A man of high value is a term that you've probably heard many times, but may not know exactly
what it refers to. And that's fair, it's gotten so many definitions over the years but essentially
being a man of high value means being that version of yourself that you've always strived to be. It's
the highest, best version of yourself. And being a high value man is basically the only way to
attract a high value gorgeous woman. However this high value version of yourself doesn't always come
easily! It's something you're consciously working towards but the good news is it's never too late
to start on your journey to becoming this man. So in this video I'm going to share with you
the core traits and characteristics that all men of high value have as well as how you can
cultivate them starting right now! If you want to be a high value man this year (2023) then you should pay
attention to every bit of this video because none of these pointers should be missed or glossed over
that being said let's start the video with trait number one self-respect self-respect is often an
overlooked idea when one seeks to be attractive man but that doesn't undermine its importance. A
high value man is a man who values and respects himself in a positive way and this goes beyond
just saying that you respect yourself and your ideas it is knowing that you're worthy and then
treating yourself accordingly. The very first and most important step to take in your journey of
building self-respect is building and staying true to your core values. Ask yourself: "What do I
value the most in life?" "Are my actions every day taking me closer to or further away from these
things that I value the most?" Your honest answers to this question will help you define your belief
system and condition your actions and reactions to fit with these beliefs respecting yourself
also includes taking care of yourself mentally emotionally socially and physically start paying
attention to the state of your body and your mind exercise 30 minutes or at least an hour every day
eat and sleep well spend time doing things that you enjoy and are passionate about prioritize
your needs and check in on yourself on a daily basis most men especially classical nice guys
are more oriented towards making others happy and they neglect themselves but you'll find that when
you take care of the needs that are essential to your own personal well-being you'll even
be in much better shape to take care of others number two responsibility a man of high value
is a man who takes responsibility for the things that happen in his life he doesn't blame other
people or his environment for his inadequacies he knows that he has the power to make things
happen and he does whatever it takes to get the job done he's not afraid to take on challenging
tasks because he knows that ultimately he is in control a responsible man has control over his
emotions and knows how to communicate them in the clearest and most mature way he's concerned with
working on his character flaws and being the best possible version of himself he sets goals
for himself and makes solid plans of action to achieve them responsibility is import important
because it shows maturity strength of character and leadership ability and these are two qualities
that women look out for when they're making a decision on who they want to date however it's
not something that just happens it's something that you have to build over time so keep these
Hallmarks of a responsible man in mind and make sure to practice them every time there's a need
for them no excuses next is purpose purpose is an intention or an end to be attained put
simply purpose gives a man a why to wake up and grind every single day a man of high value knows
what he wants in life and this desire or goal is what he now works towards every single day A Man
Without a purpose has no reason to work or plan to move ahead in life he just loafs around watching
sports and drinking beers all day and that type of man can't hope to achieve any type of success in
life when a man notices why he moves through life with a sense of direction and way more confidence
the good part is when you who have defined your values and you know what you like as well as what
you're good at it only takes a minimum amount of drive to develop a clear purpose for yourself next
is discipline discipline is what makes you able to behave and work in a controlled way for an
extended period of time which ensures that you achieve your goals discipline usually goes hand
in hand with consistency this is not an easy trait to build because it requires focus and
commitment but it's not impossible simply takes a considerable amount of practice the first step to
being disciplined is of course to have a purpose set and write down your clear goals then picture
yourself achieving them because your subconscious mind actually doesn't know the difference of you
visualizing your goals versus actually achieving them and in the book psycho cybernetics the author
talks about how your subconscious mind is a goal striving mechanism whatever clear goal you set in
your subconscious mind its job is to find evidence that goal that you visualize is a real reality
and when you visualize it it also gives you the drive to get started you start seeing yourself
achieving that goal and your conscious mind knows you haven't actually achieved it so it makes your
conscious mind develop a drive to actually achieve it and make sure not to overwhelm yourself trying
to do everything all at once start small but make sure to do it every day and even if you fail don't
get disheartened keep showing up without giving excuses but don't forget to celebrate your small
wins along the way because it'll motivate you to keep going number five is confidence
this trait comes naturally when you've developed the other traits that we've already talked about
high value men are confident in themselves their opinions values and abilities so much that it's
almost intimidating but of course much like the others it's not a level you get in just one day
building your confidence is not hard though it just takes appreciating your efforts and
celebrating your success when you have all these memories of you achieving success in several tasks
asks however small it won't be difficult to build the confidence that you need to take on
another much harder Challenge and confidence is so important because it immediately affects the way
you carry yourself and how you present yourself to others and studies show that confident men
are 400 percent more attractive to women than men who don't think they have anything valuable
to offer number six is self-awareness this trait is just a fancy way of saying it's important to
know thyself so if awareness is all about your ability to perceive evaluate and control your
emotions simply put it's that you can recognize that you're feeling some type of way when you are
you're aware of why you feel the way you do and you can control how you choose to express those
emotions self-awareness displays a high level of emotional intelligence and allows you to have an
equal level of empathy towards others which not only makes you a great leader but makes you a
very attractive boyfriend as well number seven is a growth mindset having a growth mindset is
what helps you reach that level of success that you've always dreamed of a growth mindset empowers
you to believe that you can develop yourself it inspires you and a passion for Learning and
upskilling yourself as well as resilience that's absolutely essential for achievement in any Walk
of Life a man with a growth mindset doesn't settle for less than the best he doesn't take no for an
answer and he doesn't just take whatever job comes his way he pushes through whatever adversity is
necessary to achieve his goals with hard work good strategies and positive feedback or reinforcement
he develops his talent and ultimately achieves his purpose number eight is rational optimism a man of
high value doesn't have an unrealistic belief in himself he can take a realistic assessment
of the present situation and still believe in his capabilities to get things done unlike the
Perpetual Optimus that assumes there's nothing to worry about even when he's heard something big
rustling around in the bushes or the pessimist on the other hand who runs for the hills at the
sound of you know the wind against the trees as a rational Optimist you have a perfect balance
of both extremes rational optimists analyze the downside and assess whether they can avoid ruin
if it all goes to bits so a rational Optimist will not put all of his savings on a Gamble and risk
bankruptcy he won't shy away from all Investments either because he's not assuming the worst the
goal is to seek opportunities where you'll survive even if it doesn't work out but you could win big
if the opportunity does pay off a rational Optimus makes Bets with huge upsides number nine last but
not least is assertiveness a man of high value is a man who knows how to take what he wants now
I don't mean you just take whatever you want from whoever you want without any disregard I'm talking
about a man who stands up for himself and being able to stand up for yourself in a calm respectful
yet firm manner is a key characteristic of a high value man assertiveness is the ability to
get your point across without being aggressive or causing arguments it's really the perfect balance
of passiveness and aggression being assertive can increase your self-esteem and also help
you earn the respect of others basically build your confidence and quit being a pushover no one
respects a man who can't fight for the things that he cares about alright that's it gentlemen these
are the nine key traits that you must develop this year to be a man of high value you might have more
work to do in some areas more than others and that's totally normal but they are all important
and must be equally considered practice building these habits a little bit at a time and after a
while they will all compound and make you the man that you were meant to be a man of high value and
if you want me and my team of coaches to help you become the best most attractive high value version
of yourself then click the link down in the description or to the right of the screen to apply
for coaching my name is Matt Artisan from The Attractive Man, and I'll see you in the next video.