kate middleton the duchess of cambridge married prince william 10 years ago and in that time she
has grown into one of the most popular members of the royal family so today i am looking
at how the duchess of cambridge is finally ready to become the queen consort to our future king
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kate middleton the duchess of cambridge is a class act in every sense but at the funeral of prince
philip her grace and poise raised the bar even higher than her own already very high standards
because i also think it's a really fine line between being in the spotlight and
stealing it which sadly is something that both diana and megan struggle to achieve
but whether you call her the duchess of cambridge catherine or simply kate she has achieved the most
perfect balance between allowing the public to gain this you know unguarded glimpse of who she
really is without ever taking center stage and trying to push the family that she mowed into
off the stage altogether well the duke of edinburgh he also managed to achieve this
perfect balance of duty to roll and also creating his own identity and there are so many that say
that the royal family would not be who they are today without him which also just emphasizes the
sadness of his death but the cycle of life works in mysterious ways because i also think that his
death has almost given rise to a royal consort who has the same ability to dedicate their life
to duty but also has the intelligence to see the bigger picture beyond their own immediate needs
the duchess of cambridge has learned a great deal from the duke of edinburgh because
they both understood what marrying into the royal family required and when they took their vows they
did it knowing and accepting that they were giving up basically their freedom and their anonymity in
order to become the consort to the future monarch they knew that it wasn't a role all lifestyle that
you can enter and hit the ground running it was a role that would take time to learn the knowledge
and master the behaviors and skills to become that much rock to the future queen or king
from the young girl called kate middleton in that she address on the catwalk of saint andrews
university catherine the duchess of cambridge has matured into a loving and level-headed wife
to prince william and a doting mother to george charlotte and louis but more recently she has
also proven her dedication to her role within the royal family slowly becoming the beacon of
light during the current dark times the duchess of cambridge has never shown as bright as she
did at the funeral of the duke of edinburgh but you often also give it to prince philip because
he also managed to shape the future of the royal family even after his death now i would love to
think that he was looking down at his family with this huge sense of pride and saying to himself
that was a job well done because if there was ever a way to raise the slightly tarnished profile of
the royal family and show the world what the so-called institution or the firm was really
all about i don't think there's one hollywood script writer or any team of a-list actors
could have delivered what the british monarchy showed the world on saturday the 17th of april
under the strict rules of the covid pandemic the royal family sent a message of what the british
monarchy is all about standing side by side those who value the family they were born into showed
solidarity and unity to anyone who would dare to question their vision or values and i for one
couldn't have been prouder of every single person there who represented everything that harry and
megan have tried to trash prince philip's funeral was all about him the military bands that marched
and played to perfection and every single member of the family would have made him so incredibly
proud the queen was also the epitome of strength and courage and watching her sit all alone without
her rock by her side almost made me see the past and the closing of a most incredible rain
but as her life's work is drawing to a close i also feel this one image says everything about
the future of the royal family the duchess of cambridge wasn't seeking the camera this will be
a split-second timing as the photographer waited for her eyes to momentarily glance down the lens
the mood is sombre yet stylish there is no posing or acting and there's no sense
of light's camera action everything about her shouts genuine real and sincere as always kate
conducted herself with impeccable grace and dignity i didn't think that she could ever be
more stylish than she always is but what she chose to wear seemed to take her up to that next level
and when the choker that was once lent princess diana with pearls that represent tears everything
about her radiated poise and dignity and her looking at this picture is almost like she's
saying to prince philip it's okay i'm now ready to take over where you left off i can do this
and i won't let you down her demeanor was one of maturity and one worthy of any future queen
whatever they hoped to achieve by damming the royal family the interview between harry megan
and oprah didn't paint a very good picture with kate she was blamed for making megan cry and it
looks like william will never be forgiven for caringly advising harry to take his time before
rushing into marriage so i think it would be very fair to say that kate was more than entitled to
keep her distance from harry but instead of crying victim and pulling her husband away
kate stepped up to show her true worth and sense of duty putting aside any feelings of bitterness
or resentment and taking the easy option of giving harry the cold shoulder she saw the opportunity to
extend the hand of friendship and take the first steps to reconciliation between william and harry
the outcome of those conversations i think is now irrelevant because i don't think the future
of the royal family has been damaged because for the monarchy to exist the people of the uk
and the commonwealth have to want it to exist and that means that they listen to
and respect those who are currently remaining and not those who have chosen to walk away so
i believe it would actually be the return of harry and megan that would cause the most damage
as we've not only fallen out of love with them we have lost trust and or respect
kate on the other hand has come through all of this triumphantly and she is now one of the most
loved and respected royals in the family the duchess of cambridge has her feet firmly on the
ground and getting to know the real kate at home as she connected with people who cared for us all
during the covered pandemic there is no doubt that she will do an amazing job when it's her turn to
become queen consort it's going to be a while before william is called to step up to the throne
but when he does we love catherine and we know that just like prince philip was with the queen
she will always be one step behind the king in public but right by his side in private
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