You and your partner broke up, and you’re trying the no contact period.
It’s hard, but you know it’ll be worth it in the end… that is, if it works.
Hi guys, Brad Browning here and today I want to talk to you about the signs that no contact
is working.
As you may already know, I’m a relationship coach, breakup expert and author of the best
selling Ex Factor program.
Whether this is your first time watching or if you’ve been to my channel before, welcome
and thanks for joining us today.
If you’re watching this video, chances are that you’ve made the wise decision to try
the no contact period.
Good job!
As you may know, the no contact period is a strategy that I personally encourage people
to use, because if done correctly, it can stop a breakup in its tracks.
So, how can you tell if the no contact phase is working?
Here are three signs to look for:
Sign Number One: You’re Feeling Better
Now that the storm has passed you’re finally beginning to see the light again.
Inside you feel calm, and more like yourself than you did after the breakup.
You’ve been spending time working on yourself, and are feeling strong, self aware, and in
control.
With each day that passes your self respect grows.
Best of all, you’re not driven by reckless emotions that have caused you to be careless,
and you truly feel like a changed person.
This is exactly how you should be feeling, and is one of the biggest signs that the no
contact period is working for you.
Sign Number Two: Your Ex Contacts You
After weeks of not reaching out to your ex, they have now become interested in communicating
with you again.
They call, text, like your facebook photos, or have maybe even asked to meet up for a
coffee.
The reason that your ex is so interested in contacting you now is no surprise - the no
contact period is working!
Since you have been avoiding your ex instead of chasing after them, a few things have happened.
First of all, it’s likely that your actions, or lack there of, have caught your ex by complete
surprise.
By cutting off communication you have shown your ex that you’re stronger than they thought
you were.
The second thing that has happened since you’ve been avoiding your ex, is that they’ve forgotten
the negative memories that caused you to break up in the first place.
As a result, your ex is probably starting to miss you, and they may even be paranoid
that you're moving on - something they never expected you to do.
If your ex wants to stop you from leaving them behind, they'll have to take action.
As tempting as it may be, it’s important that you hold out and finish your no contact
phase before attempting to rebond with them.
Do not give your ex the opportunity to play with your emotions or put you in the friend
zone, especially not while you’re in the process of becoming a better you.
If your ex doesn’t contact you during the no contact period it doesn’t mean that the
no contact isn’t working, but maybe they just have an amazing poker face.
Believe me when I say that it’s still entirely possible that your ex does miss you, but they
may just be too stubborn to reach out right now.
Don’t give up on the no contact period, it works for a reason.
If you’re nearing the end of your no contact period and would like more information on
how to reconnect with your ex, what you should text them, or how to seduce them again, visit
my website BreakUpBrad.com and check out the full length video presentation.
I’ll be sure to post the URL in the video description below.
Sign Number Three: Your Ex Is Asking About You
One of the most powerful aspects of the “no contact” strategy is the way it sparks your
ex’s curiosity and creates a sense of mystery.
Think about it from your ex’s perspective: he or she was used to having you around as
a big part of their daily life, and all of a sudden you’ve disappeared…
that’s naturally going to cause your ex to wonder what you’re up to and why you’ve
vanished without a trace.
Most of the time, your ex’s curiosity is going to lead them to start digging for information
about you.
They might ask mutual friends what you’ve been up to since the breakup...
they might seem jealous when they hear about your newfound social life or the fact you’ve
been dating… hell, I’ve even had coaching clients tell me that they caught their ex
driving past their house late at night.
Your ex hopefully won’t do anything that creepy, but the simple fact of the matter
is that any indications that your ex is curious about what you’re up to are a clear sign
that the “no contact” strategy is working like magic.
Now that I’ve shared with you some signs that point to a successful no contact period,
I’d like to invite you to share with me some of the positive feelings you’ve been
experiencing since starting your no contact period.
You can post your stories in the comments below, and I’ll do my best to reply to each
of you.
If you’re worried that the no contact strategy might not work for you, or you’re not sure
if the no contact period is working, then I encourage you to sign up for my personal
coaching service.
I’m only available to help a limited number of people at a time, but you can see my availability
and learn more about my program at www.BreakUpBad.com/coaching.
I hope you enjoyed the video and are now confident that your no contact period is working, or
at least on the right track.
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Well that’s all for now, thanks again for watching, and until next time, take care!