,
giving good eye contact, again, more examples in the Hooked program. But you can start there. The
second month, work on entertainment by changing the speed and the tone of your voice. Then D
dominance leading. That one, I don't know if you need a full month to work on that. But still,
why not just take that for one month and make sure you're focusing on that and only that? By that
time you should be getting more dates if you're doing enough approaches or at the very least are
going enough first dates and then you can lead the interaction towards kissing, towards sex,
and so on and so forth. That's how you master it. The way you master something is you break it down
into smaller parts, you pick pieces out, and then you focus on them for a long time. Most guys will
come to this YouTube channel or other YouTube channels, podcasts, whatever, there's so much
information out there. They try to do everything at once. It doesn't work. What you need to do is
break it down step by step so it encourages you to keep going and motivates you to keep going. If you
do too much at once you get overwhelmed and then you do nothing. And that's how mastery starts,
breaking it down piece by piece. Here's an exercise for you to at least start this
process which you can do literally right now. If you want to practice the tone of your voice,
the speed of your voice and varying it, go get your phone, pick out an article from the internet
and read it and practice changing the speed of your voice like I'm doing right now. And then
slowing it down a little bit. Practice the tone of your voice by talking in a downward inflection,
which is a commanding tone that is more attractive to women which I'm doing right now. See at the end
of every sentence it goes down in tone. More attractive, more commanding. That's something
you can practice when you are at home just to get this part of your life handled in terms of
understanding how to trigger attraction. If you need more help, check out the Hooked program.
There's a link down below. Hit that like button if this is helping you and you're understanding
how to use this process and how to practice it. I hope that helps. I'll see you on the next video.