Six signs that you have an ungodly soul tie. Now a soul tie is a strong spiritual and emotional
connection you have with someone after being intimate with them, usually engaging in sexual
intercourse. Now there are good soul ties and bad soul ties. The Bible says in Genesis chapter 44
that Jacob's life was tied to Benjamin. It's like a connection that he had with his son. And in fact
one of his other sons was saying that if Benjamin is to be no more, Jacob will die. That's a bad
soul tie. We see David had a soul tie to Jonathan. His soul was knit to Jonathan but when Jonathan
died, we don't see that David died. You know it was healthy, it's like this friendship that he
had with his close friend. We see that the tribe of Judah was knit to their king, in 2nd Samuel
20:2. We see that Shechem was strongly attached to the daughter of Jacob because of this sexual
intercourse that they had in Genesis 34:3. And we see as Christians in Colossians 2:2, in Colossians
2:19, that we as believers are knit together. That talks about this close connection that we have to
each other. Your soul is important to God. God wants you to worship Him with all of your soul,
according to Matthew 22:37. God actually wants to restore our soul in Psalm 23:3. Why? Because the
devil, when he attacks us, he doesn't just attack our spirit by causing us to die in our spirit.
Doesn't just attack our body, he also wants to tear our soul to pieces. According to Psalm 7:2 it
says, "Lest he tear my soul like a lion, rendering it to pieces, while there's none to deliver." And
so one of the ways that the enemy attacks our soul many times is through soul ties. Now here are six
signs that you could have a demonic, ungodly, bad soul tie that needs to be broken. Number one is
when you have an unhealthy attachment of a person. Sometimes it could be with a parent to their child
and with their child with their parent. Example that I've used is Jacob to Benjamin.
Other son said that if Benjamin is to be no more, Jacob will die. It's when you have this unhealthy,
now all parents love their children but when it's unhealthy attachment to your children,
you can't let it go. Or if something happens with your child and that's it and you're done, you
want to end your life. You can't live anymore. You can't let it go. It could be a sign that you have
an unhealthy soul tie that needs to be broken. A second sign is when you have an obsession.
So first one is when you have an unhealthy attachment. Second one is when you have an
obsession with the person. Now sometimes this specially deals with a person in authority.
It could be a pastor, or a mentor, or it could be somebody that you had a relationship with before.
Maybe it was an ex-boyfriend or maybe it was your ex-husband and the relationship did not work out
and you can't live. It's not just that grieving period that you're experiencing
after this relationship has ended, but it's been a long time and you're obsessing. You're only
constantly thinking about that person. You can't live without that person and maybe you
received that soul tie by being with them. You committed your soul and now you're heartbroken
and God wants to set you free from that. God wants you to move on. God wants you to move into
the next and God wants you to let go of the things that you've experienced in your past, and develop
healthy soul ties with people in your future, instead of being dragged on into your past by
the people of your past. Number three sign is when you are taking on the traits of another person,
that you have a soul ties. Addictions, attitudes, even particular mannerism.
Sometimes people will begin to you know defend that person, and they will begin to act out the
very habits that the person that they are having an attachment, an obsession and a soul tie with,
you begin to act like them. You begin to talk like them. You begin to have exactly the same attitude.
You begin to have exactly the same habits as they had. You begin to have same problems
that they do. You begin to actually, sometimes it's actually demons that will attack your life
through a soul tie. It's like you get the portion of that person's soul in you and you need to kind
of disconnect from that. You need to get rid of that. You need to let go of that through
forgiveness, through renouncing and sometimes removing different objects that you have had
from that person's life. Number four. It's when you are remaining in an abusive relationship and
you're defending a person who harms you. When you are remaining in a relationship that is destroying
you. Everybody sees it, everybody's warning you, "You need to walk away from this person. You need
to let go of this person." But you're literally stuck in this syndrome. In this thing where you
are still defending that person and you don't know why? It could be that there is an emotional
and spiritual soul tie, that you need to break and walk away from. The fifth sign that you have
an ungodly soul tie is when you're having reoccurring dreams, thoughts and fantasies
of this person from your past. It could be a friend, it could be your ex, it could be a pastor,
it could be a parent. It could be somebody that you were with. There's reoccurring dreams,
there's reoccurring thoughts and fantasies of the past that you have had with this person.
And that could be a sign that you have not broken off those soul ties. The sixth sign
that you have ungodly soul ties, is when you have in possession an object from the past relationship
and you're not able to throw it away. You're literally like obsessed with that object because
that object is really what those gifts, those jewelries, and those notes, and sometimes
even photos. They're the ones that keeping you connected to that person. And people who have
soul ties typically have a hard time throwing away those objects and those things that connect them
to that person they had a soul tie with. I want to encourage you today, if you find yourself in that
place that you ask the Holy Spirit to examine your heart and that you ask the Lord to forgive you,
for any way you have let yourself into that soul tie. Maybe it happened through sexual sin,
maybe it happened through some other things that you were involved. You disobeyed the counsel
and the wisdom of people who were telling you, "Hey, don't go into that friendship,
don't go into that relationship." But you still did it your way. That you repent of
that. That you also extend forgiveness to the person who maybe has taken advantage of you,
a person maybe who has misled you, lied to you and it resulted in that soul tie. Throw away
any objects that get you connected with that person and honestly, renounce that soul tie.
Renounce any power or influence that person has over your heart and soul, and begin to reconnect
with believers, friends, church, a small group. So that you can develop healthy relationships
by which you can grow, and most importantly, fall in love with Jesus with all of your soul.
Jesus wants you to love Him, not just with your spirit but with your body, with your mind,
and guess what? With your soul. But it's hard to do that if your soul is fragmented, if your soul
is broken into a million pieces and it belongs a little bit of it belongs to this person, a little
bit of it belongs to that person, a little bit of that belongs to that person. Get it all back
and give it to the Lord, and let Jesus be the object of your affection, obsession and pursuit.
Father I pray for every person watching this video, that You will give them Your grace.
I pray that You will right now restore our soul. Deliver them from the enemy that seeks to tear
their soul to pieces. Set them free right now, in Jesus name, amen. Hey, thank you for watching
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